I used to have fun funny convos with this girl and I got a feeling she liked me, I took to long and now she dont talk to me and has a boyfriend? I really like her, she dont talk to me now that much? what should I do?

April 30, 2016

I have a video called what to do if your crush is losing interest in you which might be helpful for you. If she has a boyfriend now then chances are you took too long and she might have moved on.

https://youtu.be/Tr8UvdBlVa8

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I finally got my crush's kik. But, my friend ask for her kik herself. We made a plan that she'll kik her and she'll add me to the convo. My friend never had reply back to my last message. Now, I only have my crush's kik and I can't text her because she'll wonder why I have it like a creep. Help?

April 30, 2016

but I would suggest doing is trying to talk to your crush directly and ask her for her Kik. Doing it through your friend might seem kind of weird and obvious so the best way to make it seem legit is to go to her directly

So, it seems like when I have enough confidence to talk to go talk to my crush, it's seems to be a blockage. Today was awful, I was trying to be funny with some boy until he roasted me real bad. I couldn't say nothing back and my crush just laugh. This girl kept pointing out my flaws in front on her

April 29, 2016

it sounds like you probably shouldn't be around that person when your crush because if they're going to bring you down they are not really helping you out. But I would suggest doing is trying to talk to your crush one on one without trying to do things in front of them to impress them.

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I think this chick in my ceramics class is pretty cute. I'm a Junior , but she's a freshman. I want to know how to get to know her without being awkward since it's the end of the year and I've had her in my class for a year now and I haven't introduced myself.

April 29, 2016

I think the difference in age doesn't matter so much but what I would suggest doing is walking up to her and saying you know we've been in this class together for so long and I never introduce myself hi my name is and then introduce yourself.

I don't know how to ask my crush for number. I saw your videos but they didn't help because me and her haven't talked much. what should I do?

April 29, 2016

the first step would be to talk to her more. A good way to lead into asking for her number is to talk to her about something fun and interesting that you want to do, then invite her to join you. That gives you the opening to ask for her number so you can contact her when you want to do it together.

My two friends played a prank on me with a note from a girl I like it was a lie. Should I be friends with the m or not

April 29, 2016

if your friends are playing a prank then I don't think they really meant to hurt you but it can be annoying when they do interfere with things like your crush. I would talk to them and let them know that you like her and ask them to not interfere because it throws off your game.

How do you ask out a girl who is shy when you are also shy?

April 29, 2016

I have a video called how to not be shy around your crush which might be helpful for you. I recommend you go check it out.

Josh how does one keep a relationship going for a long time? I mean do I have to be romantic ALL the time or just be romantic on occasion to know I still care about her? This is an insanely difficult decision.

April 29, 2016

when you think about what it means to be romantic it shouldn't always have to be giving her flowers and telling her you love her, sometimes building romance is doing something spontaneous or just sitting and listening to the other person. Tried to discover what her love language is and communicate in that way.

How do you ask out a girl who is shy?

April 29, 2016

A good way to ask out a girl that is shy is to build trust with her. The more you talk to her and the more you ask her about herself and share about yourself the easier it'll be for her to agree to go out with you because you'll feel like you're on her side.

Hey I looked at your how to ask for a girls phone number video but I need you to explain more plz

April 29, 2016

sure thing, shoot me an email at thejoshspeaks@gmail.com and I will talk to you about your specific problem.

I saw your vid on why people don't like you and I am still confused. What if someone thinks your wierd and they won't talk to you due to the supposed judgement or title they may have on you? It's been pissing off lately that no one will tell me why they think I'm wierd, no matter how nice I am 2 thm

April 29, 2016

hey, I wouldn't exactly say that people don't like you because you're weird, it's possible that they may not like you because they don't know you yet. Sometimes when people don't really know someone it's easier for them to make judgment calls. The best thing I would say you can do is try to connect to people by opening up about yourself and I think from there they may start to get to know you better and stop thinking you're weird.

I'm in middle school and my friend said he could talk to my crush instead of me asking her for her number. But I said no because I see me and impossible to be a thing. What should I do how should I proceed without letting friends know. Because gossip is everything at my school

April 26, 2016

I think at some point you're going to have to be ok with people finding out and the best way for that to happen is through your actions and not gossip. I would try talking to her one on one and see what can happen, ask for her number.

Hey Josh, I know I might be over analyzing this, but. Everyone turned to the teacher, her making an announcement. A girl was standing right next to my desk, her hand on my notebook. I accidentally put my hand down over hers, for about 10 seconds. Pretty sure she noticed. I'm confused halp me please?

Adrian V

April 26, 2016

hmm its hard to tell how she interpreted that, if you do think theres something there, why not try to talk to her one on one?

hey josh. What should you do if you want to ask a girl on a date but she has highly protective parents?

April 26, 2016

hey, that can be tough sometimes, the best thing to do might be to ask her out, if she says her parents wont let her date you dont have to give up, you can still talk to her and get to know her in school, tslk to her online, etc. As time goes on ask her to talk to her parents about you coming over to meet them so they can feel more comfortable with you talking to their kid.

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What is the difference between courage and confidence?

April 26, 2016

Courage is the ability to overcome your fear of something, confidence is trusting yourself that you can do it and will deliver on your promise.

Im a 14 year old boy going in middleschool. Due to some reasons, i have been very shy in middleschool. In the last couple of weeks, i feel i need to go and talk to girls. Maybe puberty hit :O ? BUt im very shy and everytime i want to talk to my crush i freeze. I cant even think. Help..

April 26, 2016

hey, its perfectly normal for those thoughts and feelings to kick in at 14. i think what you could try doing is asking her opinion on something simple like "hey, whats your favorite movie? im looking for new movies to watch at home?". Try to engage her with a simple question like that, find out what her answer is and then tell her what yours is.

Ok I'm in middle school and in a good relationship besides the facet that when we text it's so repetitive! It's never interesting and it needs to change soon. Idk how to keep the relationship interesting. It's fine when we see eachother face to face though. So I just need to keep this interesting.

April 08, 2016

hey, i have a few videos on my channel about conversations, how to start them, how to make them not boring and how to text so that the other person doesnt lose interest. ill put together a playlist on that soon but for now you can check out the individual videos!

I'm planning to go back to my ex-crush (I'm ok if she disagrees) but I'm moving to uni on one town and our unis' towns are connected by a train. Do you think a forthnightly weekend visit can keep our relationship healthy, along with the huge great personal values that we already carry to each other?

March 31, 2016

Its always possible, but if you guys are just friends, it may be difficult to move into a long distance relationship. i have a video on long distance relationships which might be helpful for you. check it out on my channel and weigh the pros and cons of the situation.

We stopped talking nearly 10 mo. ago I want 2 reconnect, but being at diff HS idk how 2 exactly reconnect. As doing it over text could be really awkward. Doing it in person can be more awk and even to some degree of creepy I am at a point where Each option seems 2 be a complete denial. What do I do?

March 31, 2016

Try asking her a question and tell her you needed her quick opinion on something. Tell her that she was the first person to pop into your head and that you wanted to know her thoughts. From there you can message her on another day and ask her what shes been up to and lead into you two hanging out again.

This girl and I stopped talking a while back. She ended it. Thinking about trying to text her again but texting her out of the blue seems like it can come off desperate. What's the best way to approach this to minimize the desperation that can lead to being turned off?

March 31, 2016

What i would do is message her asking for her quick opinion on something. Tell her you had a question and she was the first person that popped into your head. After you message her then say thanks and dont talk to her for a bit. The next time you message her, you can always ask her whats up and lead into you guys meeting up so you can catch up.

True or myth: panic is mostly triggered on a girl if she's tickled, hence sometimes responding aggressively to it.

March 31, 2016

I would say it depends on how close she feels with you. Getting tickled by someone you dont really know can be awkward. In any case i would avoid tickling all together just to be safe.

So, I have a crush on this girl in my class and I really want to talk to her. I can manage to say a few things before freezing up. I watched one of your videos about the 3 second rules and used it. But, I want to text her on Kik. How do I get her kik without her saying no?

March 31, 2016

hey i have a video o how to ask a girl for her phone number but the same techniques apply for kik. Try talking to her about something cool that you want to check out or do and then invite her to join you. When you invite her, ask her for her kik so you can message her with the details.

Hey I met this girl who is cute, eh she likes me but I don't like her. I don't want to reject her easily because she has sensitive personality. Damn what do I do?! plus I already have a crush which is my bestfriend (popular), she'll be 'fainted' if she know this that I had a crush on my bestfriend..

March 24, 2016

What i would suggest doing is letting her down only if she tries to act on her feelings. that means asking you out, planning one on one events or starts hinting at going out with you.

There's this crush that keeps making me change the way I see and think about her due to her unstable personal behavior around me. I'm tired of taking the 1st step... It's an endless cycle of "no, give up now because she was bad to you today" and "no, keep going because she was good to you today"...

March 24, 2016

hmm why do you allow yourself to experience that back and forth? do you like them so much that its worth it?

I like a girl and my friend asked her if she likes me but he likes her also he told me that she said no. Should I ask her if she likes me or will I sound too pushy?

March 24, 2016

i wouldnt bother asking who likes who, instead if you like her, try asking her out. it'll be one step above your friend here.

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