This is my story > We met through our mutual friends. I kinda started liking him. He too liked me. We got in a relation. He double- dated, still I decided to stay. He dumped me. After that > I cry. I am unable to concentrate on my studies. (medical student) I drink I weed. How to get rid from this?

November 02, 2014

You can't possibly get rid of all of that, unless, you want to. Also, don't give someone so much power over you or your emotions that upon their departure, a part of you, leaves with them. Make up your mind. You want to quit? Remind yourself everyday that you do and don't give it.
Also, don't give up on love. Someday, you will find someone who treats you the way you deserve.

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My friends, they tease me a lot. They tease everybody, but then its the worst for me because I never have a comeback for any of their comments. Sometimes, their jokes go beyond the limits and I can't even express how I feel about it. I cry so much because of all this. I can't even run away from it.

November 02, 2014

They won't know how you feel unless you tell them. I'm not saying that what they're doing is right, it isn't. Its pathetic, but they don't know that it is because nobody's ever made them realize, that it can be hurtful. Yes, I know that its common sense but most of us lack it. I'm sure if you just tell them that their "jokes" are not that funny, they'll understand. If they don't, then they're not your friends. They may have troubles of their own, which is precisely why, they behave the way, that they do, to feel better about them, but that does not give them the right to ill treat others, specially those, they call friends.

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Who operates this account? Is there any way i can talk to her? Must be a girl i guess

October 28, 2014

This account is being handled by more than one memeber of the team. If you want to personally discuss something, we'd be more than glad to help you through other forums as well. Whichever forum suits you better.

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As a friend? what if she thinks that I want to be her friend because of some inappropriate reason? This is freaking disturbing. :(

October 28, 2014

Okay, lets say you approach her with a direct "I like you" attitude. Given the type of society that we live in, what according to you will be her reaction? She may think of you as someone who just wants to get it on with her, if nothing else. Don't dive into it, that is what I suggest.

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Alright so my question is that I like a girl who is from a big city and I am not. I kinda started liking her because of her attitude ( I don't really like anyone without a great reason) but the thing is she doesnt even know me. Idk what to do now except I know that I like her a lot.

October 28, 2014

Maybe you should approach her as a friend first. Get to know her because if you guys don't know one anothe personally, there's no guarantee that the attitude that she's putting across is actually the way she is. I'm sure she's a great person, get to know her better.

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I agree that earlier I have made mistakes but now, I didn't make make any mistake. And its always me who apologise even if it is his fault. Now tell me, what should I do ?

October 25, 2014

Don't degrade yourself to be with him. Apologize when its your fault but don't apologize when its not. I'm not saying that you should fight when he's at fault but don't make everything your fault. And if you apologize just because you feel that he's gonna walk away, don't. For any relationship to work, there needs to be some common ground. I suggest you both find yours.

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Hey so there's this guy I really like n I think he really likes me too whenever I start a conversation wth him on fb he really chats wth me for hrs and in school v don't talk much just usual convos but the thing is he never starts a convo wth me I don't know wat to do

October 25, 2014

Maybe he just wants to be friends. Or maybe he's just to shy to start a conversation. There are a lot of people who will speak openly when spoken to, but will hardly ever start a conversation. Either way, you wouldn't know without confrontation. But I wouldn't suggest that as of now, let things go the way they are, if things don't change and if you're close enough and comfortable enough to talk to him about this in the future, then do.

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I an good at science. I still top all the tests at coaching which are a hundred times more difficult than the school exams. What I fail at is the subjective point of view. The theory. And my parents don't care about my rank there. They bring up my result at school on daily basis and say that I'm cra

October 24, 2014

See. That's self explanatory. Do you feel that the subjects you study are the combination of your ability and interest both? If it is. Then there's no need to worry at all. It's just eleventh grade, the marks won't even count. Eleventh grade just merely exists to make you cautious about what happens in twelfth. Believe in yourself , enjoy what you study and you can definitely do better. You're wonderful. :)

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I'm really fed up now. I was against suicide. I wanted to be one of you guys. But now, I myself wanna die. I flunk two subjects. 11th science. And my parents are mentally killing me everyday. I don't think I can hold much longer.

October 24, 2014

See. At this point of time. Academic confusion does happen but how well you deal with actually decides how well your career is.
First make yourself and then your parents, understand one thing, that there is a huge difference between ability and interests. The presence of ability won't ever make you successful unless it's collaborated with your interest. Sit with your parents. And try explaining them what you feel you're good at and would want to pursue further. Good luck!

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hey um. there is this guy i've been inlove with for 6 yrs. i decided to confess before he leaves but after knowing that he recently is in a relationship with so1, i decided to not confess anymore cause i dont want him and his gf to fight about it, n i dont want to cause problems. wut should i do?

October 24, 2014

Telling the guy about your feelings might mess things up as it might be risky. The guy somewhat gets bracketed by the emotional obligation of his girlfriend and you. Maybe, this guy wasn't meant for you or maybe you deserve something even better? :)

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I had a break up with my boyfriend. And i am like very serious for him. I was with him for 29 months. And I am shattered after this. He loves me a lot but he thinks that i have broken his trust a no. Of times and he cant trust me anymore. I feel like killing myself, what should i do ? :'(

October 24, 2014

What do you thik made you break his trust? Was he insecure about you?
Ask yourself the question.
And if you realize you were wrong at some point of time go and apologise. That wouldn't make you any small.
Also, killing yourself wouldn't be one of the best options. Who knows there's a much Better start to your relationship ahead. :)

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Hey, I am 16 yrs old. I have something really serious to discuss about. May I ? :'(

October 22, 2014

Please do. We'd love to help you through whatever you're going through.

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So my boyfriend broke up with me because of his boards. And I totally get and respect his choice but it pisses the fuck out of me because he told me he'd stay. Not even a month into the relationship and he broke up with me. How do I deal with the feeling of betrayal?

October 21, 2014

From what I gather, even though it feels like he betrayed you, he didn't. Not if he really likes or liked you. You're right, he has a pretty valid point and nobody should let anything distract them during their boards. As far as dealing with it, is concerned, he just prioritized in a way that would help him in the future. He didn't betray you. I promise.

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Hi. he broke up with me like 4 mnths ago . i was sad deep down . Cried a lot. The memories kept on reminding me of him But everytime i tried to move on he did smthn which stopped me and reminded me of my past . i told him to go away so that i cud easily move on . but he dosent what shud i do now ?

October 09, 2014

You should stop letting his existence matter so much. Easier said than done, I know. But you've got to try. Or you talk it out with him. You sit him down and you ask him what he wants. And you put on a brave face while doing so.
The memories won't go away so easily and neither will he. He will probably keep coming back because he might have conflicted views. He may not want you to move on, but you have to nevertheless. Don't think of the memories as an excuse and use them as a motivator instead. Think of him as someobe who made you happy obce upon a time but don't forget that he also left. Use it to motivate yourself. Because if he really just left out of the blue, then it really is his loss.
Believe that you are trying to move on. Keep telling yourself that you have. Over and over. Psychologically proven, if you keep telling yourself something over and over, there comes a point of time when you actually start believing it. So shut your eyes and talk to yourself. Tell yourself that you don't need him. And turn it into reality. "Noone can hurt you without your consent". Don't give anyone the consent to hurt you.

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Hey. I broke up last year. Because of that I'm still sad. Believe it? And yes I have like 1000 of problems be it family be it academics and all. No good friends. I feel so lonely at times. Feels like seriously killing my own self. Help maybe?

October 02, 2014

To start with, don't kill yourself. Its a request.
As far as family is concerned, remember that your family loves you. You may not feel that they do, but they do. Many parents are overly strict because they just don't want you to get hurt, this may sound like something everyone would say but it is the truth. Your parents care, probably more than anyone you'll ever come across during the course of your life. Your life is precious. As far as your academics are concerned, I get that you probably find it extremely difficult to focus on your studies with everything else going on. Channel your energy. Find a way to let it out. You don't have good friends? well, maybe they're not good enough to be your friends if they can't be there for you during the hard times. I would suggest one thing, it is something that helps a lot of people, watch motivational videos. It may sound stupid, but sit alone for half an hour, watch a motivational video and after that, reflect over it, make a list of things you would like to improve upon and work upon them.
And smile, because it kills those who wish to see you fail.

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What's on the top of your birthday wish list?

September 30, 2014

To have the happiest birthday :)

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What according to u is the right age for getting physical sexually?

September 30, 2014

The right age is of course when you're sexually mature but most importantly when you are mentally mature to bear the consequences and the necessary precautions to avoid any mishap at that stage. :)

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I dont get it...why drugs are considered harmful? Everything has pros and cons...if they are addictive and harmful then what abt social media and many other technological advancements we spend our time with! We are addicted to them in the same way! P.s. Not an addict

September 29, 2014

Everything has its own pros and cons.
Who says excessive usage of social media and other technologies doesn't has its cons?
And as far as drugs(marijuana in this case, as it is just a stepping stone) are considered, there are some very basic cons you might want to take a note of-
Frequent marijuana use can seriously affect your short-term memory.
Frequent use can impair your cognitive ability.
Smoking anything, whether it's tobacco or marijuana, can seriously damage your lung tissue.
Not enough evidence supports marijuana as an effective pain relieving agent.
Marijuana carries a risk of abuse and addiction.
Smoked marijuana contains cancer causing compounds.
Smoked marijuana has been implicated in a high percentage of automobile crashes and workplace accidents.

Take care.

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Why are guys normally scared of commitment? Why do they start freaking out the moment we start talking about the future, and also accuse us, girls, for thinking 'too far ahead'?

September 27, 2014

Its depends on person to person, actually. It all depends on how strong willed and confident the guy you're trusting is.
As far as accusations are concerned, again, everyone has different opinions.

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He said that he does not like me

September 27, 2014

Opinions change with time. You just gotta be patient.

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Smoke and u die...dont smoke and u still die! U know wat im sayin?

September 27, 2014

You stay away from it so you die for it.
You smoke it and you die with it.

There's just a little step that needs to be taken to draw a line between necessities and addictions. The little step of realisation. That's it.

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Ok I'm a 17 year old girl. I've never been in a relationship . I've been heart broken wayy tooo many times. I feel I'll never gt someone who loves me like crazy. Makes me sad. I feel sad seeing my friends in a relationship . The guys I like are either dating or dnt like me back . Idk what to do.help

September 27, 2014

You know, there are strong possibilities that there is someone who might be in love with you at this very moment. Maybe due to all the insecurities, you might have not noticed him. Anyway, it'll be when its the right time.
Just give it some time. don't rush things.
Stay happy, socialise.
You're wonderful, you know it. :)

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Why do people smoke?

September 26, 2014

That's just another kind of self-harm and that's why we're here.
If you know someone who smokes and if you really care about them, get them to quit smoking and they'll thank you lifelong after they realize it kills them.
Please.