Hey josh i am going into high school any tips on trying to have sex i really want to do it and really desprete and want to do it with multipule girls.i know your gonna tell me it dosent matter or relationships are better and i agree i just really want to do it a lot.

August 05, 2016

Hey, i know the feeling of wanting to do it. its ok to feel that way, however having sex requires someone else, so you should always be mindful of who you do it with so you dont end up making them feel used.

Any advice on trying to lose virginity im trying to lose it pretty bad by the way im 14 and do you think thats too young? Ive had 1 girlfriend when I was 11 but I never kissed before.

August 05, 2016

why are you trying so hard to lose it?

Have you ever had sex if yes how many times

August 05, 2016

i dont know the number of times but i have had it before

Theres this girl who I liked very much and Ive always complemented her and we became close friends and she doesnt go to my school anymore so i stopped liking her but we live in the same town and Im starting to like her again what should i do for her to take interest in me?

July 31, 2016

One thing you could do is ask her to hang out. Assuming you can make plans to see her in person i would do that and rekindle what you guys have.

Hi josh im in middle school theres this girl thats popular and im like sorta not really and everyone matches that girl and I. I like her but i dont think she likes me

July 31, 2016

hey, i made this video on asking out the popular girl. Dont focus too much on whether she already likes you, try to talk to her and get to know her so you can give her a reason to start liking you. https://youtu.be/Iv8weV06ezk

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theres this girl I like but she lives 2 hours away from me I wouldnt mind travelling but my friends say what if shes not loyal. what should I do?

July 30, 2016

Long distance relationships can be tough sometimes, i think they tend to work best when the relationship starts at a short distance first.

ive been talking to a girl on social media for a few days when should I ask her for her number?

July 30, 2016

I think when you ask for it, have a reason to do so. Tell her you want her number to call her about something so giving it to you would make sense to her.

sometimes when im talking to a girl on text I run out of things to say what do I do?

July 30, 2016

If you run out of things to say, try leading into a story about something that happened to you. Telling stories is a great way to carry a conversation forward.

im talking to a girl and I asked her a question and its been a day and she didnt reply what should I do? I want to talk to her and not come across as needy? help me

July 30, 2016

If she didnt respond, give it some time and try to message her elsewhere. Leave a comment on her photo asking a question to see if she responds to that.

embarrassed The next day she still never talked to me and still ignored me. she never said by to me and left. she made it seem like i didn't exist anymore. why did she not like me anymore after the dance and ignore me and not say anything to me?

July 28, 2016

Hey, its hard to tell why she did what she did. i think in a situation like that it might be best to accept that she was nervous and didnt know what to do. we all get scared sometimes and when the pressure is too high, it can lead us to not knowing what to do.

Hey! Josh. i think i messed up and my crushed blocked me. This happened like a year ago. O can send you pics of what i sent her if you want. But she blocked me on snapchat and i still like her. Is it possible to ask her out or get her number

July 28, 2016

Hey, if she blocked you then she probably wont be open to the idea of you texting her. I would say thats something that may need to be repaired in person.

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Ive been friendzoned by 3 girls in just 1 week I am really insecure and depressed how can I get my confidence

July 28, 2016

hey, i would suggest two things. Put a hold on asking girls out and rethink how you're doing it. Maybe you arent building attraction with them first? Also, if things are failing, always be willing to take a step back and focus on yourself.

Any advice for me going into 9th grade I hope I atleast get a girlfriend I never had one or had a kiss or have sex any advice on that?.

July 28, 2016

Hey, what i would say is try to make as many new friends as you can. New friends lead to new opportunities. Try talking to people in your classes from the start, it'll make everything easier for you as the year progresses.

theres this girl I like. ive took too long to ask her out and now she has a bf. I followed her on instagram she liked my pic then blocked me. my friends say it was her bf. I still like her what should I do. my friends say leave her and find someone else. schools finish so wont see her anymore? help

July 28, 2016

if she has a bf then its probably best to let her be. Especially if hes blocking you, i would try to move on and wait till shes single again.

Hey josh I loved your recent video about snapchat but I have one more question for you. My crush has snapchat that I know because it's on her Instagram. We don't talk very much and I don't know how to approach her by snapchat. Any help would be awesome. Thanks

July 28, 2016

If she put her Snapchat out there i would start by following her and seeing what she puts on her stories. From there you can respond to things that peak your interest.

I like this girl who is going to my high school next year,we are both in 8th grade,I knew her scince 7th grade but I switched mid year in 7th grade so I have not seen her for a year. I really like her and I dont know when to approch her and she calls me cute and she admit she would take me to prom.

July 16, 2016

it seems to me like there is a potential for you guys to connect to get to know each other better. If you're going to the same school then you should definitely reach out to her and try to make plans during the summer so you guys can know each other beforehand going into school.

A girl that I'm very close with and loves to talk to me told me something. Schools almost over, so I asked what her last day was. I then said "aww 4 more days left with you" She then said we should do something over the summer. Her best friend keeps insinuating she might like me? I do have feelings

July 16, 2016

if you have feelings for her then you should definitely hang out with her and get to know her over the summer a lot better.

A friend of mine, whom I have recently started to get to know really well. We share personal things together and she talks to me just about everything. #1 bestfriends on snap. I said I had 4 days left with her(School). She said we should do something over the summer. Is it possible she likes me?

July 16, 2016

it sounds to me like you guys might like each other as friends and that might be how she's looking at it. However, if you like her then I would still meet up with her and hang out during the summer but I would try to connect with her better on a more romantic level

The girl I like thinks I am great looking,likes where im from,my name calls me sweet,and were close friends,should I ask her out.

July 16, 2016

it sounds like everything is lining up, I'd ask her out and go for it

I've liked this girl for a long time, but we haven't seen each other in person for years. We used to keep in touch, but we've slowly drifted apart. How do I text her without it seeming weird, since we haven't even had small talk in a long time.

July 16, 2016

the thing is, if you're going to start talking to her again that has to be something it's leading to. For example if you start a conversation without you guys catch up if you guys aren't going to meet up in person somehow then the conversation is going to fall flat and you're eventually going to go to stop talking to each other again. What you could try doing is having brief conversations with her once in awhile by leaving comments on things that she posts and just generally engaging in stuff like that

Hey Josh i want to know how to get out of a friendzone with someone I want to get with but won't rarley give me the time of day or keeps reading my message and never responds

July 16, 2016

hey, it sounds like they might just be you as a friend and might not think it's anything serious I'm not responding. The best things to do to try to talk to them in person because he did not responding my message then it's going to be way harder to lead into something more.

What to do if I sent my crush a message on Instagram one week ago and it is sent but still not delivered? What should I text her or should I wait another week or call? We have talked on Instagram before, but she uses it very very rarely...

July 16, 2016

if she doesn't really go on Instagram a lot then chances are she didn't see the message, so instead when I would suggest doing is texting her are reaching out to some of the way. You don't have to mention what you mentioned on Instagram just start a new conversation

There's this girl in my school who I like and we talk sometimes. I want to ask her to a dance but I don't know how. I just get so nervous.

July 16, 2016

hey, I made this video about how to ask a girl out to prom but the tips also work for a dance as well https://youtu.be/J8S7qXfKHkc

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Hey josh I recently found out the crush i had for 2 years whos my friend dosent like me should I tell her or should I ask her out and see if she was lying.

July 14, 2016

I dont think you should tell her how you feel, unless you heard it directly from her I would still try to talk to her and try to make plans to get to know her.

How do I solve mic signals with my crush if she has a boyfriend? I've already viewed a video related to this topic. But, I want a more advice as to what I should do if I believe we truly show interest in each other despite the unsettling truth of her being in a relationship.

July 14, 2016

If shes in a relationship then shes off limits, even if shes giving you mixed signals. Now if shes pushing for you two to get together, i would tell her she should break up with her boyfriend first.

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