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Who came up with the idea that talking to people who disagree with feminism/SJW's is "giving a platform for bigotry" and when was the first time you heard it used in your community

it's always been there. censorship is part of the ideology, justified as serving a "higher cause". i first saw it when i was attacked/no platformed by feminists back in 2012, but i think it became really obvious on a large scale during all the election craziness.

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How did you find the courage to leave mormonism? I'm really struggling with letting my parents down. :(

:( they might be disappointed for awhile, but as long as they're not too deep in it they should still recognize that you're their kid and that they love you either way. for me, it was (and always is) about staying true to myself. sometimes that means making difficult choices that others will be quick to judge, but this is part of living your life for you and nobody else. hang in there. hugs.

As a sex ed what's your opinion on porn? i was ok with it but since i've read many scientific researches (not biased by religions) showing how bad that actually is for people watching (lost of libido during actual sex with partner, more violent sex, etc) & a general more degrading image of women :'(

i think it's a fairly complicated issue. my main problem is with the fact that a lot of babes, like 9 years old, are being exposed to sex for the first time through hardcore pornography. i also think part of sex ed should ideally include a critical understanding of porn, including healthy usage and media literacy for gender/race/sex issues in porn. i talk a little bit about it in my episode on porn addiction.

I've been asking kinda trolly questions because i'm bored/drunk, sorry. Think you're genuinely a sweet person and i'm very happy you're in a good place at the moment. Cause this is "ask" fm and not "say nice stuff to internet strangers" fm I do have a question, do you prefer red wine or white wine?

haha, apology accepted. i prefer white wine in general, it's light and refreshing with a softer mouth feel. sauvignon blanc is my favorite.

I thought you said you didn't want kids? What about marriage?

well, sometimes i don't want them. lol. i have a lot of reservations about the institution of marriage. also something i go back and forth on. i talked heavily about marriage with one of my exes that i was with for several years, and i liked the idea at the time. depends on where life takes me, what my partner wants, what feels right, etc.

Could you explain why you responded to Lindsay like that? It didn't seem like she was being too rude with what she said, and seemed like she wanted to have a conversation.

the context she didn't share is several previous threads discussing the matter with 300+ posts.

Do you think these people genuinely can't distinguish between classical liberalism, conservatism, and NAZIS? Or do you think it's just an ill-informed tactic to smear everyone else as extremist except themselves? Because if it's the latter, wowza is that backfiring

this is a well framed question and i tend to think it's a bit of both.

If I don't feel anything when I ejaculate, should I be worried? I've never felt anything when ejaculating and I assume never had an orgasm because of it.

hm. ejaculation and orgasm are two different things, though they most often occur together. it's possible you arent getting to orgasm if you stop after ejaculating. it's also possible you have some nerve damage, esp if you're sexually experienced and have never had an orgasm. if you used to have orgasmic sensation but don't anymore, it could be desensitization. i'd ask your doc if you're concerned.

Hey, Laci! I'm gay and I kind of like this guy but he is giving me so many mixed signals! How do you think I should ask him if he's gay or not without making it weird or pushy? He knows I'm gay if that helps. thanks :*

eeeee hate that. when i'm trying to get a read, i pivot from talking about my own relationships to ask them about theirs. the art is in keeping it smooth and not too obvious ?

Do you believe that sex for money should be decriminalized and protected? Would love to hear your opinion. I personally do. I have some friends that are sex workers and they love their jobs and are amazing human beings but most people dehumanize sex workers and shame them. :(

i have a vid on this topic. kinda random, i made it in jamaica...but yeah basically i support sw rights.

Whelp. Looks like there's going to be a game 5. Truth be told, I'm laker nation but I do not like lebron, even though he's probably the greatest.? Now excuse me while I continue to drink and smoke weed?

major let down. but they'll have home court advantage game 5 at least. as a dude lebron seems cool but he's such a goddamn cry baby about the game. i am visiting my parents and far too sober for this defeat ? lol

Are some of the feminist friends that u have in real life angry at u? It seems to me that the most backlash that u are getting comes from online feminists. I personally know many feminists in real life & none of them have a problem with what you are doing. They think you're great.

lol, same! IRL they don't care. the only friends of mine who are losing their shit are the radicals who i met online in the first place. makes me feel like there's something in the wifi ?

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