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Why does ppl say anythings possible???

The meaning behind that phrase is to not limit yourself based on what you think you're incapable of doing. Always push harder, learn more and embrace failure because it will make your success all the more rewarding.

Do u have an Instagram if so wat is it if u don't mind tellin

I do, my Instagram name is thejoshspeaks

What's the best way to ask my crush to talk to me in private to clarify something without sounding like I'm verbally "dragging" her and if we are always near other people how to make them avoid distorting that question and having romantical illusions of us just because of that question?

If the question is something you're embarrassed of then tell her that its private and you want to speak to her to clarify it. if its something about I would avoid asking a question, it's better to learn from how she acts other than what she says.

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Hey man so I got this girl kik buy jut dm her on instgram so I've never spoke to her before how do u start a conversation over a text without ever talking to her in person

I don't think that's a good idea mainly because there's extra pressure of the conversation to be something enticing. If you missed that window of opportunity she's going to become bored and disinterested, making it even harder for you to start up another conversation later. tried talking to her in school or in person first, it'll make all the difference.

Josh I am having a hard time deciding if I want to move down stairs or stay upstairs? What do you think I should do?

Try something new so that you can at least say you've never missed out on one of them.

Can you make a video on how to make new friends? Plz

Hey that's a great topic, I'm gonna add it to the list!

Hey josh I was wondering if you could help me with this girl I like(starting from approaching her for the first time). You make confidence sound so easy to do but in reality for me it's pretty hard, and there are guys who are better than me that she might be in to. I don't know where to start.

Hey man, the first step is to knock the idea that there are guys out there that are better or more skilled than you. There will always be people who are more advanced, no matter how advanced you are. However your skill level isn't dependent on them at all and chances are 90% are clueless as to where to direct that confidence so they also end up not getting what they want. The thing about being confident is that it requires practice, the kind of practice that comes from trying things and failing. Expecting to be confident one day isn't how it works, just like you won't wake up one day and be a martial arts master. Sure you may know how to throw a punch and kick but it's very different from knowing when to throw it so it's the most effective. The first thing I think you should do to try and be more confident is to try to open up girls that you aren't attracted to for the mere purpose of starting a conversation and knowing how to easily jump into one. Practice there first and what you'll begin to see is that as time passes you'll move on to something new to try because opening will become second nature. Try starting with that, start simple conversations about movies, hobbies and weird things you come across.

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Josh does this actually work? Say I want to get better with women and then start watching a lot of two and a half men and start talking like Charlie sheen. Will that actually make me able to talk to women more or is that just a dumb idea?

There are a lot of tv show characters which portray the idea of a suave guy with girls but there's no direct formula. Learn from these characters but never aim to be these characters.

Hey Josh, I know you get a lot of questions about "the new kid at school" but I was wondering as a new kid how long should it be that you consider these people your friends? And how long should I wait to ask them to hangout? Like 2 weeks or you think longer?

I would say the earlier the better. If you ask them to hang out after a week thats fine because they'll understand that you're new and you're still trying to get acquainted. I would also consider them friends once youve hung out with them for quite a while in person.

Hi Josh, there is this girl -my crush- that I've been talking to a lot. And I'm wondering what I should do to take it to the next level. Should I ask her out ? What should I do?

If you guys are talking frequently then I would totally say to go for it. Ask her to hang out in person before you make it a date date. Go for a walk together and see how you guys flow in real life.

If a girl and I make eye contact and she smiles durning the eye contact and she knows I like her but we haven't talk yet? Is it time to go approach?

That's always a good time to approach, you've had some sort of interaction like that. a girl smiling does it mean that she likes you though but its definitely something you can work with.

Hi i saw your vid about rejection i got a question.I stupidly asked out my best friend about a week ago and got rejected when I got back from the weekend i was thinking about how me and her can still be friends.can i still have a friendship or do I cut her out of my life. And if i can still have

The thing is if you plan on having a friendship then you have to accept that your feelings for her will have to go away. you can't be purely friends and still like her. if you feel like that's not something you could realistically do, no longer like her, then that's when you would cut her off and move on. Until you can deal with it.

What are some first date ideas?

I have a video that will help you out cold 10 amazing first date ideas. Check it out of my channel it should be helpful.

Hey Josh what are your hobbies?

Other than making videos go to wrestling shows, read comics, make paper crafts and simply relax.

Any way to ask out a girl if she's always with her friends?

I made a video all about this called how to ask a girl out in front of her friends. Check it out of my channel it should be really helpful.

Hey Josh, how do I fit in? I'm talking about how do I make everyone like me?

Instead of trying to get everyone to like you, focus on building a good friend group who has your back. Having strangers admire you from a distance won't help us in life, it'll just inflate our ego and make us lose focus of the ones who truly matter.

Josh is it normal if I struggle in school with some classes? It kinda makes me feel dumb that I don't understand some subjects as opposed to other ones?

It doesn't make you stupid at all, everyone learns at their own pace. I can bet that you're not the only one who struggles in your classes, but you do have the option to be brave and speak up if no one else does. Try talking to your teacher after class and let them know that you feel like you're not fully understanding the class material and if there is any way they can help you. Teachers will sometimes go the extra mile to help out students who try to help themselves.

Its me again I cute me off do to the letters .but if can still have a friendship tell me how to get passed all the awkwardness

My friend Iimagineblank on youtube made a video all about how to not be awkward around your crush. You should check it out, it's really helpful.

Josh I really need your help man. I am starting a new school and at my old school people used to make fun of me. I havn't been to my old school in years, but I am worried that kids at my new school might know so kids from my old school. If they ask do you remember so and so? Should I lie and say no?

If bringing up people from your old school makes you feel connected to a time in a place you don't want to be, then just tell them that the name sounds familiar are you don't really know them if anything one of them too well. Try to focus on developing a new character and kids won't worry too much about your old one. I also made a video about being the new kid in school which you should check out, it might be helpful.

How can you ask a girl out if another guy who isn't making a move is "cock blocking" you?

I made a video called how to deal with a guy hitting on your girl. basically the best way to get them to stop to call him out and make a joke about it with the girl. if the guy says stupid stuff about you just turn to Him and say man you are really pathetic are you that desperate for attention? and then turn to the girl and tell her don't worry about this guy he just needs someone to care about him.

Josh can u give me new conversation starters via text. ( I already watched ure video on how to keep the conversation going) I was just wondering if u could help me out

Hey man I'm going to be launching ebook there's a bunch of conversation opener. stay tuned for that I'm going to put a video up on my channel soon

Josh I met this girl at my school (I'm a new kid btw) How do I ask her out? Should I wait like a few weeks because I don't want her to say no then it become awkward when I get to low everyone in clasd

Before asking her out, try to build a relationship with her that's starts with trust. I put up a new video on being a new kid but use it to your advantage, introduce yourself and try to build a connection with her from the start.

Advice on how to dress to fit your style?

Hey I have two videos on my channel about dressing which might help you, check them out!

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