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How do I ask out the sexy lady at my school?

I didn't video all about how to ask out the popular girl in school which you should check out, its very similar to how you would ask out a sexy girl.

Girls like funny guys. How do I make her laugh without saying an offensive joke? Everyone has different sense of humor.

Sometimes guys have a crude sense of humor that girls don't really think it's funny. I would focus more on being witty and teasing her by saying things like you know you are like the worst person in the world right now and then smile at her. You're saying something so out there that she'll get that you're just joking around.

How I make the girl fall in love with me? And be more romantic

I have a video on my channel all about how to be more romantic. It's an older video to try searching on the channel to find it. Plus, can't make anyone fall for you but you can put forward your best self and see if that what they want in their life.

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Josh want do I do if I like a girl but she has a bf?

If a girl has a boyfriend the best thing to do is to probably not pursue her. The main reason is because you should be respectful of the fact that she's with someone because if you're with her hitting on her or ask her out. try to talk to girls and get to know more people to help get your mind off of her.

Why is my crush starting to have an "ignorative attitude" towards me? She never talks to me, never asks me something, never hugs me, is starting to reject some of my cheek-kisses... Is she scared of me? If did something wrong at least she should tell me right in the face so I could apologize...

Sometimes when people act distant because they may feel hurt by something that happened. try asking them what's wrong and be straightforward about it so that there's no miscommunication.

How do I ask out the popular girl?

Hey, I have a video all about how to ask out the popular girl. Check it out on my channel.

I am taking a class at another school. Just one class though. Should I be worried about making friends or no because it's just one class?

You shouldn't worry too much about making friends anywhere, don't worry about doing things sometimes by yourself. It's okay to have to experience once in awhile that's just about you enjoy that time and make the most of it.

Maybe getting her to cuddle with me? Would that be a good way?

If you can get a girl to cuddle with you just make sure its not in a friendly way and she's doing it because she likes you and wants to be close to you in a romantic way.

Were friends but we dont talk much how do i get to know her better again

If you guys have fallen off as friends a good thing to do maybe to approach her an address at by saying you know what I miss talking to you let's catch up and get to know each other again see how we've grown and our own lives.

How do I text a girl to keep her interested in me? And will always be waiting for texts from me?

You can't control how she feels in this case but you can shape your messages to have her waiting for the next one. a good way to do this is to say things like by the way remind me to tell you about that one time XYZ happened. She doesn't bring it up later make a joke and tease her about not reminding you.

I am going to be the new kid and I wanted to ask your opinion on something. Bye not saying anything will build mysteriousness for the people who don't know me which will make them approach me. Am I right?

change your mindset from wanting people to approach you to you wanting to approach people. The reality is people are more concerned with themselves than they will be with you so you need to make an impact in their awareness by talking to them. Once you do that they may start to build curiosity as to what you're all about it.

I asked my friend who is a girl what to say. And she told me not to say Hey I though you were cute. She said that's coming on too strong.

Sometimes it can come off strong if you don't have the personality to back it up. if you are the kind of person who's straight forward and say something like that, otherwise maybe try a softer approach.

How do I become more open to strangers

A good way to be more open to strangers is to approach them from a learning perspective. Try to get out of the mindset of will this person like me and seek out to learn about them. Share a story that's related to something going on "hey I just saw this movie and I wanted to know if you've ever seen it. What's your favorite movie?". Learn more about strangers and they'll be more interesting to you.

Hey josh, can you do a video on how to make new friends and advice for the new kid plz it would really help out my situation.

Part of the beauty of being the new kid is that people don't quite know you yet. That means you still have the ability to establish yourself as someone confident, fun, and exciting to be around. don't let others define who you are from the start. Take action and talk to girls that you're like, approach guys you think could be good friends and be vocal from the start.

Since I am homeschooled I don't have a lot of friends. How do I make more friends?

A good way to make friends is to dedicate some time throughout the week to social activities. That could mean going to the mall, a park, a bookstore near you and just starting up random conversations with people. you never know who you'll end up cooking with. But the key here is to just be open to newness in your life.

Can you please make a video on being the new kid. I am going to a new school next year and want to make friends.

Hey I will definitely make a video on being the new kid. That's a great topic and I hope I can help you feel comfortable when you start school.

How do I ask a friend out on a date without it being too obvious? What if she wants to bring her mutual friend(s) along? And how should I deal with the fallout (i.e. negative effects on our friendship) if she rejects me?

Asking a girl out on a date is always a risk but if you like her it's a risk that's well worth it. is she asked to bring a mutual friend then she may not think it is a romantic date or a date for the two of you to get to know one another. try specifying that you wanted to only be the two of you because you like her and you want to see if you to click. if it ends up interfering with your friendship then it might be time to move on from being her friend because it wouldn't be fair for you to pretend to only want to be friends with her when you like her.

How do I overcome social anxiety?

Overcoming social anxiety will take time and effort but if you believe in yourself you will be able to do it. try checking out my friend Scott from depression to expression on youtube. he makes a lot of videos on that topic which will be really helpful for you.

Josh I am homeschooled and just have my homeschooled friends and my other friends from before I was homeschooled. How do I make new friends? any ideas?

A good way to make new friends is to hang around social environments like a mall, a park or even finding meetup groups of people that have the same interest that you do. look online to see if there are any in your town or neighborhood and maybe you can hang out with them sometime. if you choose to talk to people in a public location try just being friendly and asking them what their interests are so you can learn more about them you see if you click with them.

How do I make a conversation with a stranger and get her number?

The key to a good conversation with a stranger is to work towards making them feel comfortable with you there. a good way to do that is to talk about something topical like something happening around you both at that time. from there you can ask about their feelings, hopes and dreams, or interest and when the conversation takes off and you guys both hit it off you can lead into asking for the number.

Here is my problem. I like this girl who is my friend. She tells me everything and We give each other advice and tell each other personal issues and stuff. I was about to tell her how I feel however she just started dating someone else. I have been keeping my feelings from her for a long time. Help?

It sounds to me like you might be in the friend zone. If you guys have developed that close of a bond then she may be shocked and hurt to find out that you had the secret feelings for her all this time. She may feel like you weren't being honest when you acted like a pure friend and that might throw her off. in this case you have two choices either except that you guys are friends and don't hold any expectations for romance or try to ask her out and if she says no no longer be that best friend because it wouldn't be fair to you.

Ok that really wasn't a question sorry but hope u Will see whatever I sent u

I go through my messages everyday try to answer as many as I can. if you send me an email I will 100% get to that.

How do I overcome Social Anxiety? any tips or ideas?

There are a lot of techniques to help learn how to manage your anxiety I've made a few videos on the topic but if you want to talk to someone who has a channel dedicated to that look up depression to expression. My friend Scott talks a lot about social anxiety and how do you work through it.

Josh you should share this with your fans. I used to have social anxiety. How I overcome it was by simply telling myself that I had nothing to prove to anybody. And by doing that it helped me to overcome my social anxiety.

Thats some solid advice man, if you want jump into the comments section of my anxiety video and share your story there so people can see it too.

Here is my problem, I use my Instagram account just for people I know. I don't have a lot of friends but how can I make it appear that I do have a lot of friends?

First you need to ask yourself what will have a lots of friends do for you? does it make sense to have a small group of really good friends that you talk to or a large number of people who don't really care about you and are probably robots?

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