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I think you need some positivity. I took my MCAT a few weeks ago, and to prepare, I took some practice tests. On one of them, there was a passage about viral videos and you were mentioned, which I found pretty awesome. Shows you're doing something right if the AAMC knows who you are and approves.

weeee that's hella cool thanks for sharing :) hope your mcat went well.
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If you're gonna pick a pro lifer to debate please don't pick a blatant white supremacist like Southern who shoots flares at refugee boats with her neonazi pals.

yeahhhhhh i think i decided i won't be working with lauren after that. do you have alternative suggestions?
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No one's saying who you can and can't date. People are just saying that dating someone who has repeatedly signal boosted the men who tried to ruin your life and smear your reputation because you dared to be a woman online is fucked up.

1) yes they are, pretty explicitly.
2) i have never seen chris do such a thing. he's just friends with some of them.
people only have a tiny snippet of this story online, and i don't particularly feel like sharing all the background of my personal relationships, pain, and reconcile with my abusers with an angry hoard of frothy strangers.
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I need advice. I heard from my friend that one of my other friend started starving himself because I commented that he "got fat" behind his back. He even collapsed one time. I'm not sure if this is true, but I also feel terrible! How should I approach this and apologize!? :(

shit :( i'm glad you realize that was kinda fucked, good on you. it's hard to backtrack on body image stuff, because it's really easy to internalize and hard to let go of. but apologizing won't hurt. i'd just be honest with him. tell him how you feel and ask what you can do to be a better friend going forward.
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I'm not sure why you're getting hate over asking anti-SJW's why they thought that non-binary genders weren't a thing. That literally opens up a discussion and an exchange of ideas. That exchange does more for transferring ideas than simply preaching that non-binary genders are valid.

common sense is hard for some folks. it's identity politics basically. my time in feminist boot camp taught me to see any conversation about gender beyond the liberal feminist narrative as questioning individual identities. but since gender is a social construct, how we construct gender is a political question. and political questions should be subject to rigorous debate and open exchange of ideas by anybody effected (which is anyone who has a gender).
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Do you understand that people using "offensive" language doesn't necessarily make them bad people, like those on the intersectional feminist side suggest? For example, my sister was mentally disabled I've volunteered with disabled kids for decades, yet have no issue calling people "retarded".

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i agree that offensive language doesn't [necessarily] make someone a bad person. i try to avoid offensive language myself, and while i might express disapproval for some words from time to time, i don't think it's my job to police what people say. they're grown ups. language is fluid and always changing. i'd rather focus on the core social justice issues that have serious consequences.
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Follow up question to the one about hating pro life women (which, I'm sorry, that was a dumb question) would you be willing to debate one? Respectfully of course. I wouldn't mind seeing you debate that with Lauren Southern.

definitely. it's one of the debate topics i have planned.
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Whens the andywarski interview?

i wont be interviewing andy any time soon. he and i have a lot of trust issues to work out.
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Do you think data sometimes forgets context? By the way you're awesome and I appreciate you seeing a different point of view.

certainly. but well designed studies will hold for multiple variables, and that's a bit of context.
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The one problem I have with the anti-kink shaming crowd is that by taking away the shame we are effectively ruining certain kinks for people. How do you manage this? Is there away to keep the shame in certain fetishes while getting rid of it in others?

i have no answers, but this is such an odd conundrum haha.
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Is there something Lindz Amer was leaving out of the story in her post about you? Were the message transcripts she posted accurate and were you really her friend?

we are not friends, and i don't know her. i only accepted her friend request on fb because she needed help with something, so i lended her a hand and some support. lol. ain't no rest for the wicked. i haven't seen her posts, but that whole crew is unhinged & spewing a lot of garbage and lies rn. proceed skeptically.
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Hey Laci! When I first heard about you it was through TAA. This was after your "stick with tits" critique so naturally his aminosity rubbed off on me. Unfortantly I never gave you a fair chance intellectual but recently I have revaluated myself and I just wanted to apologize for that.

i appreciate that. thank you. <3
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I feel like you probably misunderstand, I'm not saying men should be able to make the choice for women when it comes to abortion. It's just that I, as a woman, am sick and tired of seeing "too bad, so sad, biology bro, get over it hahaha lol" to a guy whose legit hurt by a woman aborting his baby

this is not to say that he's not legit hurt, or can't be broken by such a thing. but it's not his choice because it's not his body, and that needs to be dealt with in a healthy non-controlling way.
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Hey Laci! Just wanted to say that I'm a feminist and still a big fan of yours! I, too, listen to anti-fems and other people who dont agree with my beliefs. Actually, I'm subscribed to both you and Chris, and have been for some years. love you two <3

aw yee! <3
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To say I'm skeptical of this change is an understatement. Are you willing to talk to those of use who have some trust issues with you?

so far the only "talks" i've had with people from the internet are condescending to me, yelling at me, telling me who i can and can't talk to and date, or using some form of identity politics to shut my opinion down. if it's not any of those things, then yes.
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