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I knew that u wouldn't reply to that Indian society question because u agree to the people ! those people who call us africans ! I am not weetish infact i am super white but my best friend is ! She feels really bad when people call us an oreo ! or zebra ! I don't like it ! i want her to see it .

We didn't answer it because it wasn't a proper question. We want you to change that to a question. we'll definitely answer.

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my friend has suffered a lot in his childhood right now he is 17 & since he suffered as a kid it has affected him badly his parents don't do good with each other & they kinda showed their anger upon him & his sis due to all this he is not even able to sleep at night and is depressed how can i help ?

You can help him very easily, show him how beautiful life can be! He deserves peace after facing so many problems in his childhood. Take him to new places, hangout together. and why just him? Help her sister too. Never make them feel that they are alone. These two kids (your friend and his sister) couldn't get affection in their childhood days. They need love and affection. Make them feel special!

I am so ugly fat and people judge me because of that :/

And our judgement about those people is that they're assholes.
You're beautiful in your own way.
There's no ugly or not ugly. Everyone was given a face and body at random which we should be proud of.
The one who made us, didn't discriminate. It was not his/its idea to make some people ugly and some beautiful. He/it made everyone with the same love and affection.
It's people who have made this idea.
If you think you're ugly, then you're believe it and it would hurt more when people say that to you.
You have to accept yourself that you're the same as anyone else in the world.
Whereas, you could work out and try to decrease the fat if it bothers you, there's nothing wrong with that as well though.
Smile always because you're wonderful :)

This guy has feeling for me and he also told me but I don't like him in that way th way he feels for me because I like Someone else so what should I do ?

At times, you have to think about yourself. That guy might like you but then you have your own choice. You would hurt him by rejecting him but that's good for him because you don't like him. Make him move on and make him understand that he'll find so many girls in life. Life doesn't revolve around only one girl, tell him this.

If one starts to find--there are a million reasons to die. But only ONE reason, is enough for a person to live. These people coming to you, need to desperately find that ONE reason that makes them want to wake up everyday. That is what I wish for them--to find The Reason.

Yes, we agree with you.
But what we're trying to do is not give them the reason in their hands.
We can't find the reason for someone else. We try to show them the direction in which they would find their reason. I hope you get what I mean. :)

You didnt replied on fb? :/ this is what am talking about no one wants me thats why i feel that i should commit sucide.

We replied to everyone now. Sorry if there was some delay in the reply. Check your facebook now :)
And don't think like that. We want you, we need you. You're wonderful and you shouldn't even think of ending this beautiful life by committing suicide.

see this girl, is my ex bestfriend and she really likes this guy too. i think subconsciously I want him to like me so she's miserable. what I'm worried about is if he likes me and she's sad, I'll get over him. but he's such a sweet and a nice guy. i really like him. but I'm unsure about it. geddit.

Look, why do you want to complicate things? If your ex best friend already likes him, leave him. He's not the only guy you'll ever have in life. You will meet so many amazing people in life. You can let go of this guy because at times, if you bring happiness to people's life, god will automatically reward you. Your ex best friend will be happier if you don't make any move towards this guy. I hope you understand this.

so i used to chat with a guy who was my friend's friend. well we became closer through chatting and i used to open up to him since we could relate to each other. but at some point he stopped talking to me, saying that he cant talk with girls. is there a problem to fix this?

The question I answered before this question is almost the same. My answer remains the same. There will be so many people you'll meet in life. If some silly people don't realise your importance, leave them. Read the answer to previous question. :)

i used to talk to this guy in my class. we talked a lot but then the summer holidays started and we stopped communicating for 2 months. todayday was the first day of school, all he did was stare at me seriously. i thought that he would approach me but the stare somehow felt hostile.

Why don't you approach him? If you don't like spoiling friendship with people then approach him. Observe if he's interested in talking to you and then make your next move. If he still wants to be your friend, the problem is solved and if he's doesn't want to be your friend, the solution is even more better - let people who don't know your importance go out of your life. Negativity will ruin your life.

why do people judge? i dont get it. Do they not see the effect they did to the person? why is it they dont understand. They call 'depression', drama, as though it is some big joke. and when the victim commits suicide, people pretend that what happened to the victim wasn't the people's fault

People are totally insensitive these days. They don't realise how few words coming out of their mouth can destroy someone's inner peace. This is what we are here for, we wish to help people who have been treated the same. Nobody in this world has the right to judge you and you have to realise your self worth. Don't get affected if people are being judgemental. That's their problem and not yours. :)

okay so i probably got a question from you before though you were asking as an anon. i used to be really sociable but then somehow along the way everything changed i sunk into depression and when i saved my self from sinking, i never opened up about myself to anyone. will you help me overcome this?

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We didn't send you any question. We don't send questions. :)
And yeah, you can overcome this problem very easily. Stop being an introvert , if you can't open up very easily, DON'T but try to talk to people who you think can be true friends. And make this very clear that nobody is permanent, nobody is going to walk along with you. These faces you see around yourself today will definitely change someday. This is what life is! Be practical. If you want to talk to us personally about this then let us know.

Do you really help people without discussing people's problems with others? I dont want to live anymore i just feel to commit sucide but dont have guts to do and am dipressed. Would you help me?

We assure people confidentiality. What you talk to us, won't go out to us. Not even to our members, so that you can open up to us completely.
Why would you want to waste such a beautiful life by doing a cowardly thing as suicide.
Think of life as any game.
There are times when you're winning, there are times when you're losing. There are times when you're happy and times when you're sad. Happy and sad are two complimentary feelings.
Why do you get such tendencies?
I would suggest, if you really feel low all the time, try not to think about things that make you sad. Indulge into some activities of your interest. Take responsibility of something and try making others happy. The magnitude of our smiles doubles when others smile with us.
If you have any more details to share, feel free.
You can also message us on Facebook or Kik for personal assistance. :)
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Hey. You people are doing a really great job :') okay so. i like a guy, he's my like bestfriend. I like him, i mean love him though we've met many times but he acts as if i am the only person left to be his friend. I'm not getting that does he love me or not. Please tell me how to deal with it? :'|

Hey. Thank you. :)
http://ask.fm/YoureWonderfulProject/answer/116756325234
You could take a bit of help from this answer.
I would suggest. Go to him and have a confession session. Ask him directly if he loves you or not. Say things that would make him believe that you truly love him.
In such situations, it is best to go directly and talk. I'm sure he loves you back. All the best.
You're wonderful. :)

first of all u guys doing a great job... guys see I've a problem and I'm not able to get through it! yarr mere 1st term meh bhot sexy marks aaye... I almost topped in every subject ..also i wanna tell u that I'm in 12 grade and a science student living in faridabad... also I've got few friends who

Hi. Thank you very much. :D
Okay so we understand you, that's the case with a lot of students. What you need to do is first of all see that are those friends into something you don't want to get in. I hope not and it doesn't even look that way.
So I'm guessing what your problem is that you aren't able to manage your time between studies and friends.
So I would suggest, don't leave your friends, they are necessary. BUT studies are more important at the moment, so don't exclude it either.
And ab to 12th hai, a few months more, uske baad aaram se nibhana friendship :D
Congrats for your sexy marks haha but maintain that or try to improve second term me :)
All the best. Science is very interesting waise bhi.
Don't leave friends but try to explain to them that studies are as much important too as they are. If they are true friends, they'll surely understand. Cheers. :D

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nope I saw her in a pic my friend clicked. Never talked to her at all.Uhmm what I like about her is her smile. I tried to talk to her but since I just know that she is my friend's friend she wouldn't talk. I tried to stop seeing her pics but couldn't. Idk what I should do

Okay look there's less scope but doesn't mean you should give up :3
Talk to your friend. Do something or plan something such that you could be able to meet her face to face or online someway referring to something.
Like whatever she is doing or she has knowledge in something. Ask you friend to talk to her that you need to talk to her about that specific topic. That would be the only chance you would get.
Then, don't message hey/hi etc., girls tend to ignore it. If that plan doesn't work, think of something, anything related to her and drop in a message appreciating something about her or seeking information about something.
See if that works.
I hope you get to talk to her soon.
Don't lose hope.
But if she isn't interested at all, don't be a stalker and creep her out even more, what if you're not destined to meet right now, maybe its planned for later ;)

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Alright so here comes my problem. I really like someone, And i haven't felt like that before tbh . But the problem is i don't even know that person. Not personally nor anything plus she doesn't even lives in my town. idk what i should do. I mean I can't even ask her out. So what should I do now? I

Alright. This is new but I've had a similar experience. I would need to know more about this. Have you guys talked, like ever?
How did it start and what do you like about her?
If its love, it doesn't matter how far apart you people are. Just a bit of stinging.
So if you haven't talked to her yet. Approach her, I'm guessing you know her from some social networking site?
Drop in a message for her but don't tell her yet how you feel. And send in something smart or which may make her smile.
For a more detailed talk, you can contact us on Kik or Facebook.
Kik - wonderful_youare
Ask for 'Aramis'.

I've got insecurities related to my Complexion. I am very conscious about how I'm presenting myself and stuff. Colour of my skin matters in many expanses, people portray different views just by looking. How to avoid this?

Complexion is something you can't change. Can you change the way you look? You just can't. Somebody is blessed with good looks whereas somebody is blessed with a sharp mind. Don't be conscious about the way you look, enhance your interacting skills, the way you carry yourself. That's much more important than your complexion. If your thought process is good and you know how to conduct yourself, people would love to have you as their company. Moreover, how will others opinion affect you? Let others think what want to think. You've to portray a wonderful picture of yourself. People won't realise and offend you because they hardly care about you, and YOU should not care. You were not born to please such people. :)

I am not exactly depressed.I am afraid,afraid to lose myself in the dark........' I had sent this question.Thanks for your response.But then again,you just put up a good bunch of words which you think are enough to help me.They aren't.How Cana publics site help my personal problems?

All we can do is boost your spirit, motivate you a little, give you a little strength to deal with things. Have you ever heard , god help those who help themselves? It is YOU and only YOU who can improve your life. And those good bunch of words, if read with determination to improve your quality of life will actually help you. I don't say that they are enough to help you but once you share your problems here, we can at least try to help you. A person who thinks that his life will never improve , will never be able to actually improve his life. Positivity should come from within. If someone is trying to counsel you and help you, you must try to help yourself too. This initiative has been started for people like you. We want you to live a quality life and that's what we are here for. Who doesn't have hurdles In life? You have to overcome them. There are so many people who are unprivileged, not even having money to eat a sufficient meal. Think about those unblessed children who don't know what Internet is! People who are so poor that they can't afford education. Should they stop living their lives and end it? No, they have the courage to deal with life. I hope you'll also be strong now. Not everyone is blessed in life. You'll build new friendships, nobody is permanent. Please understand this. These small hurdles should not change the direction of your life. Everything is not planned the way you think. And some unplanned things that happen suddenly are good for you. You won't realise it today but years after, recall my words. This is the truth.

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