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What trend are you tired of?

Self harm/ Starving.
So many people during my school days had started self harming or starving themselves because they saw someone else doing it. It’s such an ridiculous act. I understand if you have a mental disorder but cutting your skin just because you have friends who are doing it, it’s wrong. Self harming and starvation should NEVER be a trend and I’m sick of people making light of it. If you self harm or starve, you need to get help. It becomes an addiction and before you know it, you’re sitting in the bathroom looking for a sharp object to cut with or you’re planning your next 100 calorie “filling meal” but of course you can’t eat it until you lose 2 more pounds. It becomes an addiction, like drugs or alcohol. It doesn’t help, it hurts. If you are hurting yourself or starving yourself, please message me. I want to help you out. You are threatening your lives!
But yeah, so that’s the “trend” I’m tired of.

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What one word describes you?

frankysingh’s Profile PhotoFranky Singh
Intense
Yeah, I am deep and deeper than you ever think. Nobody can know how deep my thoughts are.
Yeah, I am of an extreme force. Stop me from what I want, you’ll experience it. I yearn, with full form and energy.
Yeah, I’m highly concentrated. Sulphuric acid? Ah! I am more concentrated. I’m severe, complex and a complication to many. To decode me, you’ll have to break your brains. Well, I can’t guarantee if you’ll succeed in that.
Yeah, I’m emotional. Just so hollow and dark inside. Mess with me, you’ll have a tough time.
Yeah, I’m extreme. Emotions, feelings, wants, likings, interests and what not. I’m extreme and confusing.
I am a mystery to be precise.
What one word describes you

What is your main rule? 💭

1. Laugh a lot. Earlier when things were not working out well for me, I told myself that I'll smile no matter what. Now, it has become a habit. I smile randomly at strangers too! I am happy all the time and people always compliment me about staying happy all the time.
2. When demotivated, I don't watch YouTube videos and stuff. I spend my time with my grandparents, pet animals or simply read books.
3. I don't cry in front of people. I don't like to. There are a very few people who've seen me cry. Even if I'm crying on phone I have this tendency to laugh so that my mom won't notice.
4. I don’t like materialistic gifts, I prefer handmade presents. I prefer diy gifts for birthday presents, or any sort of parties.
5. I have a pocket size diary on my bed beside my pillow. Before I sleep, I write whatever I've had spent in the last 24 hours.
6. I don't hate people or give hates rather. I am a strong karma believer. I never reply to hate messages or comments, just report and block them.
7. I talk to myself. Quite often. Whenever I feel like I don't know the answer. I go to any secluded area and spend 4–5 hours there.
8. I have stopped arguing with people and I don't really like to get attached to anyone. I prefer staying in limits.
9. I don't like reading/ watching anything without a strong story line.
10. I can write 24x7. I don't get tired of writing stuffs. But when it comes to texting or chatting with someone then I may find it boring or completely hate writing.

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What’s the worst thing you have forgiven to someone?

ManasviKoshiy’s Profile PhotoManasvi koshiy
There are too many, that are too heinous to name one worst thing some one has done to me (or others close to me.)
Some I have forgiven completely, such as those things done to me by people who erroneously thought they were taking just vengeance upon me for some great life lessons I have had previously taught them about some past mistakes they had done.
Those who thought they were exercising their perogative of punishing me, for some slight they felt I made to their ego, think about burning out things for me that are letting confusion get in the minds of the people I am close to.
It is a big factor in forgiveness if the other person who did it to me realizes what the significance of it was and tries to make amends. I will give them a little time, and be nice to them, but estrange myself from them at the first reasonable opportunity. I shall forgive them but I don’t want them to repeat same things.
Those who expect me to accept what they did as an indicator of their superiority to me can expect ignorance from me because it's a high time now, that I have been forgiving them for everything wrong they have been doing to me. It's time for them to grow up!

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Why do people post food and fitness routine photos on social media so much?

DheerajJha’s Profile PhotoDheeraj Jha
We’re human beings, therefore we need and crave for attention, validation, love, acceptance, and the list goes on. Some people want something more from others, which comes down to how much, often, or in what fashion people participate and utilize social media platforms. We like certain platforms more than others because of our communication style, so we inundate those platforms because they are extensions of us and what comes ‘natural’ based on the way we feel about the specific platform. We love socializing, isn't it?
There are many actual reasons why people share things on social media, yet I feel like you’re looking for a more in depth answer as to what is really behind the actual sharing and what our human urges are such as; why did that woman just share a photo of what she's going to eat? Perhaps, she feels pleasure having a healthy meal, or she wants her followers to see what she's up to, or to show off what she's good at (These explanations can continue on for days).
Truth is, we all are involved into sharing things some or the other things on the net and show that we are the most active personality that one needs know about. (I bother sharing what I've been writing or write on a daily basis) We all know why we share things on social media we just have to dig deep and ask ourselves the ‘why’ question ultimately.

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How do you usually react, when somebody is shouting at you?

When someone is shouting at me in anger, then I follow these things:
1. I never argue back.
2. I never try to justify anything immediately even if the mistake is not from my side.
3. I don't smile or laugh just for the sake of controlling myself.
4. I don't look at anywhere. Focus on them. Act like I am listening to their words (It gives them a mental satisfaction while shouting in anger that you are listening)
5. Show your puppy face instead of being cool or showing a never mind attitude.
If they are having blood pressure or prone to shouting, then call some of their close ones to come immediately for a rescue. If no one is there, then just stay at a kneel down position. That will lead to a shocking moment for the and they will reduce the tempt of their anger. (If you think that the person's life is worth for you, otherwise follow the above)
After they have finished shouting, now don't go immediately to explain what happened. Just wait for 2 minutes. They will take a breathe for sometimes. Now go to them and approach and say with respect:
I'm trying to understand how responsible position you have kept me in your mind and heart. I'm unfortunately lacking in something that you are regretting now. I will promise you that I will never repeat it again and apologize me whole heartedly. I have taken all of your words as my grace and reminder to do the next task neatly or perfectly, and as per your expectations.
As per the situation, change the content with polite of the words and then leave the place slowly.
Whether you have done the mistake or not, for a moment you have to act like a culprit to convince them. When they are getting normal, and understanding the truth behind the actual cause, then their mind will fix more confidence and trust from your side. Believe that, It will definitely happen.
Patience is very important in life. “A peaceful and a patient mind can rule the world.”

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What’s the most beautiful beach you’ve been to?

Well I can answer about India as I am not yet lucky to travel abroad. The opinion of beauty differs from person to person. The following is mine.
When it comes to beaches in India, most people tend to ask from neighbors and friends and confine themselves to mainstream beaches like Palolem , Baga , Querim, Anjana, Calangute etc in Goa. Agreed these beaches are enthralling natural beauty, but with the ever increasing tourist population and the irresponsible nature of most of the indians to maintain cleanliness and avoid litter, these beaches have lost the serenity and peace of mind they once had.
That’s when we decided to forget Goa and explore serene uncrowded beaches in India, which are free from the human hustle and bustle. In this exploration, we visited several virgin and secluded beaches which includes Marari beach in kerala, Bangaram Beach in Lakshadweep, Secret Beach in Alleyppey, Kerala, Varkala in kerala, Bekal beach also in Kerala. This exploration is just tip of the iceberg of the enthralling natural beauty India is abode of.
But among all we visited my favorite isSt. Mary’s Island, Udupi, Karnataka.A tiny, heavenly beach covered in shimmery white sand and translucent water of the Arabian Sea. The fascinating element is the peculiar formation of basalt rocks that have formed unique vertical blocks surrounding the island. Exclusive rare shells lying along the coast are sure to mesmerize anyone with its beauty.

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Share a fact🌼

Here’s a psychological tip that I use frequently while in service positions to diffuse tense situations with angry customers. This tip also helps in personal situations with friends and family.
Don’t say “I’m sorry.” Say “Thank you.”
The moment you say “I’m sorry,” you solidify the fact that you’ve done something wrong and it was your fault. You’ve centered the phrase around yourself with the “I” statement, and therefore you become the one wholly responsible.
Knowing that you’ve done something wrong, many people feel justified to target you with anger. If whatever happened was actually frustrating to them, by saying “I’m sorry” you dub yourself as the reason for their frustrations.
If you say “Thank you” instead, the conversation is suddenly centered on the other person instead of you. You’ve just praised the other person! They’ve been thanked! They’re noble, patient, understanding, etc. Thank you’s diffuse tense situations.
“Thank you for being patient with me.”
“Thank you for understanding.”
“Thank you for going out of your way for me.”
Try using these during any conflict. Watch the reactions of people around you change.
Thank you for reading!

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What do people come to you for?

XebButt’s Profile PhotoShahzaib
People come to me for study related advice, not very often but they do!
When they come for my advice on certain topics I will paint a very clear assertive picture in front of them so that they have clear understanding for taking decisions!
Ultimately what is advice? Reflecting on your past experiences to help others avoid the same pitfalls?! right?
Also I will keep a check on them and take a feedback on the success rate of all the suggestions/Advice that I have given so that I wont hesitate giving them to other people’!
For example my friend had an issue with his studying efficiency!
He couldn’t concentrate much on his studies and was often distracted!
To which I suggested him for the “TIME BOXING” concept!
He heard me out and said that he would like to follow it!
And he did!
Also I took the follow through for my advice and I realized that people take my advice very seriously!
Also I believe in helping people to my best ability; It makes the world a better place to live in!

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What do people come to you for

muhammadfuzailshafique’s Profile PhotoFuzail
She searched for the stunning eyes, she found many.
She searched for the charming smile, she found many.
She searched for a perfect body, she found many.
He stood behind her with a calm face and kind heart listening to all her wishes and desires.
But when she searched for a beautiful heart, he smiled and asked, “Did you find any? ”.
She shook her head and said, “No”

Are you a city or a nature person?

I didn’t know I knew nature. I was just a child and I had this distorted idea that nature was supposed to be something so extraordinary, that mere mortals had no access to it. Well… I did get the “extraordinary” part right, as it turns out; but I had yet to learn about understated beauty and about patiently waiting to reveal itself. Nature’s beauty can often be striking, but that’s not the rule…
I’m a city girl, born and raised, and I don’t think I could give up being one, no matter how much I love nature. But I was lucky as a child, I had access to both worlds. Having a great-grandmother who lived in a nearby village meant I assimilated nature without even noticing what was happing. I understood growth. I knew the life of a tomato, from the little seed, to the point it ended up sliced in my salad. I knew those beautiful blossoms would eventually become fruit, then pie or marmalade. Cruel as it may sound, I also knew about cute chickens and piglets, and took life as it was, the way my great-grandmother taught me, the way all farmers did.
To my great-grandmother’s amusement and to my grandmother’s outrage, I wanted to run barefoot in the garden, like I had seen other village children do. But much as I enjoyed those things, come evening all I wanted was to go back home, to the comfort of our flat, so I could watch my cartoons before going to bed. The house my great-grandparents built with their own hands was too Spartan for my taste. The bed wasn’t comfortable enough, they had no TV and didn’t want to have one; and the fridge was used as a cupboard – why waste electricity on that when you have a perfectly good and terribly cold cellar? Set in my urban ways from the beginning, I was too young to understand how close to nature, how connected to it my great-grandmother was. She hated spending the night in a suffocating block of flats just as much as I hated that scary countryside nocturnal silence and the early mornings there.
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Are you a city or a nature person

What do you hope never changes?

“Change is the only thing that never changes in the world”. According to me, life is full of twists and turns out of which some may be fruitful and some may be awful. Both joy and sorrow mixed in life makes it a pleasant song to hear. Also, our FATE can never be changed. Accept what life gives you and be satisfied with it.
What do you hope never changes

STAIF: How would you define that fine thin line between love and infatuation?

ashnakhan16’s Profile PhotoAshna khan
There is a huge difference between love and infatuation.
Though it seems to be similar for some persons especially to school going students but these two words are totally different from each other if we try to know about the depth of these words!
Usually in school life the infatuations takes place due to the secration of hormones and the age.
Infatuation is just for a short period of time and it doesn't last long.
In today's life infatuation has become common for the school going students and they think that it is love and they later on realise that they were mistaken.
Love is a pure word which is very different from infatuation and attraction, and we only come to know the meaning of love when we come to know about the meaning of life! Love is nothing but mutual understanding and acceptance between two persons and a strong friendship with trust and belief.
And the most common difference is that in infatuation there are breakups and in love there is no breakup!
And according to my experience I suggest that not to indulge in relationship in school carrier because it is not true love but it is caused due to the age and it is nothing but infatuation.
Following are the actual meaning of certain words:
Affection: I like you.
Attraction: I feel drawn to you.
Trust: I know what to expect from you.
Intimacy: I can be vulnerable with you.
Love: I want what’s best for you.
True love: I truly want what’s best for you.
Lust: I have a strong desire for you.
Crush: I feel butterflies everywhere and feel like grinning.
Infatuation: I want to look at you and follow you and stare at you and be near you and call you while I walk towards you.
Obsession: you are the only thing I think about.
Passion: I feel an emotion and the way I feel that emotion is powerful.
Compassion: I put myself in your shoes and feel your experience as if it was my own. It has more to do with who I am than what I feel towards you.

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STAIF How would you define that fine thin line between love and infatuation

Would you rather only be able to whisper or only be able to shout?

I am a daring person who hides little. I speak out what I think almost always. I like to be heard. Moreover I can't stand suffering from low people's voices. The little physical effort I make to hear someone whispering irritates me. Moreover, whispering to me is related to secrecy, conspiracy and ill-intentions. Hence, I would shout rather than whisper... It may be too energy-consuming, but I yet I don't see myself whispering forever.

Confess Something.

its_jass’s Profile PhotoJassim Naeem
A rebel inside, a misfit outside.
How easy it was, to misunderstand that smile,
That held a world deep within,
No one could glance, what lied beneath,
For the forbidden, always seems so beautiful,
She smiled, like it was her world,
Little did anyone know, she was in her world,
Tired of all the judgements, and the unasked opinions,
Yet there she was, a misfit outside, rebel inside!
Confess Something

How was your day? ☀️#staif

Shab-e-Barat Mubarak to all my Muslim Followers.
What is Shab-e-Barat (The Night of Blessings)?
Shab-e-Barat, the 15th of Sha’aban, considered as the night of blessings and forgiveness. It is observed tonight and Sunday with religious enthusiasm and solemnity. Judgments regarding deaths, lives, blessings, Rizaq and many more bestowments for the coming year. It is believed that our prayers are answered at this blessed night. Tonight large number of people visit Masajid’s to pray; pray for forgiveness, relief to their stress, solution to their problems.
It is considered as occasion like Eid; Masjid’s are decorated with lights and flowers, some people decorate their homes and call neighbours for Milaad or Ijteami Dua. Ijetami Dua include prayers for unity, prosperity and growth of our beloved country.
Tonight is the time; pray for yourself and pray for everyone!

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How was your day staif

What's the last book you read?

If you want to read something that stirs your soul and makes you marvel at the emotions words can bring out in you, I would recommend you to read THE book theif by MARKUS ZUSAK.
I finished reading it last week and it is one ofthe most beautifully written novelsthat I have read so far. Set in nazi germany, it is a tale of a little girl who is sent over to a foster home, how she comes to love the couple she is adopted by, the story of how these people who are unrelated by birth form heartbreakingly beautiful relations over time, the young girl’s love for words, her struggle to learn how to read and write , a child’s thought on everything going around her, struggles of living in the nazi era, the horrors and fear of war, the sacrifices and beauty of people who rekindle your faith in humanity and the importance of words. This masterpiece will show you a multitude of perspectives on how people thought and lived through one of the darkest periods of human history and it will make you cry with the wisdom and tenderness that certain characters display.The best part - the entire narrative is from the point of view of death.
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Whats the last book you read

Say something? 😂

There are many difficulties in life those who accepts it becomes a legend and those who run away from it becomes a loser and goes home.
Just remember this if you get lost along the way. This will motivate you towards the success of life:
It doesn't matter how people See's you, it matters how you see yourself.
Start where you are.
Use what you have.
Do what you can.
Stay original and let the world copy you.
Work hard in silence.
Let your success be the noise.
If you obey all the rules, you miss all the fun.
When you walk up to opportunities' door- don't knock it, kick that door in, smile and introduce yourself.
An open mind will open new doors.
Never put your key to happiness in somebody else's pocket.
Today they'll call you crazy, tomorrow they will call you boss.
Stay away from negative people.
They have a problem for every solution.
Before you judge me, make sure you are perfect.

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But the reality is....?

Today's Reality:
Time spools moving forward to the unknown.
Blurring the past memories and heartaches.
One never knows what the future will bring.
We only know what the past has held: the fears, the joys, the history of mankind and of ourselves.
Lost in a wellspring of time, wrapped in the chains of the past.
Writhing to escape.
Wanting to be free for the future.
Wanting to be able to look forward to a time where there is no strife, no war, no abuse, no killings, no hate mongers and railing at the populace.
Today, the world is falling backwards, a reversal, a loss of integrity.
Morals of feeling that all are interconnected.
What abounds now; mass murderers, ruling countries, frauds, liars, misogynistic imperialism and a belief that one knows better than the weaker sex.
Stand tall, break free.
Bring them to their knees.
Until prejudice entitled mentalities are destroyed forever.
We shall continue to fall back to the stone age.

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Would you forgive, if your beloved one cheated on you?

ashnakhan16’s Profile PhotoAshna khan
If we want others to be honest in their dealings with us, we need to start by changing our own behavior first. Treat others the way you want to be treated.
You don’t have to like the other person’s behavior. But you can still forgive them for the choices they’ve made. Forgiveness isn’t about the other person; forgiveness is about maintaining our own peace of mind. Forgiveness allows us to let go of anger and return to a state of peace. On the other hand, holding onto anger gains us nothing, causes us more pain, and keeps us stuck in the path.You cannot live your life up to the definition of somebody else. You cannot just like that change or blame yourself for doing that.“Make a wrong doer feel shy, by doing him a favor.”If others harm you, do good unto them, so that they are shamed into realizing their mistakes. How close we can live our life to the above is what matters. Even if we are no way close to this, we are human beings, we should give some allowance to ourselves. But, everyday make conscious effort to get close to this.

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