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What is your opinion on BDSM ? (Bondage, discipline, sadism, masochism, women being used as sex slaves 24/7, etc.)

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My opinion is that if two or more consenting adults are participating in this lifestyle far be it from me to judge their choice. There are no rules of the heart & soul of individuals, we, as individuals have specific needs that we need to be filled. And how we go about getting those needs met are what society puts rules on. Meaning a man can not go out an just rape a woman because he has a need of controlling a woman. However if the same man finds a woman that willingly goes along with this arrangement and it turns into a healthy non abusive relationship, that’s wonderful.
I personally do not have any issue with the entire scene, why? Because I tend to have some needs that “fit” under this lifestyle. We all have needs that must be met.
At times, I can be sadistic, whether emotionally or physically to another willing individual, ok not always willing, that’s when I get really “high” when inflicting emotional pain, not physical. Other times I want to be “punished” out of some need to relieve guilt of something that I have done or the self loathing part of me kicks in and I need that “taken care of.”
As far as women being kept as sex slaves as in the Ohio case, that has crossed the line I mentioned above. It is WRONG on every level of society & in my opinion the BDSM culture.

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Yes, I do. I love it. It's kind of a hobby. I love to sit at the food court in the mall, watching people interact with each other. Love watching men - watching women walk by. When I'm talking to someone I always watch their body language. I try to remember certain things, however it also depends on who I am talking to. I watch the face, mostly the eyes and when the person looks off, I try to make a mental note of what direction. Their tone is pretty easy to catch, if they are upset, happy or down.
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I also answered this on my blog (http://www.sassycat3000.net/do-you-tend-to-analyze-people-a-lot) & included a link to your page. thanks for the question :)

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