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Ok well I was successful in moving on from my crush and that's good thing...cause she blocked me on Instagram for no reason 😂😂😂

Awok3n Matrix
You win some, you lose some. Try to understand why she may have blocked you and make sure you don't fall into the same trap with your next crush.

Will you make a video with someone from your family?

I've done a few collab videos on my brothers channel CTKaraoke. We've done let's plays for a few different classic games on his channel.

Eh homie. It's been a while since we talked and I ran into a lil issue. So me and my two niggas. We was talking to this other nigga and them dumbasses got theyselves into a gang. Now they want me in they gang I been tellin them a nigga got 2 look after hisself. What could I say to get em to fuck off

Joining a gang never works out in the long run. At the end of the day they lead into violence and stray away from the root cause which may appear to be a brotherhood at first when it really isnt. Just stay strong in your stance and don't back down, no matter what.

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Her josh so me and this girl broke up... And so there's this other girl that I think is pretty cute. And I want to to date her but she doesn't look at me that way cuz I dated her friend. What do I do for her to find me attractive so I can ask her out

Dating a girls friend can be tricky but the one thing I would suggest is being open with her about how you feel, if the topic of the friend comes up then let her know that you no longer have any feelings for the other girl and try to redirect it back to the two of you there.

Josh when a girl not interested, how do you make her interested?

You can't make someone interested, the most you can do is showcase your best self and if she feels like it's aligned with hers then she'll respond positively to it. The key is to highlight your best qualities and to be proactive in talking to her instead of waiting for her to notice you and talk to you first.

Is it normal to have a crush on someone younger? What is the maximum age difference (in your opinion)?

It's totally normal to feel things for someone else, regardless of age. It all comes down to having the conscious mind to know if you should act on it or not. As for age there really is no limits unless you're going by the legal age of the place you live. My breakdown is as long as they are within you're school bracket (high school, middle school, etc.) then it's fair game.

How to get a girl that doesnt like you?

I made a video called How to Not Creep Out Girls which touches on this point. The important thing is to get a sense of why she may not like you. Does she not like you romantically or does she not like you personally?

Do you believe in god?

I believe in God in the sense that all things in the universe are connected through the simple fact that they exist with one another. To me God represents the unity of the universe, I don't attribute any human qualities to him like the ability to love, get angry and hold us to a specific rulebook.

Where and when is your live streaming event going to be on?

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hey I'm gonna be live streaming later tonight before I record tonight's episode. it should be around 7:30 pm est

I bought tickets for a concert and then broke up with a girl I wanted take there.Some of my friends already bought the tickets,others dont like this type of music and the girls I know,know that I have just broken up with a girl and dont want to be my 2nd choice.How can I get to know sb willing to go

hmm it might just be a matter of asking around. I don't know if there's an easy solution for you to use but asking on IG or FB might help.

Hi Josh, I can do some magic tricks... Do you think it is a lame idea to show them to some random girls at the mall hoping that I could get to know someone? Thanks

It's not lame of you find a way to lead it into a conversation. The last thing you want to be is a one trick pony who is good for magic but isn't good enough to get to know. Stop a group and tell them you want to show them a new trick you're working on and then afterwards tell them why you got into magic, ask them where they're headed to and walk with them, see if you can all grab food or sit down for a while to talk.

Yea never mind she deleted kik again and stopped talking to me again. 😔

Awok3n Matrix
Perhaps that's a sign that you may need to develop an in person friendship with her before you move forward?

Maybe you could make a contest between those donating you so they could win a 1 on 1 chat with you? Or maybe make a chat with every single new person donating you?

For Patreon that's set up as one of the perks, a Skype call every month so we can chat about whatever you'd like. I'm also going to run another contest soon and I'll be periscoping all throughout August whenever my phone battery doesn't die on me.

How are the parteon donations going?

pretty good, I have two people helping me reach my goals. have any suggestions of perks I can offer to get more people on board?

JOSH! Something actually went right! My crush started to kik me again and she is actually talking to me! I think I might have a shot here!

Awok3n Matrix
awesome to hear man, let me know how it goes!

Here is what's going on: The girl I really like is pissed at me I'm verbally abused I'm worthless I don't wanna live

why is she pissed at you? And besides that you are not any of those things. You have self appointed yourself those titles based on the actions of someone else. Don't ever let someone else's feelings dictate who you are because you're worth more than someone else's opinion.

Hey Josh, I'm 13 and I still don't know what I want to do after school. I'm kinda afraid cause most people have an idea on what they want to be but I have no clue, any advice?

I know how scary it can be to not feel like you have a direction just yet when everyone around you thinks they do. At 13 I wasn't prepared for the future and I didn't even start to truly know what I wanted to do till 24! You have lots of time to try things, discover new hobbies and make mistakes. Always be learning, and in time you'll start to shape your path. Paths are always shaped, not chosen.

I hate my fucking life. Nothin ever goes right and I'm a fucking reject

Hey, it sounds like you might feel hurt in some way. If you need someone to talk to you can shoot me an email at thejoshspeaks@gmail.com so you can let me know what's going on. I'm here to listen if you need me to.

Haha my nigga! Swimming pools was the best one in my opinion. I got 2 more if u wanna hear em

yea man, send me my way

Thank you very much dude. I think i know what to do. I said you that about the make fun part because a good friend of mine was really bad for a lot of time due to some kids from our class made fun of him in every break. Thanks again very much :)

it really sucks when people bully others. I don't think people really understand how that can affect someone long term :/

I like a girl. I want to message her (Because she doesnt know me really good) but i dont know what to say. I get really nervous and cannot think anything because im afraid she will may realize that i like her, she will reject me and talk to everyone about it. Please help

Hey, it sounds like the fear of rejection might be stronger than your will to succeed here. I know it can be tough to approach a girl you barely know but if you truly want to see if you can develop something with her you're going to have to take risks and see where it all goes. If you're planning on messaging her to start the conversation, I would hold off on that. It's hard to start a conversation online like that, mainly because the pressure is higher since you're competing with so many things for her time. (Summer, other things on her phone, whatever she's doing in that moment IRL). I would suggest holding off till the school year and then trying to talk to her in person. That way you can transition online and have it go smoothly. As for her telling everyone and them making fun of you, there's nothing embarrassing about liking someone and it actually means your confident if you have the courage to go after the person you like. Anyone who says otherwise has likely never had the courage to do that before.

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But if I am on the camp now, can you give me any advice?

I'm gonna do a video for tomorrow on summer camp and confidence so stay tuned for that!

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