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I did try asking him, twice somemore. Once after A's, once some time in May or June last year. Both answer was "sorry, but I don't like you anymore, and I don't want to get into a r/s" Ya. Maybe it's just me right?

At least you can move on! :) he's a nice guy to let you move on rather than leading you on. :)

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Sometimes I try to compose myself strongly, but when I see a girl texting him in a way I deem ABNORMAL, I get all dulan and frustrated at him. Does that happen to you? LOL

I take it as compliment, means my boy is attractive!
But should he reciprocate then that's an insult to my attractiveness instead :< (and the 'why the fk is there a need to entertain extraordinarily-friendly msgs from girls :<) hahaha if he ignores then I'm v proud of him. :)

I saw you at J8 with algene just now! OMG YOU'RE EVEN MORE GORGEOUS IN REAL LIFE.

Hahaha you so exaggeratingggg
Next time say hi lor! :)

Hi Yvonne, I'm curious. If I can't trust my partner, how could I let myself trust him without being bothered about the doubts?

Then you learn to let go, once you're able to truly let go of the r/s, you'll still love him, but you're free from the distrust. :)

(cont) and wouldn't say why. haha. Sucks that I can't let go of him :(

Hm. Ever thought about it this way,
If you never try, the answer will always be no.
You're reading his signals.. he may be reading yours too. Why not get a closure, be it good or bad, lay it out on the tables. At least it wouldn't be a 'what if', it's a definite yes/no. :)

(cont) as I am. Honestly speaking, I've nvr asked. I don't dare to ask. LOL. And, with regards to your questions, we play with each other a lot. Like he loves to tease me. There was once he grabbed my hands to pull me across the road coz I didn't dare to cross. And after tt, he kept smiling..

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(cont) recently I asked him out for a movie with my clique and he said he's gonna watch with his friends. So I just replied "ok" lol. Is it very bad ah. I mean I still care. But I'm trying super hard to not be the one who initiates. From what I know, he hasn't had a gf. So he is single for a long

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(cont) and I went and we met up first since my guy friend is always late. We had dinner tgt and it felt like he was somewhat still int in me. Idk if it's just me. So, all along, I've been trying to be casual. Treat it as though I'm over him. Even if I ask him out, it's asking him with our clique.

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I'm the one who asked you about my ex hahaha. So... I actually kinda stopped talking to him for quite a while since I'm in uni and he's in NS. So CNY that time he smsed me on his own and asked me out for a movie with my other guy friend

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What do you think is an important aspect of friendships and relationships? :)

Off the top of my head,
Friendship: Money! Be clear about money, don't to even the last 10cent, Jojo and I have mutual understanding on splitting money when we spend outside evenly! We rather geigao than let $ 伤感情 luh.
Relationship: Self-discipline. Knows where to draw the line, what to do what not to do, don't need one to nanny the otherrrr

Are you all natural? No offense but.. Your nose looks like it's been done.

Yes I'm all naturalllllll. My nose is real, no part of me has undergone knife! Hahaha

Hi Yvonne! For you DIY shorts, what brand and type of denim are you using? :D Thank You!! -THE GIRL THAT WANTS THE GRYFFINDOR SHORTS DESPERATELY LOL.

Assorted vintage denim! But for the Gryffindor it's authentic LEEs denim. ^^ hahaha! I still dk who you are though!! :/
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Should animal hunting be banned?

Why bother having an opinion on anything when my opinion can't change the situation to be in my favour. Don't bother la. Hahaha. I prefer banned la

To love or to be loved?

Only mutual love la!
To love and be unloved = self entertain
To be loved = irritated.
Must choose then to be loved luh!

(cont) sorry for the ultra long posts. But because I need some help, so I'm asking you. I know you're no love guru. But maybe some help? hehe.

It's okay! I read through your points slowly. :)
Firstly, I'm inferring that your goal is to get him back? Even after within the 2years whatever he may have done w other girls, you can completely don't mind? All r/s should start w a clean slate ok! Otherwise confirm got problems when 1 party boh pang sua.
Then say in ugly terms, you're gg to have to manipulate the guy into chasing you instead. :) sometimes using heart all the way in a r/s is just gonna make you the losing party, we still need some rationale in it!
Let him be used to your attention, your presence, everything positive about you.
Then when he still acts like he 'can't commit', you act to have given up and withdraw your initiative to contact him. (Dont cave in here ah.)
He most likely would take the initiative to talk to you 'casually', like: How you doing recently? :)
Here, you reply passively. Open to conversation w him, but 'given up on something more' already.
Understand up till here?! Hahaha you can try if you want! But the basic concept is to let him feel the loss of you. If he cherishes you, he'd respond accordingly. :)

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(cont) that he didn't like me anymore and that he don't want a r/s now. He is one who understands me inside out, and I am still full of smiles when I tell my friend about how he dated and all. I can't seem to forget him. But Idk why is he sending all these signals to me when he don't like me anymore

He most likely still wants your attention but don't have feelings strong enough to want to commit, he likes to be 'liked' and lusted after. :)

(cont) we stopped going out tgt alone. I mean, I had no excuse to ask him out anymore. So, I asked him out with my clique. And once, I brought my colleague with me and she said my ex and I still acted like a couple. It was pretty obvious. But the thing is, when I asked him, he told me..

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(cont) We were rather close to the extent ppl kept asking if we're still tgt. Then it became awkward. But some time in June 2011 (still J2) we started going out to study tgt, just the two of us. And it was like pak-tor-ing again. I felt like we were tgt again. So, fast forward till after A's.

Study, do you all do the things a couple do, eg: hold hands, physical intimacy?

So, I need to let this off my chest. My ex and I broke up for more than 2 years now. We were from the same class, so J1 we're tgt, J2 we're not. It was pretty obvious he still liked me after we broke, but after a while, not obvious anymore.

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What if u love the guy who have do something that you can't forgive so much and u can't let him go?

Since you say cnt let go. Then I will learn, to slowly let go.
Occupy yourself with healthy activities. Let yourself learn that there's so much more to life than a guy.
Imagine this, you were happy before you met him, why let the perception of a 'loss' hurt you? Just because you had something before.. losing it doesn't = loss, since its a lousy ass crap anyway. Distract yourself from him. :)

Oh.. ): I'll try the scrub asap and hope it works! & I bought her consumable products(up to $300) as well, which caused me to have diarrhoea for days. I'll be very very very thankful to you if your scrub works! & i bought a pair of shorts from you before. Love it hehe ^^

Tell me if it works for you okay!!! <3 follow steps ah, ESP the drink loads of water and sleep immediately!!! That's *****important!
WTF report to HSA la!! Then send them the products for testing. Imagine those rlly consume her products because so exp don't bear to throw away one! Internally dk what damages to the organs already.
Omg you did ah. Been long since I last accepted a customised order already, glad you still love it after this long. <3 ^^

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