Can u give me examples of how to start a conversation with a girl in middle school with a girl u have never talk to

March 24, 2015

A few good conversation openers could be as simple as "hey I need your opinion on something" Followed by "What's a good movie to watch in theaters right now?" "What's a cool place to eat around school." or even "I'm looking for a new book to start reading, what would you suggest?". basically anything that is general enough for her to have an opinion on but will alow her to showcase some of her personality. From there go deeper on it and ask her more about the things she likes. If she asks why your asking just say "I thought you were cute and I wanted to ask you".

How do I become popular and fit in?

March 24, 2015

Hey I made a video called how to be cool which should be helpful. I also have a few more videos focusing on confidence which if you search up on my channel you should find :)

Hey I texted u a couple of days on Facebook message if u remember and I texted u some more comments that I would like u to check out on fm.

March 24, 2015

Hey sorry about that, I jump around between all of these platforms to answer messages sometimes I don't get to everything. I'll try to make my way to Facebook now :)

Hey josh, I fell really weird talking to my parents about girls? is that normal?

March 24, 2015

It's totally normal, sometimes it's hard to connect with our parents because we feel like they won't really understand what we're going through or that they'll smother us with their parent - like ways. The thing is, they were once teenagers as well and they can give us invaluable experience on how to deal with things because they also have dealt with the issues we see ourselves facing sometimes.

How do I make a good impression on her parents?

March 24, 2015

Hey I made a video called "How To Make Her Parents LOVE you". look it up on the channel, I go more in depth there for you.

Here is a good question. If I am in another country on vacation and meet a girl how do I keep in touch?

March 24, 2015

You can always keep in contact over phone, skype, Facebook but keep in mind connections like that sometimes don't work out once you leave the place. The magic usually exists on that trip because your normal life is halted for this vacation reality. I would say enjoy it for what it's worth, add them on Facebook and talk every few months or so to keep in contact.

You remind me of Ned from Ned's declassified school survival guide. And how he tried to help everyone out of situations

March 24, 2015

Haha I guess I'm similar to Ned in that way. Better Ned than Cookie, am I right?

Hey Josh I was wondering... when are you going to make the follow up video on what you do after you get the girl's number? I been waiting on asking for the number so I could get the advice on when to do it after i get it.

March 24, 2015

Hey man, I don't want to leave you hanging on that. I'll put together that video for next week. But promise me that once I put it up, you'll ask the girl you like out and not sit on the advice. I believe in you and I know you can do it!

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March 23, 2015

It seems like a normal regular content face to me.

Define this emoji ☺️

March 23, 2015

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How do I get the girl to come talk to me? Or should I make the first move?!?!

March 23, 2015

I always recommend making the first move. waiting on someone else to do it is only going to keep you waiting. Being proactive will lead you towards what you want. You have more control over the situation goes as well.

Here is my problem. I liked this girl, she didn't like me so she set me up with one of her friends which lasted for about 2 months. After I broke up with her friend we hadn't talked in a while. I still like her. How do I ask her out in front of her friends?

March 23, 2015

I would suggest not asking her out in front of the girl that you were seeing too much. Even though it was a while back I think maybe enough time has passed for you to do it. what I would suggest is talking to the entire group of girls and after a while turn to the girl that you like hey guys I'm going to steal her away for one second, cool with you guys? from there pull her aside and talk to her so you can ask her out.

Why do u call yourself the josh speaks?

March 21, 2015

I made this video a while back explaining, check it out:
Who is The Josh and Why Does He Speak?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p-FBpJBC0sA

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I want to know if my friend likes me, but how do I ask without making it look awkward considering we have been friends for a long time.

March 21, 2015

Its going to be awkward if you guys have been friends for a long time because what you've done is build up a friendship with them and changing from a friendship to a potential relationship will change things no doubt about it. But you have to be willing to take the risk if you want your friendship to be something more. That risk might mean losing them as a friend.

How do I start a conversation with a stranger?

March 21, 2015

A good way to start a conversation with a stranger is too try to talk about something relative in the area. For example if you're walking down the street and ask them if they know any good coffee or clothing stores nearby. Or if you're already in a place ask them if they have any good recommendations for things around.

If your crush is in a relationship should you still go after them?

March 21, 2015

Hey if your crush is already going out with someone then it doesn't make much sense to try to pursue them right now. Be respectful of the fact that they're in a relationship just like you would want someone to respect you if you were in a relationship with them.

Here is my situation. I see this beautiful girl I want to talk to but my parents are with me..... What do I do?!?!?!

March 21, 2015

If you see beautiful girls like you with your parents try asking your parents if you can walk around a little bit for a few by yourself and then go talk to her. If they ask you why to say you soft you can girls and you wanted to just talk to them.

Hey I like one of my friends followers on Instagram, how do I talk to her? Keep in mind I have never spoken to her b4 and I don't want to sounds creepy or weird? Should I just like the picture of her and her friend or what?!?! PLEASE HELP JOSH!

March 21, 2015

Liking the picture won't help her see that you like her. Ask yourself if you can realistically go out with this girl. If so then try speaking to the mutual friend and ask her to introduce you to her friend. Little subtle techniques like liking photos won't do it because everyone is liking photos on Instagram all the time.

Do you play clash of clans?

March 21, 2015

I don't play clash of clans, I don't really play many video games anymore but I used to play a lot of left 4 dead.

How do I flirt with a girl in the library if I see her doing work?!?!

March 21, 2015

When she's at work her mind is focused on that, not meeting new people that you might be interested in. So a good way to lead into that is to talk to her about something related to her work, if she's at the front desk ask her about a certain book and if she knows if its good and then see if you can get a recommendation for a book from her. When she does that simply tell her you know what I just thought you were really cute I wanted to talk to you I know you're working right now but I want to see if I can take you out sometime so how about you write your library information advice number here and I'll call you sometime.

Josh what do I do if a girl I like embarrasses me? Should I play along and laugh too?

March 21, 2015

If the girl you like embarrasses you then perhaps the best thing to do is to laugh it off and smile about it. Getting angry at her won't do anything and just being completely upset won't help you either. Maybe you can tease her back and say something like you know I expect more from you.

Whenever I am in public with one of my friends and try to talk to girls he always butts into to the conversation and starts talking too. What should I do before he does it again and makes the both of us look stupid?

March 21, 2015

Talk to him beforehand about learning to be a good wingman, sometimes if you decide to talk to the girls then ask him to sit back and maybe keep the girl that you're not interested in occupied. That goes the same for you, if he wants to talk to the girls then you sit back and let him do the work. by being a good wingman you can both end up with girls and not ruin the whole set.

Ok i watched the friend zone video and still don't know what to do about escaping the friend zone

March 21, 2015

I answered this question a few times here on ask fm, if you look down at my answers you should be able to find it

Josh I am nervous when I talk to girls how do I overcome this?

March 21, 2015

The best way to overcome it is to start small. Start by talking to random girls to see that you are intimidated by, say hi to them as you pass them I just smile at people. The more open you are with interacting with anyone the easier it will be to talk to girls because you'll be so accustomed to just saying hi to people that doing it to your crush or a random girl won't make a difference to you.

Hey Josh, any tips on approaching girls in public places? Ex: like a Mall.

March 21, 2015

A mall is kind of tricky because people are walking around with the idea that they want to go into stores so their mindset isn't so much on talking to strangers but rather on themselves. A good way to align yourself with the form of thinking is to walk up to a girl who you see with a bag from a certain store, even if its a girls clothing store and say hey you look like you have some experience in buying girls clothes my cousin birthday is coming up and I have to get her something do you have any recommendations. Talk about this fake female cousin and then switch it over to you know what I think actually pretty cute and I just wanted to talk to you for a bit do you want to grab some food?

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