If I could ____ ?

June 14, 2020

If I could hold water
If I could caress wild flames
If I could shrink mountains
If I could collect the stars
If I could pocket the moon
If I could brighten the sun
I’d do it all for all of you.

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A Bitter truth?

Manasvi koshiy

June 13, 2020

People change with the needs,
And, needs change with the money.

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Kuch keh do yaar.

Anon

June 13, 2020

Behaviours of a Confident Person

1. They have a calm demeanor, relaxed expression on face and an open body language.

2. They listen more than they speak.

3. They understand the difference in being assertive and being arrogant.

4. They are not desperate to prove themselves when in a group. They don't feel the need to talk all the time.

5. In a conversation, they are not in hurry to speak. They don't interrupt. They wait for their turn.

6. They don't panic when someone abuses them instead they respond in an assertive manner and with a controlled aggression.

7. They maintain eye contact.

8. They have ability to laugh at themselves in front of people.

9. They don't hesitate to apologise when they are wrong. They own up the responsibility.

10. They know when to say ‘NO'. They say it politely but firmly.

11. They don't look for others' validation when they know they are doing or saying the right thing

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What is the last thing you searched online?

Fursan

June 13, 2020

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What is the last thing you searched online

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Thoughts on relationship now a days?

Manasvi koshiy

June 13, 2020

Relationships these days are hard because we have too much perceived choice and people are less likely to commit. Even when they do, it usually does not last long. I think technology is ruining it for us. You have thousands of people available at your fingertips. How can you settle on one person? And as soon as things go a little wrong, you’re back on looking for your next option. I just think it makes it all too easy to give up and decreases the quality of relationships that do form. People don’t know how to talk to each other anymore and everything becomes just texting. Its easy to hide behind a screen but true bonds are formed in person. Looking into the other person’s eyes, sharing quality time together.

I feel that if someone in the back of their minds thinks, well, I have so many choices, they are less likely to put in the effort it takes to make a relationship work. Why bother with this one if I can just go back on Tinder or Bumble and after a few swipes, find other people? See where I’m going with this? The superficiality of it all, you start to treat people like commodities. Just another “disposable good”. It’s what they call romantic consumerism. Our FOMO has been magnified, because you can’t be fully satisfied with the choice you’ve made, knowing that there are so many others you could have explored. “Let’s see where it goes”, It's not going anywhere because I have no real plan to commit to anyone.

Truth is, a lot of people on those dating apps, are not actually looking for a serious committed relationship. They’re just looking for an easy hookup, a time filler, someone to pass the time with. They’re on there while still being hung up on someone else, wasting their own and other people’s time. It’s all so superficial, it makes me nauseous just thinking about it. But that's my thought in a nutshell.

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Are shy people always nice?

June 13, 2020

Shy people are just like any other people. They have emotions and feelings like any other person. Like any human being, you will find a shy person with a pleasant personality and another with an obnoxious personality. In the same breadth, there are outgoing people who are repulsive and others who are charming. Shy people are too conscious when they are around other people, so they are always careful about what they say, what they do and how they look. Shy people feel like they are being watched or studied, so they will smile or be nice to break the perceived attention. They are the opposite of attention seekers. Attention seekers will do anything to get noticed, but shy people are reserved. Unlike what some people think, shy people are not always quiet, they can talk as much as they can depending on who you are. For example, they tend to be quiet in group situations, but they can be chatty, engaging, expressive, talkative and enthusiastic when speaking to a friend or somebody they are comfortable with. They are inclined towards an introverted personality which favors predictability, so a one-on-one situation is more comfortable for them than a group situation which tends to be unpredictable. It’s okay to be shy, but being too shy can be a problem because it can prevent you from mingling with people or carrying out certain duties. You will miss an opportunity to create relationships and acquire inter-personal / social skills. You may also miss an opportunity to be promoted to a position which requires talking, interaction and exposure to people. The advantages of a shy personality is that you will be perceived as quiet, reserved and mature. It gives you an aura of intelligence and maturity among a group of attention seekers and talkative people who say dumb things.

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kuch arz karain ?????? jo aap ka dil chahy

swaira

June 13, 2020

She feared if she’ll open her heart,
It will get wounded again,
But if not, she won’t feel alive again,
For her soul feeds on love and love for her was synonymous with his name,
And her anxious heart longs to feel his presence.

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endless love or endless m0ney ?

June 13, 2020

Endless love. Why? Because it is definitely more valuable. Love is much harder to achieve than money. Just that you are hard-working and at the same time show your cunning and raise some capital. True, total, unconditional and unlimited love is so unattainable. Billions of people covet such love. We're always looking for this beautiful feeling. We take many desperate people to even have a shadow of love. I also believe that our dreams of power and money are the result of a desire to acquire wealth. With our limited cognitive abilities, poor empathy and false understanding of values, we believe that position and wealth will give us love. It's not true. Money can buy an illusion, please us for a moment with false experiences. How to achieve love. No one knows. We have some bits of knowledge, but love is unexpected and unpredictable. Therefore ... Yes, endless love is definitely better than the greatest wealth of this world.

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Post something 🌻

Manasvi koshiy

June 13, 2020

10 Things We Should Never Do:

1. If you want to be successful in your life then Never Stop Reading.

2. Never compromise with your goals for anyone.

3. Never Judge anyone by seeing their Clothes.

4. Never Bargain with Poor Sellers.

5. Never work for money, learn how to make money work for you.

6. Don’t buy things on loan, otherwise it will become a liability rather than an asset.

7. Never make negative people your friends.

8. Never Smoke, Drink or take Drugs.

9. Never Trust Strangers Easily.

10. Never stop learning new things.

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Can someone feel that you're thinking about them?

June 13, 2020

Yes, it is possible because we are spiritually connected to each other and that's the reason why sometimes when we think about someone and somehow that person reaches you or somehow you see them, you say them that You're gonna live for 100 years from now because just a moment before I or we have been thinking about you! Haven't you ever been through such situation? Because it happens all the time with all of us and we tend to think about each other only when one of us is thinking about each other and it is only because we are spiritually connected. Haven't you heard your elders saying that someone is thinking about them when they out of nowhere start hiccing while eating or doing anything? It is a sign that you are being remembered by someone and that's how you start hiccing all of a sudden. Everytime the situation would differ but we only think about each other only if the other person is also thinking about you.

Hope this was helpful!

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What is one thing that is absolutely unforgivable?

Adv. Dilkash Rana

June 13, 2020

When I saw this question, I thought my answer is lying, backstabbing, and dishonesty. I even started typing my answer. But then it struck me, I've forgiven many people who have lied to me, backstabbed me and been dishonest with me. Sometimes it take 20 minutes, and sometimes, 20 years. But eventually we do forgive them.

And, then I thought there is nothing in this world that falls into the unforgivable category. Again I started typing my answer on how everything and everyone can be forgiven, how we are giving ourselves a chance to grow by forgiving others mistakes, and how by forgiving we are giving ourselves a chance to move forward.That's when Nirbhaya came to my mind. Would I be ever able to forgive those 6 men if I were in her place? Never. I could never forgive them.Even when I'm not in her place, I can't forgive them.

RAPE. That is the one unforgivable thing.Whatever reasons or justifications a rapist gives, it doesn't matter. It doesn't matter whether he is a juvenile or an old man. It doesn't matter whether he was depressed or drunk. None of this reasons matter. No matter what one says, you can never justify rape / sexual assault.

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32/50 Dogs or Cats?

Gela

June 13, 2020

Cats all the way. I love both but Cats can pretty much take care of themselves. While they are both super loving & smell better, they are more independent, & have amazing personalities.

Pros of owning a Cat

• Cats do not need to be bathed, because they bathe themselves.
• Two words, litter box! Just poop litter train your cat & your good to go. It isn't that hard since mammals easily learn especially cats since its part of their skin instincts.
• As long as I leave them food, a dripping tap & clean their litter before I go, I can be gone for a weekend & the worst thing I'll come home to see is cat furs on my bed.
• Cats do not bark, & are very quiet animals.
• Cats do not need to be walked.
• Cats don't usually lose saliva, nor do they try to hump each other. Don't eat their feces.
• Cats are less dangerous than dogs.
• Cats gives great presents.
• While they can be so aloof at times, most cats are affectionate. They want a little attention & affection, & I’ve never met a kitty who didn’t love a good scratch along their chin. & is there anything sweeter than a cuddly kitty curled on your lap while you’re reading a book and drinking tea?

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Expectations v/s reality?

June 12, 2020

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when u r sad, what do u do to feel better ?

June 12, 2020

Sometimes things don't get the way, as we expected it to happen. So we tend to become sad. Some things which I do to get over my sadness:

1. I cry when nobody is around. I act as if I am sleeping and I cry covering myself with the bedsheets as I don't want others to know. A sleep after a good cry is like heaven to me.

2. Sometimes, I don't want to ponder much over the incident so I get myself busy. ( Reading, Cleaning, Cooking, Sweeping, Random TV shows)

3. I maintain good friendships, sharing things with them makes me feel light. Being around them hurts my stomach, for all the jokes and laughter we share.

4. Sometimes, I write. It is always the best way to relieve sadness. Sometimes I scribble so that others don't understand what I write. I write about all the things which gives me pain. Then I become relaxed about it. And I become clear about it.

5. I go through my gallery. I see many loving faces there. It gives me lots of happiness and energy seeing my loved ones. Playing with my pets gives me immense happiness. Like clicking/recording their photos and videos, lifts up my spirit.

6. @Askfm(No explanation needed)

7. I love wearing new dresses and I try to groom myself well on those sad days, for it improves my situation when someone compliments me. Even if no one compliments, It doesn't matter, it always feels good when you wear something new or tried something new.

There will always be some situations in your life which will weigh you down and make you sad. It is at that time you should remain patient.

Find reasons that will make you happy.
Be happy for no reason. Keep shining.

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What is this best way to deal with a break up?

Saim

June 12, 2020

People can ask me for advices and I can help the solve their issues.

First of all know that this is not the end of the world, no matter how bad you feel. Heart breaks could be a blessing in disguise too. Sodon't hurry in making judgements about yourself, your ex or your situation.

The relationship that is meant to stay will find its way through all the challenges that come in the way. If it is not, the best you could do is to learn from it, be grateful for what the relationship has brought into your life and wish him best and move on with your life.

What you can do:

1. Make sure you are following your daily rhythm.

2. If you would like to utilise your spare time with something creative, this is the time for it.

3. List down 3 reasons why this is a hidden blessing. (Don't let your mind say you can't)

4. List down 3 things you could do when you tend to get consumed by your thoughts and emotions.(Something like: going for a walk, starting a new hobby, painting or anything that supports you.) It might take some effort to break the inertia and get yourself to do any of it, but it's worth it. And, you are much more than this.

5. Trust your inner wisdom to sail through this, and don't hesitate to take support when you need it.

What you need to avoid doing:

1. Don't get into the loop of 'why' questions for which you won't find answers. Remember, for every why, there is a why not.

2. Don't keep playing the best moments you shared over and over in your head (or stalk him on his social media account.) Well, it must have been great, but if it's over, then it is.

3. Don't rely on "If at all..." it's just a trap to make you feel like a victim, which you are not.

4. Don't take this as an opportunity to blame or make anyone wrong.

- there is nothing wrong with you.
- nothing wrong with him.
- nothing wrong with the situation

Hope this was helpful!

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What's one thing you think everyone should do every day?

June 12, 2020

Each day brings with it many challenges. Each day is different. However there is something I have been doing everyday without failure since many years.

Every morning, as soon as I wake up, I close my eyes and thank the almighty for giving me another day in my life, another opportunity to live, laugh and love. I also thank the lord for everything that he has given me and pray to Him to continue bestowing his love and affection on all of his children. This makes me feel good.

I would suggest everyone to do this. Even if you are an athiest, remember there is a central power in the universe, a central source of energy. You can close your eyes and perhaps focus on that. I am sure it will make your day better.

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Phrase that motivates you?

ครเ๓รђค๒๒เг

June 12, 2020

The world ain’t all sunshine and rainbows. It’s a very mean and nasty place, and I don’t care how tough you are, it will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently if you let it. You, me, or nobody is gonna hit as hard as life. But it ain’t about how hard you hit. It’s about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward; how much you can take and keep moving forward. That’s how winning is done!
Now, if you know what you’re worth, then go out and get what you’re worth. But you gotta be willing to take the hits, and not pointing fingers saying you ain’t where you wanna be because of him, or her, or anybody. Cowards do that and that ain’t you. You’re better than that!

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What's the best dating advice you have?

Manasvi koshiy

June 12, 2020

Imagine you went to a restaurant, and you ordered soup. When the soup comes, it is cold. You tell your server that the soup is cold, and ask for it to be remade; when he brings the soup back, it is still cold. The third time you ask, you get cold soup once again. In this situation, you have three choices: You can keep asking for the soup over and over and hope that one day it comes hot, you can leave the restaurant and go elsewhere, or you can drink the soup.In dating, you have the same three options, but relationships are about deciding what soup you are willing to drink.

Every potential partner you meet is going to come with their own unique set of quirks and their own baggage. As you learn and discover more about a person, it is likely that there will be something they do that you don’t absolutely love. You may even really, really dislike something about a person, despite them seeming perfect in all other elements. You can ask someone to tweak little things about themselves, and inform them that you don’t like their behaviour, but beyond that you need to realize there is nothing more than you can do and that it is up to them to decide if they want to change. If they choose not to change,it is up to you to decide how to react. This is your power; at the end of the day there are two people in a relationship, and you always have the choice to leave.

Not all soups are meant to be drunk; if someone is doing something that causes you great pain and agony, then that is a soup you cannot drink, and you need to find the strength to leave that relationship. But if you find yourself having the same fights over and over about the same thing, then ask yourself: Am I willing to get over this? Is this his soup? The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result, and you might just be leading yourself into a life of insanity. Make your choice and stick with it – you may find you even grow to like cold soup.

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What are the things which are out of our control ?

June 12, 2020

I could mention a lot of things here which are way beyond our control. But to make it short and simple, there are just two things:

YESTERDAY and TOMORROW

Yes, these are the two things which are really out of our control. No matter how much we try, we cannot do anything about the past or the future.

The past is just like:

WATER or SAND

Just like trying to hold on to water or sand with our palms. No matter how much we try, the sand or water slips away from us.

And the future is like:

SEAWAVES or SANDSTORM

Like incoming seawaves or a sandstorm. No matter what, you cannot avoid it at any cost. All we can do is to steer through it and try to make it to the other end.

So the only thing within our possession is:

TODAY

So live it, work it and most importantly enjoy it in order to make the most out of it.

Yesterday is a history,
Tomorrow is a mystery,
Today is a gift,
That's why we call it a present.

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What is one thing you are sure of?

Ayaan

June 12, 2020

I won't stop writing irrespective of my answers get likes or not!

I won't stop writing whether my answers get views or not!

I won't stop writing irrespective of my questions get responses or not!

I won't be slave of questions & shoutouts; be it negative or positive!

I won't stop posting philosophical or realistic stuffs even if it doesn't get much readers!

There was a time, when my likers were a reason of me being motivated or demotivated! I felt that my efforts were worthless as it wasn't covering mass! But I was highly mistaken!

Afterwards, I feel contented even if one person from the mass has deeply connected with my content, I believed in quality over quantity as it's not easy for people to go through so called long, unbearable Answers! Yes that's what happens!

But that didn't stop me!

People like stories here, answers with pictures speak much louder than simply long & informative answers! Though some of the constant readers made me strengthen to write irrespective of my subject!

Followers, likes and coins are really illusions! It will not add any luxury or happiness to your life!

Though I shouldn't forget the fact that it just took a week for me to reach 1K followers.

Nothing is that easy, it takes a lot of patience to earn respect as well as followers & likes specially when only your content is responsible as absence of credentials makes less influence!

I remember fictions/stories & poems of mine were always appreciated well in comparison with those answers which needed high efforts, thoughts & brainstorming infront of less response!

Why I have written all these!

Because writing is something that calms me down! Whatever be the situation I will never stop writing that's what I am sure of! Even if it gets huge readers or not.

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Do you believe in karma?

Adv. Dilkash Rana

June 12, 2020

Karma is a spiritual belief that is all about cause and effect. The thinking is that if you put good into the world, good comes back to you. If you choose to do harm, well, you can't cheat karma, folks. While some of us prefer to call it the Golden Rule—"do unto others as you would have them do unto you"—the sentiment remains the same. Be kind!

Even a Boomerang returns back to the person that throws it, therefore we can say that; KARMA HITS BACK

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What's the situation of corona in india?

June 12, 2020

Instead of writing anything I've provided you with a link which you can open and see anytime as statistics is something that can vary according to increasing cases in India.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/COVID-19_pandemic_in_India

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What do you do to stimulate yourself?

«Mayank»

June 12, 2020

These are eight ways to improve yourself everyday :-

1. Understand that intensity is rabbit and consistency is a tortoise. Your dreams doesn’t care about how you feel, be consistent.

2. Don't rush yourself with timelines of others. Some people excel in life early and some after them.

3. Mind management is the essence of the life management. Not being able to control your thoughts is enslavement. The surest sign of weak mind is the body that cannot rest. Practice meditation, spend time with nature and be accountable for the words that come out.

4. Stop blaming your luck. Luck is nothing more than the marriage of preparation with opportunity. Start preparing for the things you've written in your “to do” list for like hundred times.

5. The only way to improve tomorrow is to know what you did wrong today. Maintain one progress book to keep a trace of improvement. Remember that even an attempt to improve is a good improvement.

6. Learn to be comfortable with your own self. Go for a solo trip once, dine alone and observe the things going on around you. Fall in love with learning new cultures, interacting with different people and different energy.

7. Stop worrying about what people say. Tomorrow morning if you disappear, world will go on perfectly fine without you.

8. Don't forget to remain physically fit and mentally stable. Saying that you don't have time to improve your thoughts and your life is like saying that you don't have time to stop because you are too busy driving. Go for a trek once in 3–6 months. Go workout and get yourself in that physical shape you always wished to have.

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2/5 What makes life worth living?

Sarah Styles .

June 12, 2020

My mother has told me about this incident. I have an uncle (I don't know him). He is a businessman. He followed one simple rule for all his life. That was-

He always had morning tea with his mother. If they are at home, they sit together and take sips of tea and when they are far, they call each other and at same time start having tea and talk to each other.

This thing seems so simple but here is it's power. When his mother died, she told

I would have died 10 years ago, it's your morning cup of tea that kept me alive.

Your couple of seconds can give someone all they need. Because here you are giving the best thing you can give to your loved ones that isYour time.

Spend your time with them and if you are far, talk to them atleast once in a day. It will not only make them feel happy but will also put a smile on your face.

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