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So my girlfriend's best friend likes her. He constantly flirts with her and sees her more often than I do (one year grade difference between them and me). I don't know what to do. She's already told me she didn't have feelings for him and I trust her but I'm scared shitless about him.

Hey i totally understand where you're coming from, in a situation like that it might make sense to talk to him, to let him know its your girl and to respect what you two have.

liked me cause she never acted like that around anyone else. or is it possible she was playing with my feelings. also when ever we used to text last year she would use the blush emoji. but this yr we've drifted like crazy and idk whattodo. i still like her but she isnt in any of my classes. plz hlp

Its hard to tell how someone feels from emojis, people use all kinds of emojis like hearts and stuff even if they dont like the person like that. The best solution here might be to ask her to hang out and to see what happens with her.

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also ive been emailing her on the school email but the conversations were dead. i said hi, she said hi. i said what do u have now and she said english. i asked who her english teacher is and she responded. i left it at that. do u have any suggestions on what i could email her. (previous story btw)

Hey, it seems like things have fallen flat with her and shes lost interest. Emailing her might not bring things back to a level where she enjoys talking to you, thats something you may have to do in person with her. I made a video on how to rebuild that connection which might be helpful: https://youtu.be/Tr8UvdBlVa8thejoshspeaks’s Video 140488465364 Tr8UvdBlVa8thejoshspeaks’s Video 140488465364 Tr8UvdBlVa8

A follow up to the text-to-talk question. I'm in 6th Grade. We can't exactly make plans except if I ask her parents if we can go to the skate park. But is there anything I could do with her at school to get a more comfortable relationship?

You can always try to make plans during lunch together or see if your parents can take you out somewhere together.

Oi! So there's this girl. And I want to become better friends with her and I have her number. We text a lot but whenever she's there in public I can't say anything! I get so nervous I just walk away. Any tips?

Hey, what I think you can always try doing it making plans via text so you guys can hang out in person. That way you can lock something down and have a reason to approach one person. I talk more about tips like that in this video here: https://youtu.be/z4Bio0nO3csthejoshspeaks’s Video 140410405844 z4Bio0nO3csthejoshspeaks’s Video 140410405844 z4Bio0nO3cs

I accidentaly liked my crushes old instagram photo, what to do and what she gonna think about me now?

Hey, i wouldnt worry too much about it, if she asks you anything you can always say you were bored one day and scrolling. I wouldnt lie or cover up liking her though.

Hey Josh I think I messed up my chances with a girl I like. I did some pretty freaky stuff. Because of that she calls me a "freak". I really regret those 4 days. Should I approach her and try ask her out or let her be? I'm in the 8th grade if that helps at all. Thanks in advance! :)

Perhaps try talking to her about it, let her know you havent been yourself and you want things to be cool with you two.
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I fear that I may have ruined my chances with a girl I like. I acted completely weird for about 4 days. I did a few things that I regret doing. She always calls me a "freak" and gives me dirty looks. Should I approach her or let her be? Thanks in advance Josh! :)

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Hmm it all depends on what happened. If its something that creeped her out then it may be best to leave her alone.

I'm a freshmen and I'm really shy. I want to talk to my crush by asking a question to her group of friends and then slowly start focusing on her. I would have asked "what color is this dress", but that's too old. What are some interesting questions I can ask??

I made this video with tips on talking to your crush and her friends which might be helpful https://youtu.be/ibQOT06vHFMthejoshspeaks’s Video 140330175700 ibQOT06vHFMthejoshspeaks’s Video 140330175700 ibQOT06vHFM

Hey josh I just asked out my crush yesterday. We've been best friends in high school and now talking again. I told her I liked her she, but she told me she's not looking for a relationship right now apparently she just got dumped. We workout together now mon. Wed. Fri. Do I wait till she's ready?

I would wait, in the meantime get to know her and see if she would be open to hanging out to get to know you too. You guys can casually see one other just to learn more about each other.

She said she's already booked with a prom date with this other guy in class😰, their not dating but she's very flirtatious to a lot of guys.. Is it game over for me?

Hmm it sounds like she softly turned you down, i would try focusing on other prospects.

I've given my friend a cute keychain for her birthday today, she hugged me awkwardly & I cheerished it cuz I've been hiding I'm onto her. I want a move but she flirts almost all of the white guys that have been outperforming me, like literally. I'm honestly tired of competition, should I pursue?

If you really like her then you may have to step up your game and ask her out. If you wait on it , someone else might ask her out.

Ive been a quite an acquaintance with this girl since 9th grade. We've hangout & made YT vids before. Nothing more nothing less, she's not typical the "hot girl" the guys are chasing around. But she's hitting up most of the hot guys, none of the guys are not into her doe. Should I make a move on her

Absolutely, if you like her then you should totally make a move. Try asking her to hang out one on one and see if you can flirt with her then.

Hey Josh there is this girl that I like. We both feel the same about each other but her friends are noisy and annoying. They are always around her. I plan on asking her out soon but I'm afraid that her friends might cause me to leave her if we ever get together. Whats your advice? Thanks in advance!

Hey it sounds like if her friends dont want her to be happy then she needs to talk to them about that. I would still go forward and ask her out, they will grow to like you if they see you and their friend are a good match.

and it's almost valentines's day what should i don't to tell her i like her without her being creeped out

Hey, it seems like the best thing to do would be to focus on talking to her when you're in the club. I wouldnt push to make something happen by Valentines Day because that might be too soon. First work on getting to know her by introducing yourself.

Do something like that. If I want to get with her what should I do. Can you tell me by the info what your take of the story is? I'm going to school tomorrow so I'll update you . If you have any question about something I may have missed in the story, tell me in your answer. Ty man hope u read this❤🍻

Hey, it sounds like she may see you as a friend. It doesnt sound like there is anything there that is romantic just yet. With the instagram thing, I dont think she unfollowed you to be mean if she just narrowed it down to boy bands and her best friend. It does however show that she sees you as just a friend. If you want to build it into something more you should try talking to her more if you can. Get to know her better again by starting conversations and eventually asking her to hang out.

Hello sir watched some of your videos on YouTube wanted ur suggestion,I hv a crush on a girl but the problem is her friends like me,so if I approach my crush don't know how she is going to react as her friends like me.She greets me warmly but I am too afraid. Want ur views on this sir

Hmm thats a tough situation, it seems like its important for you to get across that you dont like the friend so maybe when you talk to your crush you can let her knoe you see the other girl as just a friend.

hey josh , well i wouldn't mind stepping up but what should i say? i heard she rejected a lot of boys before thx

If you want to stand out from the other guys, try to be direct with her. Let her know you like her by asking her to hang out with you. You can even try walking past the other guys and right up to her to do it.

Seems that college life is killing me. I find myself often losing sanity and even sometimes stopping eating in order to have a better studying time. And I seem to be unable to change my studying habits. Yet I'm passing most of this semester. Should I change to part-time course program next year?

Health and wellness needs to come first, there might be a way to better balance things but only try to take on the classes that you can realistically handle.

Back in my high days I gave up on a crush cuz she never had a bit of time for me while we were in the same class. Now we're LD friends, but in every convo we do she goes "all sweet to me" (kiss and heart emojis). I find it strange... She was herself in the past or now? Missing me shouldn't do that..

It sounds like she may feel more open now about being sweet like that. Perhaps theres something to it or she might feel a friend connection with you. Would there be any way to follow up with her to hang out in person?

Hey josh ,well my crush and i go to the same university we majored in different topics however we study in the same buildin so my question is should i facebook here and write a cute paragraph or step up to her im really confsued man im shy and i got rejected last year by a different crush thx

Hey, stepping up is always the best thing to do. Its the most confident approach you can take. What do you feel is holding you back from doing it?

Hi josh theres this girl im in 8th grade we are in the same league and we talk she is very nice sweet funny and cute and she feels the same way about me what should i do

Hey thats awesome, the next step would be to ask them out! This video will help build on that: https://youtu.be/HwtVLMsNNiothejoshspeaks’s Video 139716886740 HwtVLMsNNiothejoshspeaks’s Video 139716886740 HwtVLMsNNio

Should i text a girl and ask her out whom i never talk before? p.s i got her number from our class whatsapp group. i blew my chances for not talking to her before, and now we going to have 1 month break.

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Hey, i wouldnt recommend doing that simply because she may feel like its an invasion of privacy. You might have a better chance if you talk to her in person first when you go back from winter break.

could you help me decide which college I should go College A has a few of my friends poor facilities alright teaching and closer to home. College B has none of my friends excellent facilities good teaching but quite far from my house and most of the time will be lonely because I dont know anyone.

It's a tough decision to make, I think it comes down to what your goals are. Sure, being close to your friends may be good but whenever you go to a new environment you are open to making new friends and establishing new experiences. I think it may be a matter of being realistic with what you can afford, what your goals are for the future, and what you feel comfortable with overall.
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