What Habits Are Holding You Back From Success?

April 17, 2019

Thinking or difining success or goal holds one back.

Just do what is required to be done i.e. Process with devotion in present with continuity by not only involving time, energy but your life too in what you are doing in every moment.

“Whether you think you can, or you think you can't--you're right.”

The only person standing between you and your dreams is YOU.
Not accepting the Truth of who we are, who those around us are, and who we’re trying to be.

Easiest way to hold yourself back in life is to live a lie.

And the easiest way to live alife isto only ever do what you’re told, without ever asking “Why?”

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Why do people lie?

Anees Ahmed

April 16, 2019

Once Saint Kabir was sitting and weaving his clothes. A thief came to him and asked Saint Kabir to hide him.

Kabir asked him to hide behind a sack of cotton. Two soldiers came looking for that thief and asked Kabir about the thief.

Kabir kept on weaving and singing his dohas.

"Bura Jo Dekhan Main Chala,
Bura Naa Milya Koye
Jo Munn Khoja Apnaa,
To Mujhse Bura na koye."

The soldiers asked again and Kabir said the thief is hiding behind the cotton sack.

The soldiers thought he is some physcopath and went ahead.

The thief came out and said “Why did you told them the truth? You could have got me killed”

Saint Kabir replied “Only my truth could have saved you brother. Because they would have seen through my lie”

This is such a nice story with a deep message. But the truth is that "People reject us for our truth."

Suppose you go for an interview and you are asked why you want to leave your current job. If you tell the truth that I am looking for more money than chances are, you will be rejected.

So you need to lie that you are looking for more challenging work, etc.

Sometimes we lie just because we don't want to hurt our loved ones.

We lie about how they cook, how someone look, etc just because saying truth is not going to do anything good.

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Who/what do you hate the most? #staif

April 16, 2019

I hate how teenagers use the word thot.

Unless you’re living under a rock, you’ve likely heard the word thot casually tossed around. It’s essentially a synonym for hoe or slut, but it’s become much more popular than either of those recently. Now let me just say, I have no issue with that word being used in a generally insulting way, like calling someone a dick or an idiot. The problem starts when people start using it as a way to sexually shame women- then it becomes pretty disgusting. It’s been made so normalized it makes me nauseous. Nowadays, you are a thot if you send nudes, show cleavage or post pictures with cleavage visible, wear shorts, wear clothes from certain stores or brands, wear makeup, Use Snapchat filters a lot, post a photo of yourself that shows your body in any way, wear a crop top, wear leggings, wear piercings, post a photo of yourself at the gym, post a mirror selfie

It’s ridiculous. It’s so frequently used that it literally became a meme. (It’s making a joke because people will use ANY random behavior and say that it’s thotty.)

I’ve heard people say that wearing a certain type of hair bun is thotty. Literally. A hairstyle. I mean, it’s honestly kind of humorous when you think about it, just because of the sheer absurdity. But the issue is that it’s beginning to cause actual harm.

I’ve had friends crying because people call them thots or sluts. I’ve had friends take down social media posts as innocent as simple selfies because they’re so anxious about being thought of that way. I have friends terrified to do ANYTHING because they so desperately want to avoid that reputation. It’s degrading. It’s made tons of young, impressionable teenage women feel filthy, unclean and undesirable. At this stage of development, insecurity is already at an all time high. This behavior is so toxic. I see people CRUSH others so casually, so naturally they don’t even think about it.

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what is the most stupid thing you've done

rachelle

April 16, 2019

When I was 8, I was getting ready for picture day at school. Like most mornings, I had been watching Looney Tunes during breakfast. This particular episode showed a character saying "This is square," while drawing a 'square' that appeared on-screen permanently. Square, as in 'uncool.'

I thought "yes!" I'll show my displeasure at having to sit through picture day by drawing a square with my hands, and the square will show up in perpetuity on our class photo. I believe I tried doing the 'square' several times before my teacher yelled at me and told me to knock it off. So my 2nd grade picture shows my teacher glowering at me while I'm sulking.

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sach to yeh hai k ____ ?

Jassim Naeem

April 16, 2019

Truth: Life and death; trying to understand the reasons of living and being alive. Each of us will have gone one day. However, we shall live in this world in all that we would have left behind.

Every passing milestone, when one day is suddenly introduced by the concept of death. We find it difficult to accept the reality of death! And how it took away our dear ones.

And we realize; deepest emotions are best left unsaid. So, make someone’s day, if you like something say it, say it before it’s too late.

And if you can learn how to honour the person that you miss, you can take something that is incredibly sad and have some form of positivity in your life.

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Do you have any phobias?

April 16, 2019

People fear many things. Most are sensible and obvious. But my fear is strange. I think people will forget me. I have a tendency to over think. I suffer from ATHAZAGORAPHOBIA. When I do, I imagine people forgetting or replacing me. It's just a thought and I don't want it to happen. Many a people mean a lot to me. But I know they'll forget or replace me soon. Because it happened before and it will happen again!

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How long have you been without using internet?

Owais Khurshid Bhat

April 16, 2019

So, frankly telling I can not use internet for more than 3 months in a row, because after that I find it boring and finally stop using it and this pause can go for more that 1 year. My last inactivity on social media sites was when I was in 11th standard, it was when I had stopped using all the social media sites and now I am again active after such a long gap and it's been 2 months that I've been using social media sites back. One can not contact me when I go inactive because for me inactivity means inactivity such that I don't even use WhatsApp. People tend to think that I might have died or something bad might have happened with me but I'm that kind of a person. Currently I'm only active on ask.fm and my last seen on WhatsApp according to one of my friends is 28 December, 2018. That's the reason why people think that I am a weirdo. Well, I am! No doubt. This makes me a unique peice....

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When you can't sleep, what keeps you up at night?

April 15, 2019

My goals are the things that doesn't let me sleep. Sir A.P.J. Abdul Kalam once said “If you want to shine like a sun, you first need to burn like a sun”, “Dreams are not the things that you see when you are asleep, they are the ones that doesn't let you sleep” and this is the best one and the one which motivates me every time. “I work early morning because I knew my opponents would be sleeping, I work during the day because I knew my opponents are working, I work during the evening knowing my opponents would be getting fresh, I work at night because I know my opponents would be tired”. All to get an inch ahead, every single day! And that's what makes the difference. Once Elon musk said “It is the small things that often many men neglect, which sets apart an ordinary from an extraordinary”.

Moreover, personally I find myself more efficient during the night and I want to make best out of it, squeezing every drop of efficiency. Last quote towards end “Work/ study while others are sleeping and celebrate while others will regret”.

Have a most productive day ahead!

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Hey, Whatever it is that you're thinking about right now, it's important not to stress too much. If you can change it then change it. If you can't then there's no point in stressing about it. Listen... One way or another it will work out. It always has and it always will. <3

AM'

April 15, 2019

Infuse your life with action.
Don't wait for it to happen.
Make it happen.
Make your own future.
Make your own hope.
Make your own love.
And whatever your beliefs,
honor your creator,
not by passively waiting for grace to come down from upon high,
but by doing what you can to make grace happen to yourself,
right now, right down here on Earth.

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Are you an introvert or an extrovert?

Rohit Singla

April 15, 2019

I am an Ambivert. A love child whom people never claimed. I like people, but I need to be alone. I am the blissfully ignored person by the majority. I am the one who can start a conversation real easy, but chooses not to. I am the one who is the life at the party and completely disappears into my solitude the rest of the days. I am the one who speaks up when required and shuts up when need be. I am the right balance and yet people never want me to be their muse. In a world that is obsessed with monochrome, I am the one dancing in the greys. Almost belongs to everywhere, yet never quite belong to anywhere.

Being and ambivert is difficult, people mark you as an hypocrite.

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Should we forgive our enemies? Why/why not?

April 14, 2019

Hatred causes further hurt to self. You are thinking of taking any revenge just because you are not able to reconcile your emotions!

Why should you think that someone has more strength to ruin you? Noble mind should not harbor such insecurity. So, more you spend time on revenge, more you bring your own emotions down. So stop thinking about revenge.

Now about forgiving, we as human beings are not Gods. Only God can forgive and not you and me. It is too big a word to say ‘I forgive you’ or something like that.

Finally, what ever unfortunate things if happen to us is purely owing to our own past wrongdoing(s). You may have forgotten or not willing to accept, but the truth is what you did anytime in the past has always been behind you.

So, live and let live that makes your soul a little more purified!

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Where is your favorite place in the entire world to go?

April 14, 2019

It’s the question that almost every traveler asks another. Where in the world is so amazing that you would call it your favorite?

I find this difficult to answer, as I’m sure you do when you get this question, because each place has its own special meaning and beauty. That said, there are some places that stick out much more than others for me. There are places where I left a piece of my heart, places that are unquestionably on the highlight reel of my life, and memories that I still hold dear, years later.

It was incredibly difficult to narrow down my favorites, but these are my current top 10:

1. Wild Coast, South Africa - It’s where Nelson Mandela was born, and where the most beautiful part of the country is, IMHO. This place has a natural beauty and friendliness.
2. Torres del Paine, Chile - A hard to forget of a place with heavier winds, more glaciers, better mountains, or a bigger wealth of adventures.
3. Komodo National Park, Indonesia - A place full of Manta rays, the most impressive corals you'd ever see.
4. The Annapurna Circuit, Nepal - A place with the highest point of the circuit over 5,400 metres.
5. The Ring Road and northern lights, Iceland - A magical place you'd ever think of traveling.
6. Tofo, Mozambique - A place with vibrant diversity and atmosphere.
7. Solo camping in Utah, USA - A place with some of the most beautiful landscapes ever laid eyes on.
8. The sunrise at Kawah Ijen, Indonesia - A place where one can experience watching one of the most spectacular sunrises in the world.
9. Black Rock City, Nevada - A place where you can experience natural sunburn to the best way possible.
10. Inca Trail, Peru - Worlds most famous hikes that consists of three overlapping trails that passes through several types of Andean environments includingcloud forestandalpine tundra.

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What’s An Ideal Holiday For You?

AM'

April 14, 2019

Going on Holiday is always needed especially when you need a break from reality, and want to see different parts of the world you haven't experienced yet!

My ideal holiday would be to travel to Las Vegas,

The atmosphere of Las Vegas looks amazing.

I would love to see the buildings lit up in the night time as the night life would be something I would enjoy as there would be night time shows I could attend, the hotels in Las vegas look very exciting, I am also a big fan of rollercoasters and I believe there are some of the biggest rides in Las Vegas which would be something I would be interested in, the casinos would be very competitive and I would love to see how it is in real life rather than always watching Las Vegas Casinos on movies.. there is always entertainment going around the city such as the famous Bellagio fountains and parades in the streets.. I am huge food lover, so the restaurants would appeal to me extremely well. The weather would be good, and finally there would be plenty of shops to go in and buy all amazing designer clothes that I wouldn't get at home!

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What thing do you love doing, but instantly regret afterwards ?

April 14, 2019

I love to show my feelings towards someone. I love to help, if possible.

I cannot sayNO, if asked for any favor. And most of the time, I end upregrettingmyYES. I regret that I had soft corner for a person, who least cared about me, and left me when I was in need of a helping hand.

LessonsI have learnt:

Help others, only if you don't expect anything from them in return. If at all you have expected them to be thankful and be helpful to you in return, then be ready to be hurt and with stand to the pain, if they fail to match your exception.

Don't blame people for disappointing you, blame yourself for expecting too much from them.

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What is happines for you?😉

Saim

April 13, 2019

Happiness, are you aware about true happiness? Generally, when I ask someone this questions. Mostly are not able to answer properly. When people says they are happy means they are satisfied with their life and they are experiencing a preponderance of pleasant emotions such as contentment, joy, pleasure, enthusiasm and delight. I call this type of happiness as‘normal’happiness.

Normal happinessis mostly connected to our needs. If your relationship is going well, you have money in your bank, your health is good and if you are success in your life than you are happy.It means your happiness depends on certain things.If you are made redundant unexpectedly or your partner is upset with you than your happiness disappears. As your happiness is‘normal’.

True happinessis worlds apart from‘normal’happiness.True happiness describes a deep sense of inner well-being peace and vitality that is with you in most of the time in most circumstances.From my own experience, I will have to tell you that, whenever I see happiness as a selfish act, whenever I think that by going to a certain place, having a certain thing, etc. I will be happy, almost100%of the time, I am wrong. What I have discovered over the years, after doing so muchintrospectionandobserving myselfand the many people around me, is that happiness is not depends on place you go to, not depand on person, happiness is not a dream you achieve,happiness is just the happiness.

We will find happiness the moment we stop to see the self as self, the momentwe start to see ourselves as being one with the whole world. No matter where you are, no matter what you do, how you look, how much you have. If you are not happy with the specific situation, if you are not happy with what you have, you will never be happy.I challenge you to start observing your thoughts, your desire, your feeling and behavior and believe me, by doing so, you will discover so many new things and incredible things about yourself.

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Life might be painful right now, But remember pain is temporary. Life might be confusing right now, But remember it's worked out before. Everytime you've been worried in the past, it's now a memory. Don't stress, everything will be fine. You've got this, focus. Believe <3

AM'

April 13, 2019

I believe that every promise God has given me is for ME, and I trust Him with every fibre of my being. How about you?

There are doors that will specifically open just for you. But will you be ready! Will you be courageous enough to walk through them, Will you believe that you were created for this?

Oftentimes we blame others for our lack of opportunity, but most times we hinder ourselves. We let self-doubt, fear and uncertainty guide us. NO MORE!!! Let’s choose to live a life walking in faith. Believing in ourselves and believing more in the God that created us.

So don’t sit on the sidelines watching others step out in faith, thinking that it is not for you. Step out, be bold, believe bigger, trust like never before, and walk through the door that will be blown wide open for you. It’s not just for someone else, it’s for YOU, too!

Your life is a story to write — live it well! God bless!

BLESSINGS AND LOVE

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Happiness is ?

Jassim Naeem

April 13, 2019

The most important thing you can do is love yourself, take care of yourself and know your self worth. When you know your self worth , you will not accept anything that is not worthy of you.

Do not give others the power to shatter your self esteem, to break your confidence , to make you feel unloved and unwanted. You have to have a strong foundation. And that foundation is build on self love, when you build yourself up, when you build your own confidence, no one can tear it down. The most freeing feeling is when your confidence is not reliant on other people’s affirmation or approval.

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What is the most important thing in a relationship?

ShahZaib KhanZaDa

April 13, 2019

The most important thing in a relationship is to let someone be whoever he/she is. Accept them for whatever they are, and don’t try to change them even one bit. Give them their space.

Nobody in this world is bound to reply to all your calls and messages, and be there for you all the time. It’s important to understand that even if two people love each other, they really have two different lives. They don’t own each other. Don’t expect someone to love you and pamper you 24*7, when you yourself can’t.

Sometimes, in life, we neglect somebody else’s perspective and base our opinions on the assumptions our mind makes. If he/she isn’t available for me right now, he/she doesn’t care. If he/she has avoided my calls, it’s because he/she doesn’t care. This is immaturity.

Love someone truly for who he/she is, as a person, not for what he/she does for you or how he/she makes you feel, or don’t love at all.

There are too many mediocre things in life. Love shouldn’t be one of them.

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Kese kar lete ho ?🤔

paua

April 13, 2019

It is not important that how “MUCH” you value a person.

But it is important that how “LONG” you value that person with the same feeling.

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hey?

Jassim Naeem

April 12, 2019

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Why should men open up? What do we've as a society to give our men who will emotionally open up in front of us & become vulnerable?

Name calling? We'll term them as weak, girly, unmanly, & will make fun of their emotions. So why should they show their emotional & vulnerable side to us? To get mocked upon & left out? Will we be able to protect our men? Are we ready for emotional men? I don’t think so!

Men are our solid rocks, our security nets. We can't let them go all soft because our sense of security will be endangered. Isn't it?

Most of the women don't know how to handle a man who breaks down in front of her. Most women will freeze with confusion about how to tackle a man who is in a river of tears. We all can handle an aggressive man, a man in raging anger. We can all term him abusive.

But a man full in tears? Can you handle him well? A man who says he can't pay the loan, he is getting suicidal thoughts, drinking alcohol every night, not being able to sleep? How many women can handle such men. But you know what, more than 90% of men are going through these pressures everyday in silence.

Because they know they cannot open up. No one will be their knight in shining armour. They are the one who is supposed to be that knight. He is the one to protect, he isn't the one who needs protection. If men will start opening up just like women, it would be the same society who will start judging these men.

Truth is bitter, & the bitter truth is our society practically is not ready for softer, gentler, & emotionally vulnerable men. We just don’t know how to handle them well.

Men know their emotions are their biggest enemies in the real world. So most men have shut out emotionally, even from the women they love the most. Their mother, sister, wife & daughter. It is not their shortcoming. It is rather a shame for us that we have failed our men so ruthlessly. They cry inside their heart & their cries don't reach us. Never!

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Allah bless u always,protect u and give you utmost success in life without any sadness

Owais Khurshid Bhat

April 12, 2019

इल्मो अदब के सारे ख़जाने गुज़र गए
क्या ख़ूब थे वो लोग पुराने, गुज़र गए ।

बाक़ी है अब ज़मीं पे फ़कत आदमी की भीड़
इन्सानों को मरे तो ज़माने गुज़र गए !!

Don’t expect, just live and enjoy the life!

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+1 answer in: “Jummah mubarik 😊stay blessed 😀”

Hey, Whatever you're feeling now. Accept it. Breath through it. It will pass. I believe in you. You believe in you. Everytime you're faced with adversity you power through it. This time is no different. This is your story. Be the hero of your own movie. You can do this. <3

AM'

April 12, 2019

There comes a time in your life when you need to walk away from all the drama and the people who create it.
You must surround yourself with people who make you laugh.
Learn from the bad and focus on the good.
Love the people who treat you right and pray for the one’s who don’t.
Life is too short to be anything but Happy.
Falling down is a part of Life. Getting up and standing back again is Living.

Hey
Whatever youre feeling now Accept it Breath through it It will pass
I

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Clouds or sun

Harpreet Babbar

April 12, 2019

Above the clouds the sun is creating paintings with yellow streaks and bloody red wisps.
Moving, reshaping, shifting and blending to form images that are ever-changing and ever-moving, never stagnant and never the same.
I want to be such a cloud.

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Jummah mubarik 😊stay blessed 😀

April 12, 2019

We live in a world where blessings are taken into account by the assets you’ve built,
Where wealth is measured by the salary you earn,
Where achievements are only recognized by institutions,
Where happiness is perceived by the number of perfect family pictures you post on social media,
Where beauty is judged by one’s physical attributes,
Where contentment is linked to the amount of savings,
Where we all fail to recognize that only guidance from Allah SWT is the most treasured blessing, wealth, achievement, happiness, beauty and contentment of the heart and soul.
May Allah SWT make everyone yearn for Guidance!
Ameen | Jummah Mubarak

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What makes a person good or bad his/her brought up or the individual nature itself?💬

April 12, 2019

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Growing up we had specific connotations of the words bad & good. Cheating on a test & lying makes you a bad person. Sharing your toys, saying please & thank you is good, making you the latter. As we grow up we find out that this very clear line that has been drawn is actually quite blurry with many gray areas. If I lie to someone/ don't want to give someone money to borrow does that make me a bad person?

So how do we determine who is good or bad, right or wrong & who deserves the benefit of the doubt? Do we judge them for their past if they have stolen & been deceitful? Or do we forget about the kind of person they were? Our way of thinking changes as we grow up & it becomes more difficult to decide what character traits we are supposed to look at in a person.

In a society we've decided that every person has to fall into one of these two categories, & more often than not we decide that their bad qualities are the defining attributes of their character. It is very easy for us to decide that once a good person does something we see as dishonest or wrong that they are no longer a good person. Yet, it is so hard for us to decide that when a person who has at one time done a bad thing but is showing they have a good heart that they have a positive character & good morals.

What makes a person good or bad? I truly believe that every person has both good & bad inside of them. Even though a person may do something wrong & lead a life that is dishonest, they are still capable of doing good things. People aren't born evil, they aren't born with the idea of hate, but instead born to do great things & life can sometimes get in the way. We live in with horrible things going on every day, we have to remember that it's up to us to keep our character & morals strong. We have to make sure that we choose the right path every chance we get. Even if you make mistakes, always remember that those mistakes do not define you or your character.

What makes a person good or bad hisher brought up or the individual nature

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