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i have a boyfriend. i love him a lot and i know he loves me too. but everything is not going smooth between us. we every second fight. no love. no sharing of things. i dont know what to do. i'm so depressed. please help.

You will face ups and downs in your relationship. No relationship goes smooth. If he's the right guy, he will be with your forever , no matter what! True love never dies, this may sound very philosophical but this is the truth. You have to face it. And also give him some space and some time. And if it's teenage love then be more careful. Teenage love doesn't last longer. You have to be strong and independent.
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I'm in 12th Grade. I'm average at academics, but I always go through a horrible fit just a day or two before the exam. It obviously messes everything up. I feel very...worthless and weak afterwords. I've taken science and I like it. Its nt dat diffclt either. But I cnt help bt b scared. I'm scared.

Exams and studies are just a part of life. Nobody is going to remember your marks or your grades after 10 years. Life is full of obstacles and we as humans have to find solutions for problems and not frown and lose hope. You have opted for a stream which you like. So, you can achieve your goals easily because you have not been forced. Take life positively and then see how easier your life becomes. You might feel worthless and helpless but never forget 'you are wonderful'.
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I have a friend who self harms... How do I help her? Any idea?

Why does she self harms? Heart breaks related stuff? If yes then motivate her by diverting her mind. Never let her feel lonely. Friends can do wonders. And I'm sure you'll be able to help her.
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i'm miserable. i'm not going to become anything in life. i just want to do something. it isn't that i don't study, i do. infact more than a lot of people. but i'm scared.

How old are you?
You must still be in your teenage, right?
You study, yes. But does it reflect in your result?
If it does, perfect. Right now, studying to get marks and gaining knowledge for yourself is what is more important.
It's not the time to think about the future, its the time to learn.
The problem with human mind is that it tends to be stuck between the future and the past.
What's scaring you is your mind stuck up in your future. Think for yourself, are you giving your ONE HUNDRED PERCENT to what you want to do?
If you aren't start now, I don't mean studies, I mean learning or whatever it is that interests you.
If you are, then there's no need to worry about the future. If you do things as required with full conviction towards something, you'll surely become successful and wouldn't regret whatever you get to be in the future.
Let yourself decide what you want to become in the future, don't let the future decide what you want to decide to become. It's a bit deep but I hope you get what I mean.
And enjoy and live your life, don't think a lot about it. Everything will be fine and perfect as you wish <3

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I love my best friend. He loved me too. We never confessed in an "official" way but we used kiss and hold hands and cuddle. Suddenly everything has changed. He has started ignoring me and fallen out of love. It's depressing. He says we need to study because 12th, but he doesn't talk at all :(

HI omg it's okay see it happens with everyone al the time.
You should talk t him and decide what exactly does he want, and be straight forward fight for your right to be attended, even if you both are friends, tell him that it shouldn't be single sided and work out a routine. It's your class 12th so you'd also have to careful now because it's a once chance class so please be relaxed and attentive and happy. everything will be okay. take care x
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How will I know if i am sure about some girl? the same guy who asked about the girl who lives near his place. I mean how do i know if i seriously love her? I am 16 now and she is 1 year older. Age is not the matter, but the feeling. how do i know if it is true?

As far as I have learned about life. You can't be serious at the age of 16. I mean even if you are, relationships will never workout. Circumstances change, feelings fade away. School life relationships can't work out and this is the truth. Even if you actually like her, it's not necessary that you'll be together in the future. If you consider my suggestion then try to resist this infatuation. It will fade away. Get into a relationship when your life is more stable i.e when your school life gets over. :)
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I have a girl near my house. We are like really good friends. I think i like her just because i want to make out with her, i guess. But yeah i like her. I'm confused and i dont want to loose our friendship. What should i do?

Hey. Look, if you aren't sure about your feelings then don't make any effort to impress that girl and don't let that girl fall for you. I've seen girls suffering later . Once you are sure about your feelings, make every effort to get her into your life. And make sure that you are serious with her. Relationships which come out with conclusions are far more better than relationships where a severe heart break happens. Don't ever cheat her or leave her for someone else. Her happiness should be important for you and if it is then you actually love her.
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my girfriend died due to a car accident....3 years ago....and the reason was me .....i had a small fight with her the day before the accident..and she was all angry while driving....!!i am not wonderful and i am just a selfish prick..:(.....now WHAT WOULD YOU SAY?

Everything happening around you is only because of a reason. Death is natural and it can come to anyone. You have to move on with life. You might hold yourself responsible for this but believe me, it's not your fault. You have to let go of things in life otherwise it can have an adverse affect on you. Be strong in life. Never forget, there's always a reason behind everything happening around you. Take care!
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I'm a 14 year old and I don't get marks at all, although I study hard. But everyone around me mocks me and I feel really insecure about it. Even my parents have lost hope in me, so have I. I feel really alone these days. Is there anything I can do to improve my life condition?

You're just 14 years old and you have to face so many obstacles in life. Losing hopes because you can't study is not the solution. Just be more determined and more focused. Don't think about marks , just make efforts and you'll automatically achieve it. Nothing is impossible. Also, if you have difficulty in concentrating, I will suggest you to study for 45 minutes and then take a break for 5 minutes and then continue again. I hope this helps!
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i'm a very fair guy but my genitals are very dark. my dad often gives me hate for this. what should i do ?

I think it's sad that your dad is hating on you because of your skin tone.
What you should know is that skin tone, in today's world doesn't matter. You probably have ancestors that were pretty fair. It's all genetics.
You're wonderful either way. Fair or dark. Don't let whatever your father says hamper with your spirit.
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I just looked in the mirror. God, I'm ugly. My face and body. It's depressing. I am really, really ugly looking. Crooked teeth, moles, non-masculine frame. Anyone else get these feels?

Lots of people think that they're ugly.
What you need to understand is that the whole idea of 'ugly' and 'pretty' was made by ourselves.
You need to understand that you're wonderful, whatever you look like. It's what's inside that truly matters.
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i'm a big man and i need a mask to survive and everyone asks me that i'm a big guy and makes fun off me. wat do ?

Just ignore everyone.
Your life is about you, and the people you care about.
What others think doesn't matter.
You're wonderful just the way you are.
You don't need to change a thing.
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I'm dark skinned and often the butt of many jokes this has made me insecure and well, leaving me with a feeling if not being enough to socialize and do things that other normal teenagers do . I feel I won't get to date and be a part of social circles and such. Cause people make me feel tht way.he

HI. Even if you're dark skinned it doesn't matter to the people who're human in their nature but it only matters to people with insecurities, if you've bullied/made fun of it was only because in some way or another you were better than the rest of them. You'll get a date. You'll have a life-mate and she/he won't actually even give a damn about your complexion because she/he would know how wonderful you're in real life. You're wonderful. Your skin doesn't make or break you it's your inner self instead. Be brave be happy. x
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I have a girlfriend who likes to read a lot. She will read about love in some book and then come and crib to me because our "love story" does not match the portrayal of love in that book of hers. She keeps trying to define love. Thoughts?

It's sad, but this happens a lot.
Girls read romantic books and start believing in the idea of a perfect relationship. Forevers.
She's your girlfriend and if you truly love her and wish to have her in your life you need to make small gestures.
Send her cute messages. Tell her you love her, and actually mean it.
Keep her happy. If it gets too emotionally exhausting for you, I suggest you don't take the relationship forward. Or at least tell her that you're no Augustus waters.
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I'm in love with my best guy friend and we are really close. He's elder to me and we are so perfect for each other. I told him I liked him a few months back and he made it very normal and then we just forgot about it. I love him too much and I have no clue what to do. He has a girlfriend too.

How old are you?
First of all you need to make sure if you're in love or infatuation. If you're in love or obsessed with the idea of being in love.
Look, I'm not criticising you but yes, make sure its love.
I'll not name myself but that's precisely what I am/was going through since the past few months.
I would suggest don't make it complicated. He has a girlfriend. Does he love his girlfriend?
If he does, don't be jealous, live with the fact. Its blunt but the sooner you accept it the better.
I'm not just stating the negative facts but I want you to be stable if that happens.
Let's just hope his girlfriend falls into an open manhole (don't take that seriously).
But the important thing to remember here is that you are best friends before anything. Support him with whatever he goes through.
Sit with him, tell him how you feel. Let him know you're okay with it (even if you aren't).
Don't think about it a lot and things will fall in place if they have to. :)

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