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Your worst nightmare?

abhishekdevgan1’s Profile PhotoAbhishek devgan
It has been the most scary and horrifying experience and it is still a miracle as to how I still remember it.
It happened two years ago….
It had been a very long and tiring day for me, and all I wanted was a good night sleep. I had an early dinner and went to sleep in my comfortable bed. If I had known that this bad experience was coming, I would have never fallen asleep that night.
I saw myself sleeping (in my dream) on the bed, so soundly, and suddenly I heard an ear-splitting noise. I rushed out of my room to the other room where my parents were sleeping. Only to find my parents have transformed into skeletons.
I got accustomed to the horrific scenario in front of me, when I felt someone tapping my shoulder from behind. I turned around slowly with my eyes wide open and sweating like crazy.
I turned around to find myself standing behind me. Yes, the situation turned out when I stabbed a knife behind my back. I also saw myself falling to the ground.
Later, when I woke up after this nightmare. I found myself holding that same knife again!

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Which fairytale you’d like to live in?

alee_mux’s Profile Photoعلی احمد
From a human point of view, out bodily existence is a fairytale indeed. At any rate, to the inhabitants of the human world, 'heaven' and 'the next world' are both nothing but fables itself. So, I shall continue to live this life and be known for my good deeds instead! Because, fairytales are written for the kids but, most of the kids don't believe in/ remember fairy tales very long. Once they hit sixor seven they put away "Cinderella" and
her shoe fetish, "The Three Little Pigs" with their violation of building codes, "Miss Muffet" and her well-shaped tuffet—all things get forgotten or discontinued. And maybe that's the way it has to be. The truth is that, to survive in the world, you have to give up all the fantasies, and all the make-beliefs. The only trouble is that it's not all make-believe....

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What makes you unique?

abhishekdevgan1’s Profile PhotoAbhishek devgan
I think differently most people I know, I apply logic, reason and emotional aspects in equal proportion to the solution of problems.
I have an unusual amount of intuition when it comes to people, I am able to figure out motivations and intentions with a high rate of accuracy. Even with people whom I've had very little interaction with.I don't fit stereotypes very well. I'm often the odd one out in a group.I surprise people often with my reactions and perspectives.I have a high EQ, which I feel is incredibly useful, particularly in my fields of management and life coaching, so I make a point of flexing and improving these skills.I love to read and have the ability to absorb and apply abstract principles, and transfer these points of learning to other fields and applications, which I'm told is a relatively rare ability. I have a great self esteem and good confidence which makes me willing to seek out and accept challenges which I may not appear to be able to deliver on initially.I'm not afraid of failure. In fact I think it is an essential part of the experimental process that gets you to success.

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Have you ever been in a long distance relationship?

abhishekdevgan1’s Profile PhotoAbhishek devgan
Yes, Once! But really, it didn't amount to much. You see, I was younger and I guess this is something a few young people try out at times because only young people are gullible and patient enough to believe that something like that could work out.

Fame or money?

abhishekdevgan1’s Profile PhotoAbhishek devgan
Though fame is something even the richest of the people strive for, but not everyone necessarily gets it.
So at this point of time, fame looks pretty difficult to achieve and hence more important.
But the real picture is, that fame is nothing if you don't have money or are unable to churn money out of your fame. With fame comes a lot of responsibility towards yourself and society which cannot be fulfilled without handfull of money.
In the synthetic world that we live in, there is very less value of fame/talent unless it's extreme which eventually turns into money and people tend to judge your success that way only.
So money is the clear winner and is more important, but money with fame adds icing on the cake and enhances your richness and eventually help grow your money multifold.

What is your favorite way to spend some time alone?

JasleenBabbar’s Profile Photojasleen
For me the best me time comprises of reading endlessly. Also, I like to travel alone sometimes. Solo traveling is a good way of falling in love with yourself and exploring your inner tendencies. It makes you confident and self reliant which in turns leads you to realise your own importance and once you are in harmony with yourself you can tackle any problem undeterred.

Are all emotions a choice? Can one choose to be happy instead of sad?

It’s a choice, but most people don’t understand what choices really are.
At every given moment, you have a choice. I could choose to stop typing in the middle of this sente
You see that disgusting grammatical flaw in the sentence above? Even though it pains me to look at it, I’m going to leave it there to illustrate this point.
I could have stopped typing on the s, e, n, t, e, or any other letter in that sentence. I could have gotten up, walked outside, and peed on my neighbors door if I wanted to. I have the control to make dozens of choices every minute.
People want it to be simple, like there is one choice that dictates your entire life, and all they have to do is make the right one. In reality, the choices we make are every moment. We can choose to pursue happiness consistently, and make choices every minute that line up with that choice (e.g. being grateful, enjoying life, getting a puppy).
Happiness, sadness, and anger are not one choice, they are a lifetime of choices that we want to roll into one. Happiness is a habit, not an achievement, and habits are only made true when we do them on a consistent basis, constantly reinforcing what we previously did.
The reason many people do not have control over their emotions is because they don’t make choices. They let other people make choices for them. They watch TV, and are told that happiness is a new outfit, a new truck, understanding the news, making money, or looking good in a suit. This is one decision that we get to make, instead of what seems like a ton of grueling and difficult decisions to reinforce on a consistent basis. It’s appealing to think there’s a button we can press and automatically be happy.
In short, emotions are not a choice, they are millions of choices. Those choices become very clear when you say, explicitly, and of your own volition, that you want to be happy, or you want to be angry, or you want to be sad (personally, I choose the first one).

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Dil de dia hai jaan tuje denge? Do you find it true nowdays? I don't

abhishekdevgan1’s Profile PhotoAbhishek devgan
I think it's difficult for many people because they focus onfindingtrue love, but don't think aboutbeingsomeone who is capable of love. But, folks are concerned with locating that perfect someone. They carry around in their head a vague sense of who that perfect someone is: “he has to be good with children and animals,” “she has to be passionate and loyal,” whatever. But they don't think aboutthemselves and what qualitiesthey have. When I hear someone talk about who their perfect partner would be, I often think “okay, so if this perfect person were standing in front of you right now, would that person want to be withyou?Is there anything special about you that makes you perfect person for them?” I have spent a very long time searching, not for love, but for ways to make myself a better person. I have identified and confronted my fears and insecurities. I have worked to be a whole person who doesn't try to use other people to fill the empty spaces in me. I have worked to communicate directly, even about awkward subjects; to be compassionate, even when I'm really pissed off and feel attacked; to treat the people around me with empathy and kindness, even when I feel hurt; to act with integrity, meaning I keep my promises even if the other person breaks theirs or hurts me; to be authentically vulnerable, without letting fear stop me; to come from a place of assuming good intent in others, at least until I have evidence otherwise; and, most particularly, to remember that other people are real, and their needs matter just as much as mine. I'm not perfect at any of these, screw up sometimes and make mistakes. When I do, I seek to own it and try to fix whatever harm I've caused. But I have found that striving for these qualities, even though I still sometimes get things wrong, has made it much easier to find love and connection.

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Dil de dia hai jaan tuje denge 
Do you find it true nowdays I dont

Unexpected thing ever happened was?

abhishekdevgan1’s Profile PhotoAbhishek devgan
I was the lab assistant for my favorite high school teacher and one day she was teaching about scuba diving, and I was asked to put the suit on and stand on top of a table to demonstrate. She didn't warn me about what she was going to do, later she blew the suit up, which made me fly right off the table. Luckily, there were other students behind me to catch me. It was hilarious.

What's your "reason" to keep living ?

Sometimes life is not what we expect from it but then we have no other option left. May be life is unjustified and we lose hope towards life and end up hurting ourselves in one or the other way. We try to move away from things that we used to like and have lost trust not only in life but in ourselves too.
But what motivates us is the fact that may be its justa life not written by me and some days are hard some days are good, sometimes life showers happiness or drags us down, sometimes it is like a stairs which keeps us going upwards achieving our goals but sometimes due to our overconfidence we fall down that makes us realize our mistakes to become a better person. Life should be lived and you need to just attain self satisfaction. Forget about everyone because no one can teach you art of living, only you are the one responsible for your own happiness. Do even the smallest thing that makes you happy, forget about others, let them speak behind your back but you just keep moving forward towards your journey of life and make it worth living by self satisfaction and doing some small things for humanity too, help people battling depression, never blindly trust people, trust yourself, live for your heartbeats, live for those who are happy to see you moving happily towards life and stay with you no matter what happens.
"May be you hate the world because during the time when you have lost faith in the life, you and only you were there for yourself who consoled you and encouraged your soul just one step more and you will be definitely out of the sufferings. Its not wrong to hate the world because the bitter truth of life is that there is no such feeling as love, understanding ; in each phase of your life you would just be clinged to different kinds of people who would taught you every single day of your life that stop trusting the world and stop being attached to people.Life is just to live it what it offers although you have to suffer but there is no way.

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What kind of clothes do you prefer - comfortable or stylish?

I personally don’t think that modern fashion trends are so important that we should pay that much attention to it. I think you should buy a piece you find more suitable and therefore comfortable for you and your lifestyle. Even if you buy a fashionable item,which looks fabulous but does not suit you well,believe me,you will regret it soon.
I understand that people usually think that trendy and fashionable clothes are the ultimate key to having nice style. But nice style is actually a result of you wearing clothes that look good on you. The clothes that fit you,therefore makes you feel comfortable.
In conclusion,I think you should stick to comfortable clothes. Because fashionable ones are not the best choices for the majority. But if you think fashionable and fancy clothes suit you well,then go for it!

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Did you inspire someone?

abhishekdevgan1’s Profile PhotoAbhishek devgan
At the outset, I wish to share a quote by Plato: "Good actions give strength to ourselves, and inspire good actions in others."
I live by this quote. In response to your question, I am happy to say thatI have been an inspiration to others.I am an ordinary person, but I strongly believe that you can inspire the people around you. This belief stems frommy father, who I have seen doing good and kind acts. I come from a middle class family and grew up seeing my father respecting all, irrespective of their social status and financial conditions. He always greeted our building's watchman, inquired about well being of our domestic help. During festivals, without fail, he used to give sweets and some cash to the watchman, our domestic help, his office boy and other people in his contact who were from humble background.I follow his example.

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Did you inspire someone

If you could instantly speak any language in the world, what would it be?

munazirbeigh’s Profile PhotoMunazir Habib
1. French
2. Mandarin Chinese
3. Japanese
4. Spanish
5. Arabic
6. Russian
7. German
8. Portuguese
9. Welsh
10. Persian
11. Polish
12. Turkish
13. Korean
14. Ancient Greek
15. Finnish
16. Swedish
17. Dutch
18. Italian
19. Serbian
20. Urdu

Share the best life story of yourself or you've heard from others.

Everyone has a unique story. One of my friends almost died from kidney failure when he was just fifteen. He was on dialysis for many months while waiting for a kidney transplant. The only problem: they couldn't find a kidney donor for his blood type. Then one day, his mother went to the gym. Distraught over the situation, she began to cry while on the treadmill. Another gym member walked up to her and asked her what was wrong. She told her to leave her alone. That same person came back and asked again. She finally told her that her son was dying and that he need a kidney transplant but no one matched his blood type. The woman asked what his blood type was. She told her. It turns out they matched. The woman said she would donate her kidney. Today, my friend is alive because a random stranger decided to donate her kidney to save him. His story inspires me every single day. You'd never know whose life you could change by just sharing your most valuable thing with the other. And, today that random stranger is suffering from the breast cancer and my friend has taken the responsibility to stand by her side to fight the struggle! He's just a college student and has started working as a part time cook at some cafe and is going to pay for that stranger's treatment. That's called affectionism…

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Zero sai Hero kese bantey hain??

ChaudharyAbdullahNisar’s Profile PhotoAbdullah.
First of all, build up your confidence, take necessary action, avoid wasting time, learn to accept failure, don't be afraid to make a fool of yourself, always remember that you're going to die one day. Secondly, jump on your motivation, slowly head towards your final goals that you'd have planned, if not, then build a daily habit that leads to some major goal to be achieved, do something that's not guaranteed to work often, take challenges that aren't lock to work.
This would probably help you go from zero to hero. Remember one thing, going from zero to hero usually never works for the first time. This is a real life and not a freaking movie. You won’t beat up the star quarterback and get the prettiest girl in the town, or become a life savior, or do any work similar to those movie heroes. You have to work harder to bring about quality in you by taking deliberate steps, and just stop waiting for some magic to happen, because that's not possible. Also, stop pending things for tomorrow, and do it today itself! So, start taking actions towards your goals right now!

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Sorry if you find me weird

Ever heard about this:
"Every cool girl is a half boy"?
Well, if a girl can dress like boy, talk like boy, behave like boy, and do other stuffs like boys do, then why can't a boy do things like a girl? It isn't any crime, Right?
See, I appreciate your thinking and I don't think so you are weird at all!
Remember one thing, people's words affect you only as much as you let them!
Make sure you don't start seeing yourself through the eyes of those who don't value or know your worth even if they don't.
Just try to be the best person you can! Opinions aren't facts, so stop thinking about what people think about you…

What should be done for being more social?

Being Socially active doesn't mean you have to attend parties every weekend and get drunk! If you really want to become socially active..start interacting with the people around you.get to know who all are there near you and what they do! It'll sound a bit weird but once you start doing this it would be fun!
For eg. If you go out for grocery shopping or somewhat like that, Take a minute of your time and ask the grocer about how he/she manages to do this and they'll provide you with every detail whether it be about their families or how they took up this work etc. trust me you'll learn a lot from them. And sooner or later, you'll feel confident about striking a conversation with a stranger.
That's what I do! It's easy. If you wanna be socially active try developing meaningful conversations with like minded people and get introduced to more such people via friend's network.That'll help!!!

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How do you cope with failure?

Why do you need to ‘cope’ with failure? In fact, that’s the worst thing you can do. And yet, that is exactly what we often do. Think about it. When exactly do you ‘cope’ with failure? What’s the parameter that decides the ‘size of failure’ and hence the ‘degree of coping’ needed? It is the voices in your head, and that's when you actually need to cope! When the voices do not stop at all, you have tocopeeven more and come up with more platitudes about failure! So what you are coping with is not failure. You are coping with your ownthoughtsabout failure. About what itmeans about you. And all your ‘coping’ is simply feeding the mental chatter. No matter how big, bad, or real it sounds. It is all mental chatter. And the more you feed it, the more it grows. Guilt, denial, blaming, hurting, resenting yourself and others or the world. It is fighting fire with fire. You cannot win.
The only way to stop the battle is to stop fighting. To stop trying to ‘cope’. To simplyacceptfailure instead of trying to cope with it. And suddenly things become much simpler. The mental chatter is bound to kick in. That’s the way your mind, your ego is designed. But you need understand that the mental chatter is an inevitable consequence whenever your encounter something your mind labels as ‘failure’. You see that the ‘deep pain of failure’ is not an indicator of the extent of failure, but an indicator of the number of painfulthoughtsabout failure running inside your mind at the moment. Sometimes the chatter is more. Sometimes less. But it's just chatter anyway. And that you do notneedto cope with it. So you stop trying to cope. You just need to accept and end the story. And then suddenly failure would start seeming a lot less like failure to you!

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If you ever get the chance to become the highest power of the world for one day, which changes will you make to make the world to a better place?

I would simply change how people relate to one another. We are surrounded by a perfect reality that is filled with infinite abundance. But as long as we behave like personal black holes, with our individually selfish, egoistic gravitational force-fields, we can't enjoy those infinite pleasures due to the ruthless, exclusive competition consuming all our energy while wasting everything available!
If we rebuilt humanity based on selfless, altruistic, mutually complementing cooperation, each only caring about fulfilling others, we could become a perfect network, pipeline where that infinite abundance could simply flow everywhere, fulfilling everybody!
And this is neither a dream, nor an utopia, since the whole cosmic, natural system outside of humanity works this way. We just simply need to learn how to plug in, how to integrate in it.

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What’s the most useless talent you have? 😅

PrateekGupta1A’s Profile PhotoPrateek Kumar Gupta
Is there any talent which can be useless? If it is useless, is it a talent? Well, I don’t know what is my useless talent. Or what I am writing here is talent or not. But, I have to answer this. So one thing which is useless in me is “am good at motivating someone”.
I don’t know what my inspiration to this is but if someone comes to me with a sad and depressed face, I most probably will be able to put a smile on that face. If someone underestimates oneself, I am able to at least make the person feel worthy of the appreciation he or she gets. If someone feels lonely, I can really cheer up the person. It is useless because I can not resist myself doing so, and people call me boring.

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