Are you asking, hypothetically, is it okay to have one? If so, it really depends on the friend. I believe the parameters of any friendship is okay, as long as all parties involved are okay with it and not being abused or taken advantage of. I would be careful here though. From the people I know who have been in this situation, there’s almost always one friend who wants this arrangement more than the other.
What color are you wearing for Christmas? Do you usually dress up and get all fancy?
I don’t know, is this fancy?
Any advice for a girl who just realized she’s falling in Love with her best friend, even though he doesn’t feel the same about her?
He probably already knows. Just tell him. A real friendship will last whether or not he loves you back in that way. And at least then, you’ll have tried instead of spending your life wondering if it could’ve worked.
What three things in life you want more than anything else?
I want climate change mitigation, for humanity to grow up already and quit being so selfish, and to be a full time working actor.
Are you more of a Grinch or Santa person?
Santa, so long as you don’t rush Christmas. If you start with the Christmas spirit before Thanksgiving is over, I’m likely to grumble.
When you looked at yourself in the mirror today, what was the first thing you thought?
THANK GOD I’M ON VACATION
Do you like shopping? How much time can you spend on this?
I don’t hate shopping but I don’t think of it as something I greatly enjoy. I don’t like crowds much, so whatever shopping we can do online, we will, especially around the holidays. The rest of the time, enjoyment is directly related to how much time we can spend in brick and mortar stores we actually like. I’m sad that independent bookstores are vanishing, so my enjoyment is less and less every year.
What is the main reason for you to refuse a date?
I’m married.
What ruins a party for sure?
Unexpected poolside gun.
What position do you play in soccer
Sofa.
What song do you get stuck in your head?
Right now, it’s “Merry Xmas Everybody” by Slade. You typically don’t hear it in the US, so I have to blame both Russell T Davies and Steven Moffat for this.http://tardis.wikia.com/wiki/Merry_Xmas_Everybody
Do you believe that rude people should be hugged until they are nice?
Like that would work...?
Would you be happy to receive a gift certificate for your birthday?
Gift certificates or gift cards are awesome and I give and receive them all the time. (That said, please do not feel that you should send me anything. My wife and I are doing just fine. Please spend your money on YOU.)