I am sitting at a table alone and two girls I don't know sat next to me at the end of the table next to me. They kept looking at me and talked even louder so I could hear them. Is this an indicator that I should talk to them? Btw they are friends of my crush.

November 03, 2015

It's hard to read things like that, I would go with your gut. whenever new people come near you like that, try engaging them in conversation and see where it goes. It'll make things easier too for talking to your crush if you're already in with her friends.

How do you get people to accept you for who you are. I know confidence plays a huge role in this, but I mean my crush hangs out with her friends a lot and I want them to accept me so I can talk to her and possibly be with her.

November 03, 2015

The best way to help people see you're confident and bold is to act that way with them. Try walking up to their group and introduce yourself to everyone by asking the group a question, get the opinions of everyone on something "What's your favorite movie, my friends and I don't think we can find a group of people where at least two people share the same favorite movie". Let them see that you're fun and you're all about having a good time.

Remember the guy who wanted to stay friends with their ex. Well now I'm starting to get feelings little by little towards her. I'm in denial and I'm trying to go towards the foreign exchange student. Please Josh help me get rid of these feelings for my ex.

November 03, 2015

The best way to get rid of those feelings is to allow yourself closure and to move on by focusing on new girls and new goals. Accept that the relationship is over by observing how the two of you were able to move on and continue your lives without one another. There isn't a NEED to be with one another, it's mainly the WANT. When you recognize that you can replace it with other wants you have.

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How to know when to stop a text conversation with a girl and also one in real life?

November 03, 2015

It's always good to stop the conversation on what you guys will do next. Make plans throughout the convo and tell then you gotta get moving but you're looking forward to the next time you guys (hang out after school, go to get food, hit up the movies, etc.)

How do I find a girlfriend when I'm homeschooled?

November 02, 2015

I plan on doing a video about that so stay tuned for it. My quick advice would be that when it comes to meeting people it might make sense to find a few local spots to hang out at. That could be a park in your neighborhood, outside of other schools or something like that. Get acquainted with these areas and be willing to interact with the people passing through so you can meet someone interesting for you.

Do you think videogames cause violence? Second question: What has more of an impact, videogames or music?

November 02, 2015

Video games do not cause violence. Although studies have shown hyper activity triggered by video games in early child development which leads to A.D.D. and slight tendencies of increased aggression in young children. Both video game and music have an impact and cause people to be creative and inspired.

Hey Josh how do you deal with not having a girlfriend and sometimes feeling like you want those special moments like other couples have?

October 29, 2015

it can feel lonely sometimes not having someone, it can also make you feel jealous of what others have to. what I would recommend doing is trying to network with different girls and expand your friend network. that will help you meet new people and maybe find a girl you like.

How do you flirt then ease back for them to wonder "why hasn't he flirted with me yet?"

October 29, 2015

It's possible that your flirting might not be direct enough, he may not be picking up on it or he may not be interested. If you ever find yourself wondering "why aren't they responding like I want them to", to me that's a sign that you need to be more direct.

Is it normal to engage "worry mode" right when you see a girl? What could cause that since it's much earlier than the expected 3 seconds?

October 28, 2015

Your nerves can build up way before you even spot the girl, the best way to handle that is to close your eyes and focus on your breathing. Take a deep breath and feel it coming into your lungs. Breathe out and repeat this process for a good while until you feel calm and present minded.

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..it but he just says "ohh that sucks" the last time I hung out with her her friends was there too & she told her friend she was thinking abt breaking up with him (doubt it). I just feel like there going to last no matter & she'll always only b a friend :/ hope you can help (part 3)

October 27, 2015

hey, it sounds like she may like the attention you bring her but she might just stay with her guy. She, like most people probably really enjoy the attention and it may cross her mind once or twice what things would be like to hook up with you but all in all it remains just an idea for her. What I would do is pull back from what you do for her and how often, otherwise she's going to grow comfortable with having you in the friend zone and there's never going to be a need to move you out because she's getting all she wants (attention and affection) from you already.

Hey Josh, There is a girl, that has been my girlfriend for about a year. Throughout this time she has given me a few chances, but finally we have broken up. Then she has had another bf for about half a year but they have just broken up. I feel like she has changed and want to try again. What to do?

October 27, 2015

it's hard to know whether a person has changed over time, however if you feel like you've changed and grown as a person then you can always try to talk to her again and see where she stands.

Idk why but I sometimes get a bit clingy without noticing. I also seem to be desperate with my crush but luckily my friend helped me and not scare of another girl. You see right now my crush agreed to go out next week and now she said she couldn't bc she's flying to SF that weekend. What do I say?

October 26, 2015

Try to make plans for some other time. Sometimes things pop up outside of your control and you just have to roll with them. When she gets back you can hang out with her then. For now, try to remain calm and OK with the fact that she's her own person making her own decision.

Do you believe in destiny?

October 26, 2015

hmm that's an interesting question. I think if it exists, we shouldn't concern ourselves with it too much because we still have to put in the work to accomplish what we want. if this are destined they are outside of our knowledge.

Have you ever heard of pornogrind? Its a music genre

October 26, 2015

no, what type of music is it?

I think I'm in a bad situation. I realized I'm becoming obsessed with my crush at the point of even stalking her, despite herself not noticing that. I keep trying to distract myself or even interact to other girls but nothing seems to be working...

October 23, 2015

Have you tried talking to her directly? It can be easy at times to get obsessed with the idea of a girl but it isn't until you actually speak to her and make it a reality that you start to change your behavior and ways of viewing her.

Nice videos Josh. Keep up the great work

October 23, 2015

thanks, I really appreciate it

what is EX?

October 23, 2015

an ex is someone who you used to date but no longer date anymore.

(ex in bad company) How to let her know? She is usually with her new "friends" who do not like me. What is more, there is a guy who always walks behind her (new boyfri?. He seems to be turning her against me and against all her friends from the past. Fortunately her ex-best friend also wants to help

October 22, 2015

One thing you might want to steer clear of is getting involved in the pure drama that I'd going to surround her life. You two aren't going out anymore so it's important to make sure you're not doing this because you still have feelings.

So when you posted the video on how to choose over two girls how do I let one I ended up not choosing down? She still flirts and I try not to as much, but I've already chosen one to go out with. You never went into specifics on how to choose one and then leave the one you didn't choose go.

October 22, 2015

When it comes to letting one down I'm gonna do a video on how to reject someone. For now what I would suggest doing is telling her that you don't want to give her the wrong impression but you and the other girl are hitting it off. It sounds a bit cold but it's the most honest way to say it without being mean. She should understand that it's not that you two don't get along but that you and the other girl have a stronger connection.

How to flirt with your EX (She doesnt know that you have on crush on her) in middle school? I've seen your video but its unclearly how to get motivated for guys that are afraid of something going wrong! Explain it with more details pls Josh. btw love ur channel

October 22, 2015

I have a video called should I get back with my ex which might be helpful here. if you feel like you're having trouble flirting then check out my how to ask a girl out in middle school video maybe?

I broke up with a girl 3months ago and now she fell in bad company (her new "friends" are partying all the time, smoking and drinking a lot). I am very worried. She says she is happy but it seems to be all fake. She used to be very kind and polite even after breaking up, but now she has all changed

October 22, 2015

That's always a sad thing to see. the truth is she has to make her own decisions here, however you could let her know that you care about her and don't want her to do something she may regret. If she responds with negativity, don't give up with her and still be by her side in case she needs your help in the future.

Why girls always go out either with the "non good" boys or the kind of weird... (you know the not so straight looking students you see on school...) yea....

October 22, 2015

Girls tend to like guys that define their personalities. Bad boys represent something, they took the time out to tell the world this is who I am. The same goes for guys who dress not so straight.

How to attract girls in middle school?

October 22, 2015

I made a video about how to ask a girl out in middle school which talks about flirting and all. check it out, it should help you be more attractive.

Im in weird situation right now. There are 2 girls in my class but because im so confused.. i dunno who i like.... :(

October 22, 2015

check out my video "how to choose between two girls that you like", it should help you out here.

Josh how to approach my crush (She is in my class)? The problem is that we havent speak that much with each other so... I dont want her to understand from the start! Im in Middleschool but i havent done anything like that before so i need your help.

October 21, 2015

Hey, I have a few middle school related videos on talking to your crush which may be helpful for you. I made one about asking our a girl in middle school and a few on how to not be shy.

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