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Bagaimana cara berdamai dengan masa lalu yang tidak begitu bagus?

I don't know.
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What other option do you have sih?
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Mau terus-menerus perang dengan masa lalu kamu? Mau sampe kapan? What do you get by not forgiving yourself?
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When you understand that you have no other option than forgiving yourself, you'll start letting go of your past.

Kent, bisa pesan yg lengan panjang juga?

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Bisa dong!
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Tinggal kalian pilih jenis lengannya waktu lagi order. Selain jenis lengan, kalian juga bisa pilih size dan warna kaosnya. Dipilih, dipilih.
Kent bisa pesan yg lengan panjang juga
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Aku lupa bertanya,"apa yg bisa kulakukan ketika rindu dgnmu?"

Kalo kangen sama gue, kalian bisa pake kaos Sarcastee!
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Inget kan beberapa saat lalu, gue sama @devlinputra colab untuk bikin kaos lucu dengan kata-kata sarkastik?
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Nah sekarang udah ada design-design baru yang ready stock!
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Buat kalian yang tertarik, bisa langsung ke www.sarcastee.com buat order yah.
Aku lupa bertanyaapa yg bisa kulakukan ketika rindu dgnmu

hi kent, when you were studying in the U.S, were you on a scholarship programme?

Iya, tapi cuma partial scholarship, jadi setengah uang sekolah gue dibayarin, setengahnya lagi gue bayar sendiri.
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For whatever reason, back in 2009, U.S. nggak terlalu menyediakan beasiswa untuk S1. Even now, I believe kebanyakan beasiswa yang ditawarkan oleh U.S. itu untuk S2 aja.

What song lyrics do you love most? Share them here!

Hands down John Mayer's Slow Dancing In a Burning Room.
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Ga tau ya, buat gue sih ini lagu beneran ngena banget. John Mayer wrote a breakup song without mentioning about the actual breakup.
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It's not a silly little moment >>> (nunjukin kalo couple itu udah sering berantem but this is different compared to the rest of the petty arguments.)
It's not the storm before the calm >>> (Weird phrase. Istilah yang kerap dikenal orang kan "calm before the storm," John Mayer deliberately chose this phrase to show that there will NEVER come another calm in the relationship.)
This is the deep and dying breath of this love that we've been working on. >>> (Dalam benak gue, when an animal dies of old age, they don't have deep and dying breath. An animal has a deep and dying breath if it has an open wound, maybe because it was shot. Di lirik ini, bayangan gue menggambarkan relationship John seperti sebuah binatang yang udah ditembak dan sekarat, tinggal nunggu waktu aja.)
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We're going down,
And you can see it too.
We're going down,
And you know that we're doomed.
My dear,
We're slow dancing in a burning room. >>> (The chorus is the best part. The couple understands that the relationship is dying, but instead of evacuating, they decided to slow dance in the burning room, savoring each and every precious moment they have left.)
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I think this is the only song that sends goosebumps down my spine every time I listen to it.

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setuju sama nikah muda?

Tergantung definisi "muda" kamu sih.
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Tapi gue personally nggak setuju dengan pernikahan di bawah umur 23 tahun.
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Kenapa?
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Untuk kalian yang sudah menginjak usia 20 lebih, pernah nggak sih kalian melihat ke belakang saat-saat kalian masih remaja dan merasa kalian tuh guobloknya setengah mati?
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Worry not, because this phenomenon actually happens to everyone. And I do mean everyone.
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Secara biologi, rata-rata otak manusia BARU mulai terbentuk sepenuhnya di usia pertengahan 20.
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Sebelum usia tersebut, otak kita tuh kekurangan satu bagian yang sangat penting: frontal cortex.
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Frontal cortex ini fungsinya adalah menghubungkan SELURUH otak kita yang lain.
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Jika diibaratkan sebagai sebuah home theater, otak kita tuh seperti TV LED 60" yang lengkap dengan sound system dan kursi yang luar biasa pewe. Dan frontal cortex berfungsi sebagai remote TV tersebut.
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Percuma kan lo punya TV segede gaban dan sound system yang cetar membahana tapi nggak bisa ganti-ganti channel?
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Otak manusia remaja tuh frontal cortex-nya masih belum sempurna. Bagian frontal cortex ini baru terbentuk secara sempurna ketika kita menginjak usia 25-an.
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Tanpa frontal cortex yang berfungsi, kita cenderung melakukan hal-hal dungu, seperti teleponin mantan subuh-subuh ngajak balikan, atau maksa orang tua kita beliin iPhone terbaru padahal kondisi keuangan keluarga lagi pas-pasan.
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TL;DR: No, I don't condone getting married young; at least not until you're 23+.

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haii Kak. Kak salah ga sih kalo cewe ngungkapin rasa suka sama cowo yang udah punya pacar?

Apa sih alasan kamu mau ngungkapin rasa suka ke cowok tersebut?
Apakah:
a. kamu berharap doi putusin pacarnya dan jadian sama kamu?
b. kamu harus kepentok tembok ditolak habis-habisan baru bisa dan mau move on?
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Salah sih enggak karena nggak ada hukum NKRI yang melarang itu.
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Tapi ya balik lagi, kamu sendiri kalau punya pacar dan ada seorang perempuan yang nembak pacar kamu, gimana rasanya?
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Meskipun dua-duanya nggak salah, tapi kalo kamu ngungkapin perasaan karena alasan A, menurut gue lo sedikiiiitt lebih anjing dibandingkan kalo kamu melakukannya karena alasan B.

Is it a shame to tell that you've been hitting someone from tinder?

Gue punya temen yang menemukan pacarnya via Tinder. Sampe sekarang, mereka udah pacaran lebih dari satu tahun.
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Oh but is it a shame to admit you're looking for your better half?
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Ya balik lagi ke masing-masing orang.
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Menurut gue, kalo emang Tinder bisa jadi medium mencari pasangan hidup, ya kenapa nggak dipergunakan dengan baik?
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Lagian, dari sisi psikologi, Tinder tuh beneran mempermudah memfilter calon pacar, karena orang yang main Tinder yah emang mereka yang sedang available dan mencari pacar. Jadinya kamu nggak perlu susah-susah menerka-nerka status relationship seseorang.
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Daripada diperbudak teknologi, kan mendingan kita yang memperbudak. Heu.

Kent, kok Looking for Alaska nya John Green ngga masuk list 5 besar?

Life is funny, you know.
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Looking For Alaska was a very important book to me: not because the story is superbly written (don't get me wrong; I really enjoyed reading Looking For Alaska), but because the novel itself was given to me by someone who, at that time, was highly special to me.
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The reason I was head over heels toward Alaska was because she reminded me of that someone special.
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You know how Pudge's story ended abruptly when Alaska died? At that time, I could relate so so much to Pudge, mainly due to my then-Alaska abruptly left without even a word of good bye.
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And so I held on to what little memory I had of her: the novel she gave me. So I religiously reread that novel.
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I deliberately refused to write anything about Alaska because I thought that she was an unfinished chapter in my story: a scab that will never clot. And by writing about her, I'd dig and prod at a wound that would never ever heal. (This is a writing I dedicated to her, by the way, in case you're interested: http://ask.fm/nyankent/answers/120231905416 )
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But then @jeaniceang happened and here I am, a year later, nonchalantly writing about her.
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I guess the fact that I stopped listing Looking For Alaska as my favorite novel is a sign that my scab finally clotted and the scar has fully faded. Heh.

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Kent, do you think the Gone Girl film is good like the novel?

It's not as good, imo. Which is highly understandable, because seriously it's hard to fluidly pull off dual POV in a movie as opposed to doing it in a novel.
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Despite that, I thoroughly enjoy the movie because the ending seems more polished than the one in the book. Hats off to Gillian Flynn and David Fincher!

kak kent beneran suka novel hunger games trilogy? kukira kak kent cm suka yg rumit2 dan antimainstream..kalo boleh tau, apa yg kak Kent suka dr hunger games trilogy?

Suka banget!
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Come to think of it, The Hunger Games itu adalah novel pertama yang bikin gue jatuh cinta dengan dystopia. (And for the record, gue udah suka Hunger Games jauhhhhh sebelum dijadiin film.)
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Gue semacam kecewa loh dengan pemilihan cast-nya, khususnya Rue dari district 11 (dari deskripsi di bukunya, gue vividly imagined Rue as a white girl with a very frail body) dan President Snow (bayangan gue Snow masih terlihat muda dengan mata ular penuh kepicikan).
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Ah but I digress.
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Yang bikin gue tergila-gila dengan Hunger Games adalah kedalaman karakter dan kemampuan world building-nya Suzanne Collins. So distant yet so vivid; so strange yet so relatable.
kak kent beneran suka novel hunger games trilogy kukira kak kent cm suka yg

Mau nanya dong... gue udh pacaran 8thn. Tp KKN kmrn gue baper sm cowo. cowo nya deket jg sm cewe lain di kampus, tp doi jg suka sm gue pdhl tau gue udh ada pacar. kita ngerasa kaya gabisa bersatu gitu... trs skrg jauhan. Tp gue msh kepikiran doi melebihi pacar gue. gue harus ngejar doi apa gmn?

Wah ini saat yang tepat buat kamu baca artikel gue tentang jodoh dan matematika.
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http://nyankent.com/menemukan-jodoh-menggunakan-matematika/

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