Josh I really like this girl in my class I am planning on asking her to a dance, what do I do if she says no?

April 03, 2015

If she says no then try talking to other girls as well so you can ask them. Before you ask your crush though try to spend some time hanging out with her first so when you ask her you'll have a better chance of her saying yes. I also made a video on dealing with rejection recently which might help you out.

I'm suffering from EXTREME social anxiety among girls since I started to have a crush. When I'm near them, I either don't talk or when I do I always come with weird stuff or short-talk. Almost all girls, including my crush, NEVER ignite the convo sparkle with me. I tried everything to relax but I ca

April 02, 2015

Because you like the girl it falls on your hands to start the conversation. I made a few videos about things like small talk, dealing with awkwardness, conversation openers, and how to generally talk to someone about your interests and hobbies along with asking them about theirs. check out some of those self help videos to see what they're all about.

Hey Josh, I like to collect model cars. And I like this girl and if she asks what hobbies I have should I tell her? I love collector model cars it's just that I don't want my crush to assume its weird

April 02, 2015

The only way she'll think its weird is if you talk about it and you're not passionate about it. you don't want to go into full detail just yet because she doesn't know you well enough to want to hear so much about it fight if you mention why you like it and maybe how you feel it ties into a gold you have in life, maybe to own real sports cars one day , then that leaves you open to ask her what her hobbies are as well.

Hey Josh how do I approach a girl in a class room?

April 02, 2015

Chances are she will be busy during class so the best time is to talk to her before or after. you can always try to catch her and she's walking in or try to time your exit when she's leaving and walk alongside her to the next class. if you don't know what to talk to her about try asking her class she has next and what her thoughts are on it. then try to share your thoughts on your classes and ask her what her hobbies are.

Hey josh is there a way I can Skype with ya one on one ??

April 02, 2015

I'm going to be holding a contest soon for a one on one Skype call. make sure watch for that video when I put it out and enter the contest to see if you can win!

Is being 27 never had girlfriend and virgin bad ???

April 02, 2015

There's no defined age so when you should lose your virginity, however the problem there is fact because you are a little bit older you may be going into I'm new experiences with people who have already had experiences. What do you feel has been holding you back from going after those things in your life?

o josh please please do a video on how NOT to be intimidate by eye contact or how to look ppl in there eye when talking to them please this huge for and my friends please elaborate about this a video please....

April 01, 2015

Hey I'll put together a video all about eye contact. For now check out my video all about body language which mentions it and should be helpful.

Hey josh I recently got this girls number we talk a good bit but she never texts first I do I'm confused please help ??????????!!!!!!!!

April 01, 2015

I would suggest messaging her with something fun like "oh my god guess what" or something that will intrigue her to respond. Try to make conversations fun and stay away from boring phrases like "hey what's up" because that usually puts the ball in her court to come up with a topic. Try to steer the conversation with fun stories and topics

Sorry just a comment AWESOME!!!.. site......... this is a great idea to help ppl and awesome work your doing thanks Josh for answers questions I really appreciateit man .. keep it going please..

April 01, 2015

Thanks for the feedback! I really appreciate it!

Josh is this website similar to the" SECRET" app?

April 01, 2015

Hey it kind of is, the only difference is that's it's 1 to 1 with me where secret is 1 to all.

Hey Josh, I really really like this sexy girl in my class and want to ask her out to a dance. We don't know each other very well. How can I ask her?

March 31, 2015

Hey I made a video called how to ask your crush to prom which might be helpful for you here. I share the mindset you need for asking out the hot girl and how to do it right. Check it out!

Hey josh, there is this girl that means everything to me and I've tried getting over her, but I can't. She likes me but she's got a boyfriend

March 31, 2015

I know that feeling, the thing is if she has a boyfriend then you have to move on. It's never good to be a home wrecker by stepping in and interfering with their relationship. The best cure for oneitis is to force yourself to talk to other girls and people. When ever we feel like we're head over heels in love with someone that doesn't know, the best thing to do is to test those feelings by talking to other girls. Plus it will help get your mind off of her.

A guy friend of mine, who has no love interest at all in my crush, is suspecting from the way I behave that I like my crush. How can I make him successfully believe in my lie that I'm not into my crush while still trying to grab her attention? I don't trust him enough to keep secrets and I think ig

March 31, 2015

I think you shouldn't try to hide the fact that you like your crush. Sure, he might run and go tell her but here's the thing, you shouldn't feel ashamed of liking her so if she finds out before you ask her out its just a sign that you should have asked her before he told her. I made a video called my crush knows I like her which would be helpful in this situation if that's what happens. A good way to get her to see that you like her is by acting that way around her. Try teasing her when you see her and ask her to hang out with you sometime.

It's Spring Break and I have a Crush on this girl. But we haven't talk yet. She was walking right beside me the other day, and then when someone said my name she look at me. I've gotten all these signals. So is it time to message her in Facebook over the break?

March 31, 2015

Hey I did a Google hangout all about asking a girl out after winter break and how to message her. The same advice works for spring break as it did for winter break. The hangout is a bit long but the first 20-30 minutes are my step by step guide for how to do it.

How do I ask out the girl to the dance at my school?

March 31, 2015

Hey I made a video called how to ask a girl out to prom, that video might be helpful for you in asking her out.

Hey Josh, one of my friends who is a girl offered to help me pick out clothes for school. Should I say yes or no? It sounds weird tbh

March 30, 2015

If one of your female friends wants to help you pick out clothes, take that as a really good sign. Some of my best outfits are picked up by girls, they have a better sense of fashion and a keen eye for what looks good. She might make you look like a million bucks.

Josh I am taking one class at another school. How do I ask out the girl without fear of rejection and of her making fun of me

March 30, 2015

You can't always prevent rejection but you can handle how you react the rejection. What I would suggest doing is talking to her and getting to know her before you ask her out. build a relationship that is friendly and then leave that I ask her out once you guys have spent enough time talking to each other.

Josh I feel like a loser! I have no one to text me!!!!!! I want friends to text me.

March 30, 2015

If you want something in life you need to create change in your life. Try meeting new people by starting conversations with kids in your class and in the hallway. You might make some new friends that way and then you'll have people to text you.

How do I keep a girl texting me?

March 30, 2015

To keep a girl texting you you need to keep the conversation interesting. If things start to become blind and you're sending her messages like hey how are you and what's up all the time then she's going to get bored and stop responding. try saying things like or making an observation about something and asking her opinion

my crush haves a crush. but her crush doesn't seem interested in her. should I ask her out if she has a crush?

March 27, 2015

You should absolutely ask her out if she has a crush on someone else, a crush on a boyfriend so that means that she's not going out with someone right now. Plus if you can have a better time with her then she'll forget all about her crush.

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I know every girl if different but what is the first thing I should do? Make eye contact? And how do I approach her without fear of rejection?

March 27, 2015

I just made a video all about getting over the fear of rejection, you should check it out. the very first step would be to approach her with a smile and say hello. a lot of guys want to keep their distance and do things like wait to see if she likes him back but she won't like you back unless you took the first step and give her a reason to.

Is it normal to not know THAT much about a girl before you consider asking her out? Like for example if typical conversations between you and the person never get very personal but you two do talk daily.

March 27, 2015

If you find yourself only talking about simple things, eventually it's going to get boring. You have to keep it alive by getting a little bit more personal. Also, if you plan on asking her out then getting to know her better will work tremendously in your favor.

Josh I like this beautiful girl at my new school I don't know if she has a bf. How do I get her to like me and how do I ask her out?

March 27, 2015

She has a boyfriend already and it might make more sense to back off. However you can still talk to her, flirt with her better, and get to know her better

Josh I like this girl at my school but she doesn't know me that well. What should I do

March 27, 2015

If you like her and she doesn't know you very well then it may be time to step up and ask her out. I know the fear is real but by asking her I'm going out with her you'll have a much better chance of getting to know her better and I'm actually making her you're girlfriend.

Josh I think I have fallen for one of my friends. The only bad thing is she is dating someone else and I don't know how to tell her that I like her. I was going to wait till the next time we hangout and then tell her. Idk what I should tell her. I have known her for 4 years.

March 27, 2015

What I would suggest is that you don't tell her how you feel but instead show her how you. by telling her you're feeling you're not going to make her break up with her boyfriend and then just jump into your arms, instead you might make her feel awkward because she won't know how to process the change in your behavior. If in the last four years he spent that time building a friendship, turning your back on it is only going to make her confused. if you want to win her over try focusing on yourself and don't be her friend anymore if you find that you painful to not be with her. Take time to grow and to learn how to be a better version yourself and then in the future if she's single you can try approaching her romantically.

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