Hey josh I must thank you for helping me understand the topic of dating. Although my knowledge is still not the greatest on it, I have been able to pass some of it to people in my school. Thanks again!

June 08, 2015

Awesome man, thanks for spreading the word!

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I have a girlfriend and i think things are going pretty well. I'm going into 8th grade and she recently told me that she loved me. What do you think she means by this? Should I believe this and go along with it, or somehow slow things down within the relationship?

June 08, 2015

It all depends on how you feel. She might use I love you to mean she really likes you. If you feel using terms like that are too strong for you then be open about it. If you feel she's moving too fast then kindly let her know you want to slow things down a bit.

Hey Josh! So I've Been In Class Sitting Next To This Girl I Like And She Started Talking To Me And Making Fun Of My Little Mistakes In A Playful Way. We Would Make Fun Of Eachother Everyday And We Used To Talk All The Time, But Now She Just Stopped Talking To Me. Does This Mean She Doesn't Like Me

June 08, 2015

Hmm it sounds like maybe you two were flirty but she lost interest. I made a video called how to know if a girl is losing interest in you which might be helpful for you.

Josh I've liked this girl for a couple months now and her friend told her I liked her. The girl I like hasn't spoken about it and is still friendly with me. Sometimes I feel like she might also like me back but I never get the courage to make my move. What do I do? P.S. School ends in 2 weeks.

June 08, 2015

Hey I made a video called my friend told my crush I like her. I talk about damage control in that video but if you're looking to build up the courage in the next two weeks you can check out my videos on confidence.

What are some ways to tell if you're in love with your girlfriend? She's 17 and I'm 16. Not saying that she feels the same way exactly. We've been friends for a year and in a relationship for 4 weeks now. Also school's out what do we do in summer break?

June 08, 2015

Hmm 4 weeks is a pretty short time period to be able to truly love someone. I would wait until you guys have spent a significant amount of time together before really trying to map out if you love one another. Also, for spring break you can spend a lot of time outside. Get ice cream together, spend time sitting on the grass at the park or just go for epic walks together.

Hey josh I like this girl and she keeps looking at me and talking to other people in class. I wanna talk to her but I get nervous and she always changes her voice every time I trie to talk to her. I walk her home sometimes and she always get close what should I do?

June 04, 2015

hey, you can't really tell from a look whether the girl likes you. What's important here is that you like her, that's enough to pursue her and to ask her out. If she says no then that's on her and how she feels. Don't spend a lot of time trying to analyze her behavior here because you might actually be pushing yourself farther from her.

Hey Josh, I use to be really good friends with this girl earlier in the year, we had a lot in common and went to places like amusement parks and ice cream shops. But one day she ignored me and got into a different crowd, I still have feelings for her and eventually I want to ask her out sometime.

June 04, 2015

Hey man, it sounds like you two shared some fun times but she may be moving on to another group now? It doesn't mean you can't pursue her, just make sure your intentions are a little clearer when you do it so she doesn't feel surprised if you go from being a friend to liking her.

If you get "permanently" friendzone by a girl. Is there anyway out?

June 03, 2015

The best way out is to move on. In time once you feel like you've grown as a person then I would try approaching her from a different perspective, one that's more confident and open about how he feels and wanting to pursue her. When you do that you will get a yes or no but you at least won't be friend zoned.

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What are some good 1 month anniversary gifts for a girl in highschool?

June 02, 2015

Since it's only been 1 month you can keep it simple. Getting her flowers is good or just making a card for her is a simple and very thoughtful one too.

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My girlfriend's past relationships were gone due to the guys being too clingy or trying to use her for her body. I respect and care for her. How can I show my affection without accidently looking like I'm a pervert? Although I would never decline an opportunity I would wait.

June 01, 2015

She may have had bad experiences in the past but the key is to make sure that you're always open about your interactions and what you're doing. If you feel like you may be moving at a speed that makes her feel uncomfortable then ask her from time to time if she's ok with it. Open communication is the most important thing you can have.

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I remember you talking about Trigun a few times. Is there any other anime that you like?

June 01, 2015

I really like a lot of the older ones like Cowboy Bebop, Android Kikaider and Death Note. I haven't really seen anything in the last few years.

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http://pietrzakadrian.blogspot.com/2015/05/vll-blvck.html hello. Could you write me what do you think? thanks! :) xx

May 30, 2015

Hey man, that's an interesting take on things. One thing I'm trying to practice is to be more aware of the fact that people are not as accepting because they don't know. If you can learn to forgive those that don't understand, you'll feel free from their judgment because their opinions aren't built on any real weight.

Hey Josh I wanted to know how I could keep my relationship going? I finally asked out my crush due to your videos and other resources. Today has been 3 weeks together. You see my girlfriend has had experience before with relationships, but this is my first time. How do I get comfortable with her?

May 30, 2015

A good way to get comfortable is to do something where you guys can bond. Try to find an activity like making pizzas together at home, going to a concert, build something together like a Lego structure, etc. It's in those bonding experiences that you guys will grow closer together.

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Josh what do I do if someone or some people don't like me having a relationship with a certain girl. Should it matter what other people think of our relationship?

May 29, 2015

It really shouldn't matter. There are always going to be people who disapprove of what you do and that shouldn't stop you. However if they are trying to warn you of someone's bad traits or something going on behind closed doors, it would be helpful to listen and learn where they are coming from.

There's a girl in my third period that's all the way across the room, I like her, and she always glances directly at me does this mean anything?

May 28, 2015

I made a video all about a girl smiling and if she likes you. Check out my video on that. All in all I would say it doesnt, but if you do in fact like her I would say talk to her and ask her out when you feel ready.

Hey josh, I have tried so hard but gotten nowhere. I don't seem to be able to attract girls. What are some tips to attracting girls ? Thanks

May 27, 2015

The problem might not be that you're not attracting girls, the problem may be that you're not making your intentions a little more clearer. Do you stop girls for conversation? Are you flirty when you interact with them? Have you ever asked any of them out?

Ok josh so you already asked answered one of mine and it helped so following that one... There's a girl that I like and recently I found out she kinda likes me too but she doesn't want too ruin anything, should I not try to ask her out.

May 27, 2015

Sounds like you might have been friend zoned there. What I would suggest to her is that you two take the chance because life is all about chances. Be persistent in asking her out and try to get yourself out of the friend zone. Don't settle for being just friends if you truly want to be with her instead.

Being that my work schedule is pretty tight, Is it a bad idea to "call in sick" to work. Just to go on a date? Keep in mind my work attendance is near perfect.

May 27, 2015

If you've never called out of work before I think it would be ok to take a day to relax and recharge. what better way to do that then to go on a date midday?

Josh, There was this girl I used to talk to and me and her were best friends. we both liked each other. then some troll started lies and she started to hate me. I became really depressed after this. how can I apologize? or am I screwed. PS: this was about a year ago.(I know its bad to dwell)

May 27, 2015

Hmm I don't think you should apologize for someone else spreading rumors. Plus it seems like so much time has passed that she has probably moved way on from anything thst was said. If you haven't talked to her in that length of time you can always restart what you have with her. Don't bring up the past unless she does, and if she does then try to downplay it so you can focus on moving forward and not back.

Hey Josh there's a girl that I dated a couple months ago. After a couple of days she broke up with me. Still to this day I still have a little bit of feelings for her. How can I stop this?

May 26, 2015

A good way to get over an ex is to start to shift your romantic focus to meeting new girls. Try to talk to people whenever you can and build a strong female group that you could hang out with. The next is to focus on yourself, take up a few new hobbies and challenge your ability to do the things you love. With all these new things on your mind she'll become merely a memory rather than a thought.

Josh is there a way to find out if your crush is seeing someone without making it awkward or weird?

May 26, 2015

A good way to do that is to drop in lines during the conversation like "I wonder what your boyfriend would think about that". If she agrees then she has one, if not then she'll clarify it for you.

What do I do if my crush is bisexual? How would I go about that? (She's a girl btw) I have no idea how to get her to like me. This is so confusing man.

May 26, 2015

Hmm if she's bisexual then that shouldn't really change how you approach her. If she's capable of being attracted to guys then I would suggest talking to her in the hall about something relatable like movies or music. Try to find out more details about her interests and hobbies and then build into them by asking more questions.

Something is wrong with my YouTube and I cat gain access to your account so can you give me some first date ideas

May 26, 2015

Hmm is it just my youtube channel or the site in general? I made a video with 10 first date ideas for teens which would be perfect to use. At its core it comes down to picking activities that are initially lightweight like going for a walk and hanging out after school to reduce the pressure and focus on the date the first time.

Hey josh what if a girl thinks your too "weird" and doesn't feel comfortable talking to you because of that ,and also happens to be your crush? How can one make this "weird" thing go away?

May 26, 2015

A lot if times, weirdness is built on the unknown. If you can walk up to her and have mini conversations with her at first she'll start to see that you're not weird and are in fact normal just like everyone else. One thing you can do is to try and see how it is you might be perceived as weird, in most cases it's nothing more than her just seeing you be quiet and timid at times. If you're more open and social with her, her perception will start to change.

Hi josh! So there's this girl and I'm planing on asking her out. Please give me a tip on how I should do

May 23, 2015

Hey, if you're looking for good openers or date ideas check out my videos "the perfect openers for girls" and "10 amazing first date ideas".

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