My family would rather me transition to a female than change my name. That's so important to them. But yeah. Changing my name would be the most devastating thing to my family. We even openly talk positively about being trans and gay. Very accepted, just not a name change for some reason.
Interesting. Is your name definitively male, or is it unisex? That sucks though! I can see why it means a lot to them, I mean they named you.
I'm not a submissive person. But with that being said, I believe the key to a healthy relationship between a man and a woman is for both parties to take the back seat at certain times.
What would your alternative to a sex change be? In reference to your earlier answer.
I think finding an alternative therapy for trans people to be okay with their birth sex shouldn't be thrown off the table. I don't think transition is right for every trans person, but it's currently the only option to deal with dysphoria.
Blaire, does your being trans affect what happens when you use changing rooms, like for sport or swimming? Are the other women happy with you being there? (I very much hope so darling.)
I don't play sports and I don't swim, I don't want to get my hair wet lol So I'm never in changing rooms but bathrooms are no problem. Never have been
I'm a straight man
I'm not bi sexual
and not pan because that's made up
but I do like traps
so am I straight
not an sjw
but liking trans does seem to be a small discrepency
Blaire, would you have transitioned if you looked not-so-passable? You said transition wasn't for all trans people, so I was curious.
Well I didn't think I was passable before my transition/at the beginning of it. When I said that, I meant that transition can be a rigorous process that some people just aren't cut out for emotionally. It also isn't the right decision for some people - some start and realize it's not for them.
yeah sure! it might be a bit shitty tho bc i literally wrote it at 12 am the day it was due LOL but just let me know how you want me to send it to you :)