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I am ugly, people call me ugly Now you ll say that everyone is pretty But no. The reality is that people call me ugly Y am I ugly I wanna surgery my face :(

We posted it on insta too. Is a pretty face all that matters in life? How can you give so much importance to your looks? Looks are a part of personality and you can enhance your personality by your thoughts too. Person with good thoughts can actually never be ugly. I individually believe in this.
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Liked by: Drishali Flubber. Manasvi Udit Gambhir Nipun Mehrr Grover. Palak Shaneah Therese Aries Ambikesh Danish.

My parents don't love me, nobody does. It takes courage to end a life, even if it is my own.

How can your parents not love you? Just because your thought process is different from theirs, doesn't mean that they don't love you. You're matured enough to understand this. And you're also matured enough to understand that ending a life even if it is your own is a STUPIDITY. Realise your self worth. You're important too. You're wonderful! Love yourself.
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Liked by: Udit Gambhir Mehrr Grover. Ambikesh Somz Ayushi Rawat

I don't know what to do with my life. I have absolutely nothing to live for. Why shouldn't I just kill myself?

Before taking this step, think about your parents or people who love you. Life is a gift, you might feel worthless but that doesn't mean that life has ended. Cowards go for this. Are you one? Be an inspiration for others and love your life. Let people look at you say, how strong he/she is!
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Liked by: Udit Gambhir Mehrr Grover. Palak Ambikesh Somz

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I am not exactly depressed.I am afraid,afraid to lose myself in the dark.I once had everything I had ever wished for but it all fell apart,slowly.I had to break up(changed school),lost all my friends.Now I an emotionless freak who has mood swings,bad ones.I don't know how to be happy anymore.Help.

Nobody is permanent in our lives. If You'll lose friends, you'll also build new friendships. As I have mentioned in many of the answers, good company can do wonders. Surround yourself with positive people. And changes are a part of life. You had to leave your friends someday. Calm down and socialise yourself. Breakups are a part of life too. You'll find a guy who'll love you more than anyone else will and will not leave you. Wait for that day. These little breakups shouldn't affect you. Time heals everything, this pain is temporary. You will move on. It's just that you have to be strong. :)
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Liked by: Udit Gambhir Mehrr Grover. Ambikesh Somz

My bf brk up with me aftr 6 months of dating bcz he said that he missed being single. I don noe wat to do. So upset n angry at the sm time

People who don't realise your importance don't deserve to be a part of your life. You might feel that he was the only one and you can't live without him, but this is temporary. Time heals everything. You'll find out better guys, someone who will actually love you and make every single effort to keep you which that guy is not doing. You have a self respect too. You won't care for the people who don't care for you. You are special and you've to be strong. :)
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Liked by: Udit Gambhir Mehrr Grover. Ambikesh Somz

i dated a girl for like a week but then she broke up with me, it was ldr but i really loved her and i still do. What should i do?

Ask her the reason for breakup and believe me, if she's the right girl, she will come to your life on her own. You can continue to be friends with her. And if you want her in your life, build a strong friendship first , be a trustworthy and loyal friend and see how she changes.
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Liked by: Manasvi Udit Gambhir Mehrr Grover. Ambikesh Somz Untamed Ash C.

thanks much :') how can we contact personally?? cuz i need to every day !! my life is probably hell !!

We're always ready to help you. You can just drop your question in the box and all your questions will be answered. :) and your life isn't hell, you just need to be positive. :)
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Liked by: Udit Gambhir Ambikesh Somz Hitoshura

I love a girl since 1 year and she spends time with me. I proposed her once and was rejected and I don't know what to do. I really need her. I don't know really know whether she even like me or not.

If you like a girl that doesn't mean that she'll like you back. She can have her own dreams , her own choice. But if you think that you're actually made for each other then I will suggest you to be a close friend with her for sometime and then talk to her about relationship. Don't be quick with things. Let it go slowly. Let her feel for you and don't hurry up.
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Liked by: Udit Gambhir Ambikesh Somz Aryann. Shivangi Dhingra Hitoshura

i dated a guy who was my bff !! i double dated him !! I loved both of teh guys !! both of them came to know about this duble date thng !! now my ex bff isnt talking to me while my bf whom i m in love with is still with me !! and me ex bff teases me by toking to other girls. how to ignore such thngs?

First, you can't actually love two people. You might be attracted to your best friend but the true feeling of love was for the other guy. Your boyfriend is still with you after knowing the fact that you double dated, this means that he's actually in love you. I just hope that you don't make the same mistake again. And you shouldn't care if your ex BFF teases you because you already have the right guy with you. If he's talking to other girls, it shouldn't affect you. You're already blessed with your boyfriend. :)
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Liked by: Udit Gambhir Ambikesh Somz Shivangi Dhingra Hitoshura

But it's been almost 5 years. I've tried everything that I could. No he doesn't love me back, he admires my personality but he doesn't love me.

If this is a continuation of any question then please mention it. We'll be able to help you better. :)
If a guy doesn't love you back, it's time for you to move on. You'll meet so many guys in life. Not every guy you meet is going to stay in life, But the right guy will. If a person doesn't know your importance then he doesn't deserve to be in your life. Realise it. :)
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Liked by: Udit Gambhir Ambikesh Somz Hitoshura

...yesterday, for no particular reason. Probably, I was just a little upset, tired of being positive while not actually having anything to do or be positive ABOUT, and I wanted to try something that is said to give people temporary suicidal 'pleasure'. I know this is wrong. It doesn't look prominent

If you are upset and you feel alone, talk to a friend. A friend who is actually close to you. You know that you were wrong when you were thinking about temporary suicidal 'pleasure' , This is a very good thing. Life is not easy and you don't have to make it more difficult. Bring back that smile on your face and realise your self worth. You have to be strong in life and you don't get everything you desire in life. Positivity will help you connect with people. So, be positive. And don't forget that you're wonderful. :)
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Liked by: Udit Gambhir Ambikesh Somz Hitoshura

...after being scolded by my parents, I just picked up the compass and dug a little with it into my skin below the knee. I drew a tiny line. The second time I did this was when I was guilty of not doing anything for my mother on her birthday. This time the line was darker. The third line was...

First, Self harm is not going to take you anywhere! Your parents are your well wishers. When they scold you, it is for your betterment. Understand this! Nobody in your life will take care of you like your parents do. It's okay if you couldn't plan anything on her birthday, did she stop loving you? Or did she stop taking care of you? She's your mother and she will always love you. Stop harming yourself because you're not a coward.
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Liked by: Udit Gambhir Ambikesh Somz Hitoshura

Somtimes i feel not good enough, and that i screw up everything ive touched. But most of all, i feel cold inside. Its like i can see people fighting and maybe even cryung but im too cold to even feel bad. Ive just lost hope maybe?

It's not that you have lost hope. You need to look at things differently. People love to connect with you when you are positive. Negativity will make life dull. You see people fighting and crying and it doesn't affect you? It's not possible. It's just that you've convinced yourself that you won't care, no matter what! So, be a positive person , connect with people and make your life easier and not complicated. Take care!
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Liked by: Udit Gambhir Shaneah Therese Aries Ambikesh Somz Hitoshura

How do I get over someone that I've loved for too long? I wanna let go. I can't take it anymore. It kills me from the inside. Please help!

Look, some things should be left for time to heal.
What you can do right now is just ask the person if he/she loves you back one final time. In just a yes/no. If he/she says no, think of it as she/he has the right to choose the one she/he loves. Her loss though.
Indulge in something that interests you. Take some responsibility which may take your mind off him/her.
Someday this will all repeat all over again and you'll find a way better person who'll love you back. :)
Stay smiling.
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Liked by: Udit Gambhir Ambikesh Somz Hitoshura

I'd been keeping well & was happy & positive for a long time. Then, suddenly, the littlest of things seemed to start irritating me, making me want to cry. This is probably because I have had to sit idle at home for some months now(that will change in a week's time, hopefully). Now this one time, ...

Listen, I understand you but maybe we should talk in person and it would be better.
I promise you your identity won't be revealed to anyone except me.
You'll feel better if you share.
These topics are not general so can't be given a general solution.
I hope you revert back. Send me a question unticked and I'll send you my facebook link or phone number.
WE NEED YOU TO REVERT BACK OKAY? you're precious and I don't want any smile to fade.
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Liked by: Udit Gambhir Ambikesh Somz Hitoshura

I'm short, I'm fat and nod one likes me. How do I make friends?

Okay, this is the problem with a majority of people we meet. I don't even think that's a problem but you think so much about it that it starts becoming a problem.
The problem is not that you're different than the others, the problem is that you think you are.
Think it out yourself, would you really want friends who would want to be your friend only if you're applicable to join their group on the basis of your appearance.
I think it's more what you think about YOURSELF. If YOU think you're a loser, then yeah, you'll be a loser. If YOU think you're ugly, then yeah, you'll be ugly, because that's what YOU think about YOURSELF. What OTHER people think about you doesn't make you who you are, it's what YOU think about you.
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Can you change your physical appearance? Can you choose how you look? NO
Then why think about it. You didn't choose how to look, its random. And nothing is classified as good or bad, its what the people think of it. Try focussing on your behaviour and nature. The way you conduct yourself and talk to others defines how you'll make friends.
And you're not alone if you think you are. There are people to whom you matter (including us), who care about you, even if you don't know it, these people don't want you to be sad.
So, choose your friends who do not give a fuck about physical appearance and you'll have a big circle of amazing friends, whose social status won't depend on how their friends look. :)

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Liked by: Udit Gambhir Shaneah Therese Aries Palak Ambikesh Somz Hitoshura

Hi. Ive got an exam tomoro. And i screwed it up. I dnt remembr a sngle thng. I dndt stdy as mch and nw im jst too tnsd. I always do d sme mistks n i hate myself fr it. I hte that i cnt be hard on myslf n i alwys screw up. I dnt noe how to help myslf. I jst dnt.

You need to calm down first.
Clear your head.
You still have some time before the test, you can still make it.
Just take out your books and start studying, chapter by chapter.
Write down the main points in a notebook. Take each point at a time.
Try and memorise these points by repeating them again and again and then trying to say it out without referring to the book.
If you believe you'll never be able to do it, you actually won't.
But if you tell yourself, "yes I can do it" you will actually succeed.
You may not get the best of marks, but I can assure you, you won't be disappointed if you put in the hard work.
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Liked by: Udit Gambhir Ambikesh Somz Hitoshura

I get very angry at the littlest things, I freak out and scream and yell, I need to control my anger, do you have any suggestions on how to calm myself, and not get so angry?

This is exactly what happens with me. The moment you lose your temper, try to indulge yourself in activities like studying or activities which give you immense satisfaction, which you relish performing. Don't interact with anyone till you calm down yourself because You might offend others. This will definitely help you.
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Liked by: Udit Gambhir Shaneah Therese Aries Ambikesh Somz Hitoshura

How do I believe in myself? I can't seem to get anything right and it's not a good feeling. Im 16.

Almost every teenager goes through this phase. Things are messy, you feel worthless. Nothing feels alright but this time will pass. You'll realise that life is fun, you have to meet so many new people in life. Socialise yourself a little. Make friends but try to avoid relationships. Good company can make your life interesting and better. Love yourself because you are worth more than you can imagine.
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Liked by: Udit Gambhir Shaneah Therese Aries Ambikesh Somz Hitoshura Chura Sanjeev Malik

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