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how are you so tolerant when people sometimes ask you some kinda silly questions? You help them, no matter how trivial it is. Thanks for that and keep doing what you are doing :)

Thanks man, I really appreciate that. Whenever someone asks a silly question I don't mind answering it because I know other people might have the same question and may feel silly asking it. It's important for people to know that they can have a place to be open and honest, and if ask.fm is that place for them then so be it.

How do i get over sociel anxiety?

There are many layers to social anxiety that can all be addressed in different ways. What types of situations would you say you feel anxious in?

hey josh. can you do a video if girls like boys with braces or the other way around?

that's a really good topic, sometime may feel like braces make them feel ugly or weird looking but the reality is that it's something that people can look past. I'll make that into a video definitely.

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How to tell if a foreign exchange students likes you? I haven't talked to her and neither has anyone else much except the teachers. So I'm in Hs and this Switzerland girl is going to my school and this is her first year. She pretty good with her English and I wanna know how to get to know her?

It may be tough since the language barrier is there but you can always try to welcome her to the town or school by inviting her to join you for a walk. She may feel nervous at first but try to help her get adjusted, and in that process showcase the fact that you like her by flirting with her.

how to deal with being picked on/(at?). Sorry, English is not my first language. btw: Thanks for great advice that helped me to be more confident :)

Hey, if you search my channel for "bullying" I have two videos which can help you out with that. I talk about how to deal with bullies and stop them from picking on you.

Ay homie. I decided to not do it. I realized there be a lotta things my nigga ass can do in this fucked up world. Imma push throu

Respect. Keep on fighting dude. It's worth it.

Have you ever won money off of gambling? What are your thoughts on gambling?,Why is it so addicting?

Gambling is addicting because there is the chance of winning big and humans love solving equations like puzzles, teasers and even poker hands. We get sucked into the game and the hope that we can finally win big that most of the time we lose to the house. I think with gambling you truly need to set a limit on yourself and cut it before you spend more than you intended. plus if you're in the green, always opt out at that point just to be sure.
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What's your favorite place in nyc?

In the city I like hanging out at Forbidden Planet near Union Square but there is also Book Off near Bryant Park which is pretty awesome.

My sister just left for college. Should I be worried about her?

Awok3n Matrix
It can be scary when a sibling leaves home to go somewhere else but as long as you support her in what she's doing and let her know she always has a safe place at home with you then she will be ok.

Do u/Have u played Grand Theft Auto V

I haven't played GTA V yet, although every time a new GTA comes out I tell myself I'm gonna play it but never do 😐

I decided not to do it yet....my nigga got me outta it...i can't email cuz my phone don't work like that for some reason email don't work

You on Facebook? Message me there if you can.

I noticed people ask you on dating advice and whatnot yet no one reports back on how thankful they are for their success of relationship. It's mostly "How do I get a girl?" Then 3 months later its "...." *no thanks at all. I mean did they get in a relationship or not? Btw I'm not insulting you.

Hey, that's not always true. I've gotten lots of messages from people saying things worked out for them. Most of the time is through a more private medium lime Facebook messages, instagram DM'S or email. I think YouTube is mainly the starting ground for people and as they watch more videos and feel more comfortable with me then they move to a more direct platform like those. I've also seen my fair share of people who weren't successful in asking girls out which is as natural as they saying yes.

Ima do it tomorrow at 7pm...I'm sick of this shit nigga

like I said before, send me an email and let's talk first. thejoshspeaks@gmail.com

I miss my ex sometimes, but she said that she was moving schools so we broke it off. The problem is I saw her the 1st day of school today and I think she will be transferring soon, but in the meantime how do I handle the situation? I haven't talked to her in a while and it hurts to still see her.

You can still be friendly with her, ignoring her might make things more awkward for you. Talk to her with the same level of respect you would ant other friend, just stay away from building up anything romantic.

So right now I don't have a crush but I'm going back to school soon. Do you have any tips for middle school?

Awok3n Matrix
I uploaded a video two weeks ago about 5 things you need to know about middle school which should be helpful. I am also doing a Google+ hangout tonight about Back to School which would also be helpful. Check out my channel for the details.

It's a new school year josh, how can I just make girls attracted to me?

The best way to do it is to start early by talking to girls in your class. If they see that you're fun, approachable and confident then they will see that you're a step above the rest. If you sit on the side lines and only look at them then they won't ever know that deep down you have all these attractive qualities.

My LD ex-crush told me on FB she would visit my place this month. Today's 18th and she still didn't come here yet. I just want to ask her in specific again when will she come but I'm afraid I could annoy her because it's talking about the same issue 2 convos in a row...and I don't have other topics.

Hmm in that case I would try to make new plans with her. If coming over didn't happen, try to make plans with her to do something locally in your area and then shift it back to your place later in the day?

Homie I'm just tired of all the niggas shootin each otha....they just killed my moms.

Are you serious or are you just clowning me?

Nigga I'm done. Imma commit suicide. I'm tired of livin in Compton wit all this bullshit wit niggas blasting each other

hey, before you do anything drastic like that I want you email me at thejoshspeaks@gmail.com or send me a Facebook message on my page if you can. It sounds like you're in a lot of pain and I want to help you find clarity among the confusion.

It's a god thing I didn't get into no gang shit cause them niggas already got theyselves killed. This what I get for livin in Compton nigga

See, that's what I mean. Don't let the area define the person. You don't have to lose your identity or where you came from to succeed, but you also don't need to conform to your area to prove your worth.

Aight so they two homies who wanted me to join the Bloods left me alone but I ain't gonna get cops on em cause I ain't no snitch. Lemme Just say you advice actually helps my nigga!

I'm incredibly proud of you for making the right and safe decision. Keep on doing great things with your life and stay as far away from troublemakers as possible. They would like nothing better than to bring you down with them.

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