As a senior is it weird to ask a freshmen to prom? I dont plan on dating her or anything she's just cool to be around and I think we'd have a good time.

October 29, 2016

Hey, I don't think there's anything wrong with that. You both are in high school and you both should be able to enjoy prom and events like that together.

I have a crush on this girl i think she knows that. She randomly un followed me on my social media accounts. What does it mean and what do i do?

October 29, 2016

Hey, if she knows that you like her and she unfollowed you then something must have rubbed her the wrong way to feel like she doesn't want you seeing her stuff or she does want to be connected with you. I will try talking to her in person because you might be able to flip that type of mentality around if you can get to know her better in person.

My best friend always tries to text me every single day. It's annoying. Even when I don't want to talk, she will still text long msg in a minute to get me to talk. She says she doesn't like me like that, but she still be trying to text everyday and knows I don't like texting that much. Ugh help?

October 29, 2016

Hey, I can't imagine how annoying it must be to have someone constantly message you over and over when you don't really want to talk. The best thing to do is to let them know that you're not able to get to their messages all the time because you have things to do later in the day. Maybe being subtle like that might be enough.

I have a crush on this girl, but she doesn't talk to me much anymore. Any advise?

September 28, 2016

if you feel like your crush lost interest in you and it's on you to step up and try to rebuild your connection with her the best way to do that is to start talking to her again, ask her what she's been up to since you last spoke and try to really rekindle what you guys had

I'm eyeeing this girl at school. She's a freshman, I'm a junior. I'm too scared to get critizized for the that fact, so I haven't done anything. She hangs out w/ my bestfriend's brother's girlfriend, they hang out sometimes all together. What can I do for this girl to notice me? Hoco is 21 days away

September 28, 2016

hey, when it comes to being a junior and her being a Freshman I don't think its that big of an age Gap I would totally go forward and ask her out to homecoming and see where things go. Don't worry so much about what people say because if they see you to connect and get along they'll stop saying anything really quick

I saw a very pretty British fluent girl at the mall the other day. She asked something about the mall trolley. She rode the trolley & sat by herself… guess what I did, I just decided to look at her until she got to her destination & got off.That was the final time I saw her,I didn't even get her 📞#

September 28, 2016

hey man, sorry to hear that. There going to be a moments like that where you don't act and you freeze up try not to beat yourself up too much when they happen and when you do see opportunities like that try to step up to the plate and take action

Hey josh, what should you do if you're stuck in a love triangle?

September 28, 2016

if you feel like you're stuck in a love triangle the best thing to do is to try to figure out which partnership makes sense. is it you between two people that you like or do you like someone who likes someone else or something like that?

On my 3rd meeting i ask her for coffee she said yes and i ask for her number aswell and she gave it to me but after that she didn't reply me back now tomorrow is that coffe day and i confirm it today she said she have my number and she will let me know. What you want me to pursue??

Asif Altaf

September 28, 2016

if you made plans with her and she agreed to go with you then I would try calling her to confirm. do you feel like she gave you her number but then changed her mind?

i'm going to a new college were many of my friends aren't going because I want to experience something new. I don't know anyone. How do you break the ice? can you give me some tips on going to a new place thanks

September 08, 2016

This video on being the new kid in school might be just what you need: https://youtu.be/zrMn9cPsyog

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hey im starting college and I dont know no one im scared that ill be lonely and die. im not exaclty confident im rather shy. can you give me some tips and advice please? thank you

September 08, 2016

Hey, I made this video on building a social life in college which might be helpful: https://youtu.be/SKkw0_FCXXs

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Continuation: But the guy started "catching feelings" and she said she was gonna reject him. Could that happen to me now that I'm her friend? If I ask her out would that ruin our friendship? I'm in Middle School BYW. Please answer man!

September 04, 2016

Ohh i see, the best way to prevent that from happening to you is to start building a romantic connection before you ask her out. If you start flirting and joking with her in a way that shows that she conveys interest, it'll be way different from asking her out as a friend and then moving up from there.

Hey josh, can you please help me with this, I like this girl, it's the first girl I actually like and wanna ask out. I knew her one week ago, I'm kinda her friend and she's kinda my friend. One day I was pretty certain she liked me back until she mentioned she wanted to be best friends with a guy...

September 04, 2016

Hmm did she say she wanted to be just friends with you or some other guy? Either way if you like her, you should try to lead it to have a one on one experience with her. That way you can get to know her more personally and stsrt flirting with her to build something.

What's up Josh there's this girl who's really popular that I talk to once in a while any tips suggestions ect

September 04, 2016

If you want to build it to be something romantic, try to set up hang out time where its just you and her. That way you can be flirty with her and get to know her better. Ask her to hang out by inviting her to join you one time in doing something.

we are in high school

September 04, 2016

If you're in high school, you can always try doing things locally like grabbing food around school, hanging out at lunch or in between classes.

what do you use to edit videos

September 01, 2016

i record on a canon rebel t5i camera and i use adobe premiere to edit

i am a freshman and i like this girl. she is pretty shy and will only talk to me if i start the conversation first. what are hints that a shy girl likes you and what should i do for her to like me?

September 01, 2016

hey, if shes someone thats shy try watching this video to learn how to talk to her: https://youtu.be/0580AvnyMfc

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Hey josh any advice for getting girlfriends for guys who aren't the "flirty" type? I can talk to girls all day but getting them to like me is another thing, any tips?

September 01, 2016

Hey, when it comes to being flirty think about it like teasing a friend or a little sister. You make jokes about them, but its all in good fun. You can do things like call her a brat, say she acts like a diva or just make fun of something she likes to tease and flirt with her.

So my mom made me break up with my girlfriend cuz she didn't like her but I really really liked this girl. Yeah I'm young but I loved her. I miss her so much. I've been talking to the girl secretly tho and I want things to go back to how they were before my mom made us break up. Anything I could do?

September 01, 2016

Its hard sometimes when your parents dont want you to date someone. i think it might be best to maintain a friendship with her and when you're old enough try talking to your mom again and see where she stands.

Hi Josh my name is Quincy, and need some advice. I've known a girl since I started middle school 3 years ago and in 8th grade I fell in love with her. Over the summer me and her would text and she was the same.But now we're in high school and she seems evasive towards me. Please help me.

September 01, 2016

Its possible that now that shes in high school, her focus is on meeting new people and developing a new lifestyle. I would try talking to her in person but if you see shes really more focused on herself rather than maintaining friendships then it mighy be best to let her go.

how can i find out if a girl that i like is off campus for lunch and if she would like to talk and get to know me? without being creepy

September 01, 2016

Hey, the best way to not be creepy would be to just be casual about it. If shes in one of your classes or you see her around campus, try approaching her and asking her about classes, places to hang out on campus or places to eat. If you genuinely start a convo with her like that, she wont think its creepy since you're both college students.

Hey josh, in the beginning of the school year, I used to talk to this girl and we were good friends until I asked her to a dance where she said no, ever since, we've barely talked, any advice on how to start back up the relationship?

September 01, 2016

hey, it seems like asking her might have made things awkward. A good way to get things back on track would be to start talking to her regularly and to get into a normal groove where talking is normal for you two. The more distance between you two that exists, the easier it'll be for her to continue feeling like its awkward.

hey josh i like this girl from another high school in my high school school's district . i don't know her anymore what do i do?

September 01, 2016

Hmm if you two have grown apart, you could always try reaching out to her through social media and see if you can rebuild a friendship that way.

Hey josh love your vidoes my 13 friend who is a girl asked me to have sex with her i am 14 she dosent like me but thinks I am attractive any tips from 2 unexperienced young virgins like us?.

September 01, 2016

hey, i think the best thing might be to not have sex as young as you guys are. At your age sex might seem like fun but there is a lot tied to it, theres the chance of the girl getting pregnant, deep feelings being attached to it and more.

What was the last book you read without skipping through anything?

August 06, 2016

"Dear Mr. Rogers, does it ever rain in your neighborhood?" by Fred Rogers

I like to many girls is this bad like a lot and they all dont like me even my friends and i get insecure about my physical and emotional apperence i know you cant really help just wondering if this is normal.

August 05, 2016

Its totally normal to feel that way. the key is to get to know people better so you can find someone that you can connect better with. That way itll be easier to find a partner.

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