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then the next day the same but I did't sit with her during lunch and then today she did the same thing except when she was walking back form the cafeteria I was hanging with my guy friend and going to the cafeteria and she was coming back form the cafeteria and she said hey not sounding excited

Hmm I think you might be reading into her expressions a little too much. If you're curious how shes feeling, the best thing to do is to talk to her and ask her.

Person that lets you down the most?

I dont think we should carry expectations of others in that way, we can only let ourselves down

Thank you. But can yo give me some advice, on the proper way to ask a girl out?

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Sure, there's no real proper way but one thing you can do to increase the odds of her saying yes is to invite her to do something fun with you like to go check out a movie, go for a walk, etc.

Josh about the 3 second rule what if you do not want to look at her? Like when I be trying to look at her my head just turn away. what should I do?

Oelyn4life’s Profile PhotoShan Kason
Hey, it sounds like you may not have an issue with approaching her but your issue maybe with maintaining eye contact. If that's the case then you should definitely check out the video I did on making eye contact because it'll help you stay focused and approach her with confidence. https://youtu.be/uWpNlIjSDWYthejoshspeaks’s Video 142028944340 uWpNlIjSDWYthejoshspeaks’s Video 142028944340 uWpNlIjSDWY

Josh what if you like a girl you are to shy to walk to her and you do not like talking what should I do? Please help me

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If you're too shy to talk to the girl, you could always try practicing by having conversations with other people you are less shy around, that would help you get accustomed to having conversations without being afraid.

Josh what if you like a girl you are to shy to talk to or and you do not like talking, how should I ask her out? Please help

I think in that case what you should do is follow the 3 second rule. As soon as you see your crush give yourself no more than 3 seconds to go talk to them. Focus on maintaining eye contact smiling and saying hello as a good way to start getting to know them better.

What do you like to do when you bored?

When I'm bored I like to catch up on my reading or I like to work on Josh speaks tasks that I put aside like doing captions for videos or adding them to my website thejoshspeaks.com

Josh if I asked a girl out before summer and she said no would you recommend I ask her out again next school year? I want to be persistent, but I'm not sure if it is a good idea.

I think it's fine to ask her out again next year, just focus on growing as a person this summer and when you see her, show her how you've become an exciting and awesome person to interact with

Josh how can you tell if a girl is ready for a relationship or not? And if she's not would you recommend friending her first so when she's ready I can make a move?

Hey thats a good question, I think building a friendship first is key. It will allow you two to see how compatible you are together.

hey Josh, one of my best friends got in a relationship with this stuck up girl and now they both hate me. It seems as if they never want me around. I feel like a creep and weirdo who no one would ever want to even look at...Tips?

Hmm I would talk to your friend privately, let him know that you miss him as a friend. Don't bring up how his girlfriend is stuck up, just focus on missing the friendship and what you two can do to repair it.

Josh should i ask out my crush or wait until the next school year? But if I talk to her it would be over texting or calling her I can't see her in person anymore. I already asked her out but she had family matters. I was wondering if I should wait to ask her in person or ask her out over text.

Hey i would wait till the start of the school year, it may be hard to start something up over text, especially if you've never hung out with her before.

What do you do if people are making up rumors about you and your girlfriend and you girlfriend believes the rumors and gets mad at the boyfriend what do you do

Hey i made this video about rumors which might be helpful https://youtu.be/kfQxrNyF2OYthejoshspeaks’s Video 141074716628 kfQxrNyF2OYthejoshspeaks’s Video 141074716628 kfQxrNyF2OY
It's important to speak the truth with your girlfriend so you both know where the other person stands

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