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Conqueror (One who wins hearts)
A signet (One with auspicious marks)
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Pencil was Sharper, Mind wasn't!
How's your Friday going? What did you do?
The sunrise, of course, doesn’t care if we watch it or not. It will keep on being beautiful, even if no one bothers to look at it.
Good Morning, Have a nice day!
Good Morning, Have a nice day!
People you may like
Person u hate the most & y?
First of all, stop hating anyone!
Everything in this world happens for a reason. We cannot deny God's decision. Hating is not a solution, infact learn from it. If a person has given you the reason to hate, it means that person has taught you some lesson and your job is to learn from it.
In future you will come in contact with many persons who will definitely give you the reason to hate that doesn't mean you will start hating each &and everything related to him/ her, related to his/ her memories, etc.
Each and every person in your life teaches you some lesson.
Actually, in most of the cases people who betray us, we start hating them. But keep it in mind they are the one who teaches us a big lessons in life. So they are not worth getting hates. Infact you should be thankful to them for giving a new lesson to learn.
Hating somebody will always be a burden on you. So my suggestion would be stop hating anyone. Spread your love to everyone, it doesn't matters who is worth of it and who is not.
This life is too short. Don't waste it on hating people on the name of getting betrayals, on the name of religion, etc. Instead of hating, give some love & take handful of love. Then, automatically the life will seem to be more beautiful to you!
Everything in this world happens for a reason. We cannot deny God's decision. Hating is not a solution, infact learn from it. If a person has given you the reason to hate, it means that person has taught you some lesson and your job is to learn from it.
In future you will come in contact with many persons who will definitely give you the reason to hate that doesn't mean you will start hating each &and everything related to him/ her, related to his/ her memories, etc.
Each and every person in your life teaches you some lesson.
Actually, in most of the cases people who betray us, we start hating them. But keep it in mind they are the one who teaches us a big lessons in life. So they are not worth getting hates. Infact you should be thankful to them for giving a new lesson to learn.
Hating somebody will always be a burden on you. So my suggestion would be stop hating anyone. Spread your love to everyone, it doesn't matters who is worth of it and who is not.
This life is too short. Don't waste it on hating people on the name of getting betrayals, on the name of religion, etc. Instead of hating, give some love & take handful of love. Then, automatically the life will seem to be more beautiful to you!
Most embarrassing thing that has happened to in your life?
Once, in response to my economic teacher's command I had said "okay mom"! The entire class had made fun of me! 🤐😂
What is the best gift u have ever received?
My mother is a strong woman. Her strength comes from being tested by life's unpredictability. It comes from soldiering on for her children, even when she might rather have given up. I know it hasn't always come easily, but I also know it's her greatest gift that she has given birth to me and raised me to this! I try to be grateful for the abundance of the blessings that I have received through her, for the journey that I'm on and to relish each day as a gift. I'm also thankful to my dad who has given me wings to fly, without him I couldn't have got this opportunity to enjoy the various colours of my life to the fullest.
If you had an extra hour of free time every day, what would you do with it?
I shall spend some quality time with my other Grandfathers and Grandmothers who live in "Old Age Homes". Or shall teach a new subject, chapter, lesson to my beloved Brothers and Sisters who are uneducated and have "Never been to Schools". Or shall feed those Stray Animals who come to my house daily to get "Something to Fill their Stomach's". Or shall lend a helping hand towards those people "Who are In Need". I shall not waste that extra hour of free time everyday by sleeping, eating, and doing casual things, but shall do something useful to bring a smile on other's face! That's the actual thing one should try utilizing their extra hour for!
What are five things can you not live without?
1. Hope
By hope, I mean that the future will be good, or better. That this brief, confusing, and often painful life is not all there is to look forward to. That although I may be growing old and losing certain things, there is a chance to either regain what I’ve lost or to gain other things—equal or better than what I’ve had to give up. If I don’t have hope, I don’t have anything.
2. Beauty
By beauty, I don’t just mean sculptures and paintings. I mean everything that stirs those internal feeings of admiration, awe, and gratitude: Beautiful visions, textures, actions, etc. To me, beauty is a large part of what makes life worth living.
3. Music
Music is a language, a worldview, a way I make sense of and interpret and understand and address the world that I live in. Literally, music rises, unbidden, to my mind in response to certain situations. Some of these are songs that I’ve learned or heard before. Some are new songs, dropped into my head like a gift from God. Either way, music has accompanied me at every step throughout my life and I can’t imagine living without it.
4. The Word ofGod
The reason why the Word is essential formylife is because I go by God's words. The Word of God is a pillar, helping me navigate a confusing world that is constantly shouting contradictory messages at me. W.e all have to choose a rock to hang on to when life gets crazy. This is my rock.
5. Love
I don’t mean romance, I decided to write “love” instead of “family” or “friends,” because family and friends are never guaranteed to stay in one’s life. Whether because of geography or death or simply growing apart, every person has experienced the loss of friends and family at some point. But love is always possible, even if certain friends and family leave us. And we all need to love and be loved in order to really, truly, live.
By hope, I mean that the future will be good, or better. That this brief, confusing, and often painful life is not all there is to look forward to. That although I may be growing old and losing certain things, there is a chance to either regain what I’ve lost or to gain other things—equal or better than what I’ve had to give up. If I don’t have hope, I don’t have anything.
2. Beauty
By beauty, I don’t just mean sculptures and paintings. I mean everything that stirs those internal feeings of admiration, awe, and gratitude: Beautiful visions, textures, actions, etc. To me, beauty is a large part of what makes life worth living.
3. Music
Music is a language, a worldview, a way I make sense of and interpret and understand and address the world that I live in. Literally, music rises, unbidden, to my mind in response to certain situations. Some of these are songs that I’ve learned or heard before. Some are new songs, dropped into my head like a gift from God. Either way, music has accompanied me at every step throughout my life and I can’t imagine living without it.
4. The Word ofGod
The reason why the Word is essential formylife is because I go by God's words. The Word of God is a pillar, helping me navigate a confusing world that is constantly shouting contradictory messages at me. W.e all have to choose a rock to hang on to when life gets crazy. This is my rock.
5. Love
I don’t mean romance, I decided to write “love” instead of “family” or “friends,” because family and friends are never guaranteed to stay in one’s life. Whether because of geography or death or simply growing apart, every person has experienced the loss of friends and family at some point. But love is always possible, even if certain friends and family leave us. And we all need to love and be loved in order to really, truly, live.
What are some thing you wish you could unlearn?
Unlearn the fears, fables, fallacies that were pounded into you. Unlearn the decisions you made as a child. Your life arises form the decisions you make about the circumstances you encounter. Every moment, everyone is making decisions, whether they are verbalized, or not. Whatever is going on, you either stay the course, for the reasons you have, or you decide to change something.Once the decisions are made, and implemented, regrets are useless.Checking the results and maybe ending one decision, in order to make a better one, can have value. The quality of those decisions depends on how realistic your appraisals are. The effectiveness of your activity depends on the reactions you engender. You can enhance the quality of the decisions you make, and the reactions to your activities. Put your mind-heart into smooth consistency with the essential relationships of life, then you will always make decisions based on the best possible approach.
Describe your fighting style: drunken master or angry monkey?
I do not fight (hitting or beating someone). I fight to speak for reason, raise my voice for what works, I fight for the right, for what has evidence. I speak for every human’s right to think and speak freely, and that this freedom is not restricted or destroyed early in life, by limiting religious or ideological mechanisms. I detest the unfairness in the world, the distribution of wealth, the unfair treatment and discrimination. It could have been me.
If you could be anywhere right now, where would it be?
I would want to travel to:
Australia
France
Germany
England
Brazil
Greece
Russia
Sweden
Japan
The Netherlands
These are my top 10 picks, not my only picks.
Australia
France
Germany
England
Brazil
Greece
Russia
Sweden
Japan
The Netherlands
These are my top 10 picks, not my only picks.
Does jealousy harm relationships?
There are no ‘bad’ feelings or states of consciousness, as far as relationships go. We all get mad. We all cry. We all laugh. We hate. We love. We need an hour or so to clear our heads. And, yes, we also get clingy and needy.
What can harm a relationship isn’t these feelings, but how you express them, or deal with them, within you, and outwardly.
For example, a boy feels jealous when his girlfriend talks to another guy. He feels a little bit protective of her, too. These are normal things. What would be harmful is if he tried telling her she couldn’t talk to anyone without asking him first, or if he said to her that he needed to know where she was at 24/7 no exceptions.
Love is about trust, and honesty. If you can’t allow them the freedom to make their own decisions, and their own choices, then you don’t have trust.
What can harm a relationship isn’t these feelings, but how you express them, or deal with them, within you, and outwardly.
For example, a boy feels jealous when his girlfriend talks to another guy. He feels a little bit protective of her, too. These are normal things. What would be harmful is if he tried telling her she couldn’t talk to anyone without asking him first, or if he said to her that he needed to know where she was at 24/7 no exceptions.
Love is about trust, and honesty. If you can’t allow them the freedom to make their own decisions, and their own choices, then you don’t have trust.
I fight with courage, I died with last kiss.
What compliment does people give you the most?
you are a gem.
you have beautiful smile with sparkling eyes.
You are quite funny person.
You seems to be a combination of both introvert and extrovert.
You have a capability to make any person comfortable with you very easily.
You are very cute, repeatedly!
Why are you still a kid from inside? But much more mature enough on the same time?
You talk very sweetly.
You are a kind soul and great helper.
You are insane, who has capability to make others laugh by making puppy faces.
You remember all those small details from those TV shows, movies, books, magazines and newspapers, etc. How do you do that?
Your communication skills are really good.
You are a very good listener, speaker and a writer.
You are very empathetic and can deliver any bad news in a good way.
I think these much praises are enough now. It's already gone too much, I should stop it here because I don't want that viewers should think like that it's more than sufficient as everything looks good in limits
you have beautiful smile with sparkling eyes.
You are quite funny person.
You seems to be a combination of both introvert and extrovert.
You have a capability to make any person comfortable with you very easily.
You are very cute, repeatedly!
Why are you still a kid from inside? But much more mature enough on the same time?
You talk very sweetly.
You are a kind soul and great helper.
You are insane, who has capability to make others laugh by making puppy faces.
You remember all those small details from those TV shows, movies, books, magazines and newspapers, etc. How do you do that?
Your communication skills are really good.
You are a very good listener, speaker and a writer.
You are very empathetic and can deliver any bad news in a good way.
I think these much praises are enough now. It's already gone too much, I should stop it here because I don't want that viewers should think like that it's more than sufficient as everything looks good in limits
Before making a telephone call, do you ever rehearse what you are going to say? Why?
Not any more! I used to practice whatever I had to say before making the call in my head and was often flustered when the other party said something I hadn't anticipated. Now I just dial and go for it. Time and experience helps.
What would be your one super power?
Well, sometimes I get precognitive dreams (premonitions) about the future happenings. But just about me and my family.
So yeah, in reality as well I would like to have this as a major super power and gain some advanced knowledge through which I shall foresee everybody's future and be able to find a solution to any future problems so that I can give advance warnings to either avoid the danger or prepare for the difficult happenings and the future events!
So yeah, in reality as well I would like to have this as a major super power and gain some advanced knowledge through which I shall foresee everybody's future and be able to find a solution to any future problems so that I can give advance warnings to either avoid the danger or prepare for the difficult happenings and the future events!
What do you fear most?
When I think about my life and life in general, many things come to my mind that actually terrifies me. And that’s all right. Throughout our whole lives, we learn how to cope with fear. We are born with fear, that's how natural and inhabited is within us.
Generally talking, yes I am not really comfortable thinking about my death, but who is? There is no normal person that is not a little bit frightened when thinking about their last breath. Another thing is, I don't really love heights particularly but I cannot say I am deadly afraid of them.
On my pyramid of fears, there are two things sharing the top - the fear of not being happy and the fear of not being successful. And to be quite honest, it is scary to admit that and put it here, black on white.
Because, the moment you say out loud what your greatest fear is, is the moment you feel most vulnerable. As if you are giving the people an opportunity to scare you, therefore, broke you in some way.
However, if I pay a closer attention to what scares me the most is entirely up to me. I do not have a fear of not being accepted by society. I do not have a fear of being left alone. I do not have a fear of other people's minds. I have fear of my own and everything that I am capable of, yet I am the only one who can destroy me. And that scares the crap out of me.
Not being happy and not being successful are situations I don't want to experience happening to me. To anybody actually.
If there is one thing I wanted for myself ever since I was a kid was to be entirely genuinely happy. And later what I found out was that the happiness lies within me, and it somehow has something to do with how well I excel business-wise. Not that it completely relies on it, but it has its connections.
That's why both things share the number one place on my list of fears.
Generally talking, yes I am not really comfortable thinking about my death, but who is? There is no normal person that is not a little bit frightened when thinking about their last breath. Another thing is, I don't really love heights particularly but I cannot say I am deadly afraid of them.
On my pyramid of fears, there are two things sharing the top - the fear of not being happy and the fear of not being successful. And to be quite honest, it is scary to admit that and put it here, black on white.
Because, the moment you say out loud what your greatest fear is, is the moment you feel most vulnerable. As if you are giving the people an opportunity to scare you, therefore, broke you in some way.
However, if I pay a closer attention to what scares me the most is entirely up to me. I do not have a fear of not being accepted by society. I do not have a fear of being left alone. I do not have a fear of other people's minds. I have fear of my own and everything that I am capable of, yet I am the only one who can destroy me. And that scares the crap out of me.
Not being happy and not being successful are situations I don't want to experience happening to me. To anybody actually.
If there is one thing I wanted for myself ever since I was a kid was to be entirely genuinely happy. And later what I found out was that the happiness lies within me, and it somehow has something to do with how well I excel business-wise. Not that it completely relies on it, but it has its connections.
That's why both things share the number one place on my list of fears.
What makes you smile? :')
Helping people and seeing them happy.It is one of the most wonderful feelings when you can witness like somebody transforms his or her life, how he or she achieves their goals and becomes a better, stronger and a happier human being.
There was this girl. Oh girl, she was such an hopeless communicator. She was so insecure and hesitant. She wasn't able to say a sentence without panicking and chocking, always afraid that she could lose everything. Almost everybody laughed at her, as if she was intellectually challenged. And if they didn't laugh they got upset and said that she was useless, unable to do anything. But it wasn't true at all. She was a very smart person, she just could not communicate and this made her lose her confidence and therefore she was always stressed. Just a little bit of help, just indicating to her where the issue was and point her in the right direction, being there for her, when she needed the little bit of help, made such a big difference. It was amazing to witness this shy, diffident and insecure little fellow transforming into a strong and confident young lady. This put a big smile on my face. We were school mates and now we are friends.
And there was this other boy, everybody said that he was the most arrogant person on the planet. But he wasn't arrogant, not at all. He just tried to hide his problems and the feeling of being defeated. He was having a very difficult time, he went through trauma, he was so distressed and there was so much pain inside of him. He just needed a little bit of kindness, an ear willing to listen and a heart wanting to understand. It was amazing to witness the big strong tiger caught in the trap of the misfortune of the past becoming free. And now he is there for others, supporting and guiding them. Now they can see, that though he is a very strong and confident person, he is also a very loving and supporting human being. This put a big smile on my face. We were strangers, and now we are friends.
There was this girl. Oh girl, she was such an hopeless communicator. She was so insecure and hesitant. She wasn't able to say a sentence without panicking and chocking, always afraid that she could lose everything. Almost everybody laughed at her, as if she was intellectually challenged. And if they didn't laugh they got upset and said that she was useless, unable to do anything. But it wasn't true at all. She was a very smart person, she just could not communicate and this made her lose her confidence and therefore she was always stressed. Just a little bit of help, just indicating to her where the issue was and point her in the right direction, being there for her, when she needed the little bit of help, made such a big difference. It was amazing to witness this shy, diffident and insecure little fellow transforming into a strong and confident young lady. This put a big smile on my face. We were school mates and now we are friends.
And there was this other boy, everybody said that he was the most arrogant person on the planet. But he wasn't arrogant, not at all. He just tried to hide his problems and the feeling of being defeated. He was having a very difficult time, he went through trauma, he was so distressed and there was so much pain inside of him. He just needed a little bit of kindness, an ear willing to listen and a heart wanting to understand. It was amazing to witness the big strong tiger caught in the trap of the misfortune of the past becoming free. And now he is there for others, supporting and guiding them. Now they can see, that though he is a very strong and confident person, he is also a very loving and supporting human being. This put a big smile on my face. We were strangers, and now we are friends.
What social stigma does society need to get over?
“Oh, my God- you’re a waitress? What will people say?”
“Oh, my God- you work at a call center? That is so tacky.”
“Oh, my God- you make tiffins for a living? How categorically middle class!”
Why don’t we understand the concept of DIGNITY OF LABOUR?
In my small and insignificant life of 18 years, I have been lucky enough to have come across a wide variety of people. I have learnt that people with a drive, an ambition and the urge to never stop working are the ones that command real respect. Not everyone has the skills to be working at a snazzy MNC. That could be because they never had the education you did. They never had the resources you did.
But they aren’t lounging on their soft, cushiony sofa sets, gazing at their flat screen, shoving spoonfuls of ice cream into their mouth, now, are they? I have seen stories of struggle. I have seen my acquaintances working at what are considered “petty jobs”. But they do it to make money, because that is the only way they know how.
Isn’t that incessant hardwork?
On the other hand, there are some of us who opt for the easier way out, just because we can. Some of us are Daddy’s Little Prince/Princess. Should Prince/Princess need anything, Daddy is at their beck and call. Need Rs. 25000 for a Goa trip where you will get drunk and lie on the beach? Sure, just ask for it.
It’s not necessarily bad to go to Goa ON A BREAK. But don’t make recreation your lifestyle. At least the person who works at a call center is WORKING, as against chilling at a holiday destination. It is high time now that we understand that no job is beneath another. As long as you are working, you are doing something good.
We need to accept the dignity of labour and treat every working professional as an equal. Because your maid does not owe you her service- she is earning her bread and butter. And you are sipping on the cold coffee she made for you.
“Oh, my God- you work at a call center? That is so tacky.”
“Oh, my God- you make tiffins for a living? How categorically middle class!”
Why don’t we understand the concept of DIGNITY OF LABOUR?
In my small and insignificant life of 18 years, I have been lucky enough to have come across a wide variety of people. I have learnt that people with a drive, an ambition and the urge to never stop working are the ones that command real respect. Not everyone has the skills to be working at a snazzy MNC. That could be because they never had the education you did. They never had the resources you did.
But they aren’t lounging on their soft, cushiony sofa sets, gazing at their flat screen, shoving spoonfuls of ice cream into their mouth, now, are they? I have seen stories of struggle. I have seen my acquaintances working at what are considered “petty jobs”. But they do it to make money, because that is the only way they know how.
Isn’t that incessant hardwork?
On the other hand, there are some of us who opt for the easier way out, just because we can. Some of us are Daddy’s Little Prince/Princess. Should Prince/Princess need anything, Daddy is at their beck and call. Need Rs. 25000 for a Goa trip where you will get drunk and lie on the beach? Sure, just ask for it.
It’s not necessarily bad to go to Goa ON A BREAK. But don’t make recreation your lifestyle. At least the person who works at a call center is WORKING, as against chilling at a holiday destination. It is high time now that we understand that no job is beneath another. As long as you are working, you are doing something good.
We need to accept the dignity of labour and treat every working professional as an equal. Because your maid does not owe you her service- she is earning her bread and butter. And you are sipping on the cold coffee she made for you.
Life is _____?
Life is not about what is gone, life is also not about what will come. Life is this moment which you are living in right now!
Why do women live longer than men?
Well, men are 2.3 times more likely to die due to accidents because they are 1.4 times more likely to be on streets and 1.6 times more likely to be careless while they are on streets. Since 1.4 x 1.6 = 2.3, this explains it. (The numbers are not meant to represent actual statistics). In other words, the accident based deaths are due to more exposure to risk. This makes sense because throughout the history of humanity, (mostly) men have been earning the bread for the family by stepping out in the dangerous world, while women have played the role of bringing up kids and educating them. This is also the reason why men are (on average) taller and stronger than women, because they need these traits more to play their role, while women are more patient and emotionally mature, because again, they need these traits more. Therefore women live longer than men.
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No matter how terrible someone has hurt you...
Don't let them turn you cruel...
Don't let them turn your heart cold...
Someone out there was born to love you and they shouldn't suffer because of the carelessness of the other people...
Forgive but don't forget...
Let go and move on...
Not everyone is the same...
Not everyone will hurt you the way they did...
Don't let them turn you cruel...
Don't let them turn your heart cold...
Someone out there was born to love you and they shouldn't suffer because of the carelessness of the other people...
Forgive but don't forget...
Let go and move on...
Not everyone is the same...
Not everyone will hurt you the way they did...
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What Is The Most Beautiful Thing In Nature?
Nature itself is the most beautiful thing we have because it's made for us from the creator. Just look deep into nature, and then you'll understand everything better. In nature, light creates the colour. In picture colour creates the light. You need to study nature, love nature, stay close to nature. It will never fail you. Adopt the pace of nature; her secret is patience, and that's what makes it beautiful on its own!
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