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The little good company you have ,starts drifting away. I couldn't understand this, if the older group of friends start drifting away, is it necessary that the new ones are bad and they were the good company? please explain

Identity a toxic friendship first. The toxic friends in your life is the bad company you get in. By accident or intentionally. If you’re trying to work out if you are in a toxic friendship, there are a few things you can look out for. Toxic friendships can often involve your friend:
1 generally having an angry attitude toward life
2 gossiping about others
3 reminding you of your past failures
4 acting in a manipulative way.
The person might not have toxic friendships with others but that doesn’t mean that their relationship with you isn’t toxic. By continuing a toxic friendship, you're allowing your friend to hurt you, but you're also hurting yourself.. Even though we want to help our friends and have them rely on us in troubling times, it’s important to take responsibility for toxic friendships and how they make you feel.

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I had a friend and we always together in the class. people started calling us gay and that broke me inside out. I lost that friendship.till now people call me gay and i really have no friends and i am lonely.my parents are my friends but there are limitations to what I can discuss with them. #IAmSad

Listen, it's high time that people need to realize that 'gay' is not an insult. Being gay is nothing wrong and the only way for people to stop using this term in a derogatory manner is if the victims of this stop feeling bad about being called gay.
You might or might not be gay, just try and understand that gay is not an insult.
Look out for a few close friends, I'm sure someone cares. As to the 'limitations' you talk about in terms of what or what you can't discuss with parents, what exactly do you refer to? Are you in doubt about your sexual preferences? If you are then its perfectly fine. Embrace who you are and don't be ashamed to show it.
#StopBeingSadAndBeAwesomeInstead
P.s. if you want to talk to someone, feel free to contact us.
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what do ? i am absolutely disgusted by indian women and only indian women want to go out with me. i am getting depressed because of this.

Are you an Indian?
Look, your personal preference in women will not affect the fact that they might start liking you.
I don't really understand how you might have a hatred towards ALL Indian women, but I'm not going to doubt you at the moment.
What I would suggest that you do is to reject them but do it in a nice and kind way.
You'll get the girl you want, just maybe not right now.
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I think i'm going crazy.. i cant take the pain anymore. i just feel like dying all over again.. i jist want to live a normal life where i get to be happy. but i cant. i got through it b4 but this time the pain is stronger. i need someone to be there for me like i've always been there for every1.

You say that you've always been there for everyone right? Well then, someone is there for you the same way. Someone is always there for you, even if you might not see it at first.
Try and identify that person and talk to them, just find the person you trust.
Also, distract yourself from the pain. Let it out, be it in the form of music, art, writing, talking, screaming, watching something. Anything that makes you feel happy.
Take care. :)
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follow but I can't stay in here anymore in this house where everything is godforsaken and I am a liability.

Hey there,
Would you mind contacting us on a more personal basis?
If not, let me try and help you to the best of my ability.
You say that nothing worked for you, okay. What I would say would be that you should try and identify one person who you feel is actually going to be there for you, no matter what happens. You might feel that this person doesn't exist, but trust me, they're there.
Also, get away for a while. If you feel socializing doesn't help at all then don't socialize. But if it helps even a little bit, then don't stop.
About your house, leave to get fresh air when you can. What I mean by this is, whenever you're free just go out for a bit, clear your head up.
P.S. If you ever want someone or need someone to talk to, feel free to contact me on a more personal basis and I promise you that I'll be there for you even if no one else is.
Please mail me if you want to talk at beweirdbutyou@gmail.com

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how would you feel if a guy you just had a crush on burps aloud in front of everyone and laughs about it

If a guy I like does that stupid thing, it's definitely time for me to realise that he's not the right one. Infatuations fade away, he was not the love of my life. And the most important thing in a guy is his behaviour towards girls and if he behaves in the way you mentioned above, my feelings will automatically fade away. Our self respect is much more important than those guys who tend to influence our life with these stupid things. Be with someone who makes you comfortable and motivates you instead of making fun of your emotions. Let the negativity fly away, far away from your life.
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What if his reason is that long distance is tough. Which is true. It is tough.

If any relationship wants to survive, it'll have to go through some obstacles and difficulties. In your case, it being distance. Distance is a problem not an excuse for not committing to a relationship.
I understand that long distance is tough, but still, so many people are in long distance relationships. If he cares for you the same way that you care for him then it will work out, trust me. Don't let distance get in the way.
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Hi so I'm on love with a guy who lives in a different city. There is no commitment but what we have is as good good as dating except for having the tag of it. But I'm scared of losing him. Scared he will date someone someday. Very scared. I feel if i talk to him about it, I'll lose him. What do I do

Hey there, look, if what you say is true about it being as good as dating but just without the tag, then I feel that the first thing you guys should do is go ahead and put the tag on your relationship.
This will not only bring in the commitment aspect but will also let you know how much he values and respects your relationship.
If he doesn't agree to start "dating" you, then don't let it be unless he gives you a very very valid reason. If he can't, then you should realise at that point itself that he's not the one.
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do you guys cater to poor people?

We are here to help you by giving you advice, to listen to your problems and try to understand you to our best extent. Being rich or poor has no correlation with any of the above. Everyone has problems and we will try to help all of you out, no matter what your social/economic status is.
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Guys why aren't you on all night when we need you the most??

Guys, you have to realise that all of us do have our own lives to manage and cannot be awake all night to answer questions. What we can do however, is to answer questions as often as possible. We really do try very hard.
If any one of you feels that they would want urgent help at night, do let us know and we can give you a means to communicate with us on a more personal basis rather than ask where we would be available at more times of the day.
You can also always send us a message on kik at : wonderful_youare
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Hi guys. I really need help. When there's no one at home I end up watching sex videos (not porn) and then feel guilty about it. Some kind of fear comes up in me. I really feel bad that my parents trust me so much and I do this. I want to stop this totally. Thanks

I won't say the act of watching 'sex videos' is bad. But if you, yourself feel the need to stop watching it, I suggest you divert your mind from it.
If your parents are not around, try keeping the laptop away. Pick up a book and read. Draw maybe. Listen to songs. Sing songs. Do everything and anything to try and divert your mind.
Interact with more people and keep yourself busy.
You'll be fine!
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Its not happened once but a million times and i feel like in only made for thi gvng suggestions is easy but u dnt knw how i feel abt ny slf wat ppl say to me ive ber the pain of being good to oders i feel alone and lonely and hurted

Don't take whatever other people say to your heart.
Their opinion doesn't matter.
You should be happy with yourself.
Ignore the people that say rude things and focus on bringing yourself at peace.
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Hii...im a girl whose broken often im in need of love which i never got i mean who so ever came in my life always had a need of sex mostly or maybe had a bet on me i mean no boy ever loved me he loved my body not only boyfrds also my family my teachers or maybe mt brrothers im mean im fucked up coz

Hi. Okay, so I completely understand your situation and I know what you're going through must be really hard.
What you need to understand is, that before everyone else you need think about yourself. You need to work towards making yourself happy.
If boys don't give you the attention, you need to have to confidence to say to yourself "I don't need attention, I'm wonderful."
Now I could tell you loads of ways to score boys, but that's not what I want you to do.
You need to become comfortable with yourself. You need to learn to love yourself first.
Bring out your confidence. Always keep a smile on and be happy with everything you do.
No matter what happens, don't let others bring you down.
If boys want you only for sex, don't give into them.
Those are not the sort of boys you want to be associated with.
You're you, don't ever change yourself for anyone. You're wonderful and once you realise that, everyone around you will love you all the same.
Take care. x

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http://ask.fm/YoureWonderfulProject/answer/117291770482 last thing - how should i talk to the guy I loved now? Normal like before? Also, i can't tell him that I know about his relationship because his brother told me not tell anyone about this nor reveal his name. #Confused

Talk to him normally right now. It would be better if you try to make that guy speak the truth. Don't break his brother's trust. Also, as I told before , you'll get so many better guys in life. So, be friends with that guy. It's okay. Don't get confused. :)
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I know I shouldn't spoil their life but I can't get over him. I used to like him for over a year and whenever i asked him whether he is in a relationship or not he used to say no. Why was he hiding all this from me?

It will take months or years for you to move on but you will move on. You'll feel lonely but you have to deal with it. Your life can't be perfect after all, nobody's life is. And see, the guy is not telling you the truth now when he is still friends with you. How can you even imagine a guy like him being the love of your life? You'll definitely have trust issues with him. So, be a little practical in life. At times, don't listen to what your heart says instead follow what is logically right. If you feel hopeless or you have mood swings, you can contact us. I hope this will help you. And I wanted to add, spend time with your close friends.
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Yeah, and he has a younger brother too.. I and my friends strongly felt that he used to like me. You know a love triangle kind of! So one day i was talking to his younger brother and he told me that the guy I love and our mutual friend are in a relationship.. I was shattered. I don't know what to do

You and your friends weren't sure. You just made assumptions, it happens. It's okay. But if they both are in a relationship, you should move on with life. We have no right to spoil someone's life. You'll have the opportunity to meet so many better guys in life. He might not be the right one for you. And as you said, you think his brother is lying then ask the guy you like. It will help you.
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I was in love with a guy and I was 90% sure that he loves me too.. We used to talk everyday, flirt with each other and I used to share every problem of mine with him. There was a mutual friend of ours and I doubted that there was something between both of them (the guy I like and our mutual friend)

You were 90% sure and not 100%. If you have a doubt then please get it cleared. What if that guy has no feelings for you? The first thing you'll do today is ask that guy if he had feelings for that mutual friend. I think you guys are close, so, he will tell you. Once you are sure , your problems are solved. So, life is simple. Don't complicate it.
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Hello there mate! Its really great to see you guys helping the people out of depression and stuff. You're doing a great job indeed. I was wondering if I could too be a part of this project as i've been there and i sorta know how most of them feel. I'm happy to help. Cheers.

Hello. Thank you very much.
We request you to send in a small paragraph stating why you feel we should appoint you in our project. Talk about your strengths and your qualities.
Add any relevant or non-relevant information you feel like adding. :)
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There is one problem with me. I can't sleep. I have tried everything but I just can't. I am usually thinking stuff and all and about some people. can it be the reason? I mean this no sleep thing makes me angry and I don't wanna be like that. Help me

Hey, calm down. Its fine.
The reason you can't sleep is that you have a lot of confused thoughts running throughout your mind. What you need to do is channelize your thoughts. Keep control over them, do not let them control you.
You could try meditation for this. Google some 'pranayams' that calm the mind and increase focus.
You could try 'anulom vilom' and 'concentration pranayam'. It would surely help.
If not these, before sleeping, sit and close your eyes. Now open that box of your never ending thoughts. Try segregating them into different categories (i.e. future, present and past), think about all the past things, now about the future, lastly about the present. Then trying to stay in the present, open your eyes. Take a walk and come sleep.
I hope this helps. :)
(You could keep the other thoughts for the next day)
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One more thing, try not sleeping in the day and keep your mind and body engaged throughout the day. So that you will be tired at the end of the day and it'll help in getting a better sleep. :)

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hey man. so I am depressed and the thing is I can't share anything with my parents or sisters or cousins or anyone ( I don't share with my buddies since they all are fake). My parents think I hide something but the thing is that depression is killing me. I don't eat much neither sleep much.

We need to share things with people, I agree. But it's not necessary that you'll always have people by your side at every phase of life. You can afford to be independent, can't you? And also try to share your problems with your siblings, they won't eat you. How can you not sleep and eat? These two things are the most important aspect of life. Stop caring about anything else in life. Take care of yourself, be a little self centered. You don't owe anything to this world, so live your life instead of wasting it. Stop stressing because life is a blessing.
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