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Oh, halo cantique! :) I mentioned her here once actually, but I deleted the answer. I'll answer this one, and I won't delete it this time I promise. Reyvisa is our manager. She's a girl, yes. Some people also assume that I'm a guy named Tosi because he has her email on his Twitter bio as well. Let me just say something real quick, Tosi is a DJ who's also managed by Reyvisa. Now that you all know, you can stop stalking them.
1. I've said that I don't follow myself from indoprobs Twitter account.
2. The key to finding me is just simply search for a Liverpool fan. So if you stalk someone that you assume is me, try to find out if he/she is a Liverpool fan. That's it.
3. If you're really convinced that he/she is me and you're dying to find out, go on my ask box, show me your name, and if it's really me.. I promise I will answer it. I don't break promises.
I wish you luck.

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Well, Nurra, if you said "hurt" instead of "abuse" I would say it depends and I'd tell you my reason. But you used "abuse", and for me, it's pretty clear that any kind of abuse is abusive.
The way I'd like to educate my kids in the future is to give them knowledge about the world and not rules necessarily.. Just like what my mom and dad did to me. I'd have breakfast and dinner with them everyday, and we'd talk. Talk about their days, their dreams, their plans for tomorrow. Talk about anything.
I would try to understand them and help them understand the world. They'd know themselves what to do. It's their lives, I don't wanna push them to be anything.
I'd want them to be truthful to me just like I am to my parents. My parents don't say "don't smoke, don't drink, don't date until you're 17, etc." But they gave me an explanation on what smoking does to my lungs, my skin, and my life. They made me understand that if I get too drunk people would probably take advantage of me, or laugh at me, so I need to have control.
I'd want my kids to be responsible by giving them trust. I'd tell them "I trust you, I know that you can take care of your own life. But if you ever get lost, I'll be there for you. Don't hesitate, because I'll totally help you."
Every parent is responsible for their child and every child is responsible for their own life.
You know, one time in grade 7, me and my friends decided to sneak out of school in the middle of the day. I went home to change my clothes, Mom was there, she asked "udah pulang?" And I said "Belum sebenernya, tapi aku kabur dari sekolah karna gurunya ngeselin. Jadinya mau main aja sama temen-temen" then she laughed and said "Okay, hati-hati yaaa"
And you know what? I felt responsible for my grades because of stuff like that. My parents never demand perfect grades they just want me to be responsible. And laughing at my "mistakes" is actually a good thing. They make me trust them. They always know about my day, therefore they can still have control on me. Like if I do something really bad, they'll tell me their opinions. Then I'll have something to think about. My dad is a really smart guy, he always makes me understand his point of view. (Hey! I'm finally talking about my dad, you see? :D) But it's my choice to whether fix it or not.

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