so..I have a dilemma. I 'courted' this girl because I was attracted to her tho I'm not reply sure I like her enough. We've been dating for a few months now and I've been happy, but now I'm beginning to think she doesn't like me enough and she's still hung up about her ex. Moreover I think I'm
getting bored of her. And I find myself being interested in other girls. I do like her but I don't think I'd want to stay when she doesn't like me enough anyway. I have a feeling she's just lonely that's why she agreed to date me. Basically I'm feeling insecure. What do I do?
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Look, before anything, you find out what you want in life.
Are you looking for someone to marry after five years? If the answer to this is yes, then break this off. You won't find what you're looking for with her.
If the answer is no, and you feel that there is some connection worth exploring and strengthening, then stick around. Live life with her. Be happy. Let things grow naturally. You're in no rush, right? So why rush things? This will either prosper beautifully or fail in one of many different ways, and it would be best to let the universe steer the course instead of actively sabotaging it. Life is long. There will be time enough for everything worth having as long as you're alive.
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Look, before anything, you find out what you want in life.
Are you looking for someone to marry after five years? If the answer to this is yes, then break this off. You won't find what you're looking for with her.
If the answer is no, and you feel that there is some connection worth exploring and strengthening, then stick around. Live life with her. Be happy. Let things grow naturally. You're in no rush, right? So why rush things? This will either prosper beautifully or fail in one of many different ways, and it would be best to let the universe steer the course instead of actively sabotaging it. Life is long. There will be time enough for everything worth having as long as you're alive.
