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My gf is has very irregular periods, we've been together a few years now an she'll go a couple weeks to a month or two over when her expected time is. What could be causing this, and how can I help her?

irregular periods can be caused by all kinds of stuff: hormones or thyroid issues, stress, body weight fluctuations, birth control, diet/exercise, etc. if she hasn't seen a doc about it to make sure it's nothing serious (it usually isn't) then she should. it's sweet that you want to help. it's always a good bf move to be supportive and caring about period stuff. if you haven't already, ask her how you can support her since she knows her own needs best.
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Where can busty women find cute + affordable bras? And is there anything I can do about the straps digging into my shoulders? My size is 28G and I can only find ugly bras or ones that are too expensive. Finding supportive sports bras in my size is also an impossible task. Please help me!

32G here feeling your struggle! the only place i've found them at a brick and mortar store is nordstrom. get a fitting done there and see how diff brands work for you. my favorite comfy bra that goes to G is by Fantasie. once you get fitted in a certain brand, write down your size and you can order their cuter offerings online that nordys doesn't carry (i usually use Her Room).
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I got my results (I'm the person that thought I'd test positive for HSV-2). I actually contracted HSV-1 which is uncommon in the genital location but I guess I got "lucky" - what does this mean? Is this really any different than having HSV-2?

that's good news. hsv 1 is less aggressive and you will likely have fewer outbreaks (1-2 per year avg with hsv 1 and 3-4 per year avg with hsv 2). people tend to get fewer outbreaks over time any way.
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My boyfriend has genital herpes. He told me before we were sexually active and we always use protection. As we get more serious and I consider a future with him, I'm also afraid to get herpes myself. Am I allowed to ask him to go on medication? What's the line here?

i'd tell him how you feel about it, and ask him how he'd feel about viral suppressants if he gets regular outbreaks. they can lower risk, but if you end up together in the long run, you'll be exposed anyway. the same is true for all types of herpes (mono, chicken pox, shingles, cold sores, etc).
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Bring back your vlog channel or not. I mean it's up to you, of course, but I enjoyed your vlogs

if i had time i would. i miss vlogging, it was silly times.
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How did you and Chris meet/get to talking? Sorry if that's been asked before, first time checking your askfm. Also would you prefer to have to bungee jump once a day for the rest of your life, or to never ever get the chance?

we met on an "antifem" skype stream. gonna have to pass on bungee jumping ?
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This upcoming year, I will be in my best friend's wedding and I just found out her fiancee voted for Trump. He was always nice and respectful of me, but this feels like a betrayal. Any suggestions about how to respectfully engage with him? Should I just never bring up politics when around him?

it depends on how close you are to him. if you have a relationship that can remain stable in spite of a little possible tension, you could just ask him why and try to understand his perspective. if he's truly nice and respectful, i'm sure he'd hear yours out too.
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The social media break seemed like it took years of stress off your shoulders. Now that time has passed do you think you and Phil D could ever work things out? I've watched you both off and on for years and it seems to be more misunderstanding than actual dislike.

it is misunderstanding, and imo, he knows that. i have reached out to phil many times to be met with silence. i will say i feel pretty hurt by how phil has treated me publicly, some instances of which verged on deliberately cruel. he has twisted my words on multiple occasions and thrown me under the bus over super petty stuff (like the time he had a melt down when i tweet-complained that my sex ed channel was being categorized as porn and censored). it doesn't make sense. it stung from someone i looked up to and never deliberately did wrong by. these days, i'm truly over it. it would take a serious heart to heart for me to ever feel warm toward him again.
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I think I'm going to test positive for HSV-2 & I feel like my life is over

:( *hug* the weight of stigma is heavy, but i can promise you life will continue on. there are great viral suppressants now that make it unnoticeable, and outside of stigma, hsv can't seriously hurt you. you'll have to alter how you talk to partners about sex and take measures to be safe as you can, but those are things everyone should be doing any way. would strongly suggest seeking out some support in the adjustment period. hang in there champ. you're not alone, lots of folks deal with this. x
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Judith Butler's theories on the social construction of gender AND sex in your next video?

butlers philosophies kinda run through all my work. i haven't read anything on social construction of sex though, only gender. i don't adhere to the belief that sex is [primarily] a social construction like gender is.
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Will you ever feel any guilt for betraying your friends and some of your principles? It seems like you did many of your friends wrong.

i have done nothing but be willing to talk, and to forgive those who show me a genuine willingness to be more thoughtful and compassionate toward others. i find this healthy and productive for my life, work, and mental health. if others don't feel that, i can't fault them, but it's not enough reason for me to continue having these needs in secret.
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I'm a 21 y/o male. I'm autistic, have low self esteem and confidence and despite looks that I've been told aren't bad, I'm very self conscious, esp. about several sets of self harm scars. It feels deceptive not to tell a girl what's underneath my clothes. What do I do and how would most women react?

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im sorry to hear that :( honestly i can't say how most women would react, but i think any decent human being would ask what happened and if you're okay. i don't know that it's necessary to bring it up beforehand unless that's something that makes you feel more comfortable with them. if talking beforehand is preferable, you could bring it up when things look like they're gonna heat up. something like "hey, before we go any further i just want to give you a heads up that ______"
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Hi Laci! I wanted to ask you your thoughts on preferences. I personally got into a relationship I didn't really feel comfortable in on the notion I'd not be enlightened or tolerant enough if I didn't and it was a very painful experience. I know it's complicated so I'm curious what your take is.

non monogamy comes to mind. i wish ppl would respect others relationship styles and needs. i've felt pressured in poly by the "enlightened" diatribe and it sucked.
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What's your favorite pocky flavor? Mine is matcha. I took your recommendation and have my pocky with my tea

matcha and chocolate! isn't it great with tea? ??
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I have the feeling that you are being careless in your attempt to open up to the other side, for example when you use the phrase "angry feminists" (which reinforces negative stereotypes against feminists and implies that any feminist who disagrees with you is hysterical), how do you feel about this?

i would say you're reading way too much into a single comment, and dismissing my lived experiences. ♀️
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This probably already came up somewhere, so sorry if its a repeat, but will you still be making educational video's on sex/gender/feminism? Side note, what you're doing is commendable. Its a position I would find mentally and emotionally exhausting to be in, so Go You for taking it on! Thank you.

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Thanks! yeah i'm still making sex plus, just focusing elsewhere for now. i'm also working on other sexuality projects for you guys that should be ready in the next year.
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