My opinion is that if two or more consenting adults are participating in this lifestyle far be it from me to judge their choice. There are no rules of the heart & soul of individuals, we, as individuals have specific needs that we need to be filled. And how we go about getting those needs met are what society puts rules on. Meaning a man can not go out an just rape a woman because he has a need of controlling a woman. However if the same man finds a woman that willingly goes along with this arrangement and it turns into a healthy non abusive relationship, that’s wonderful.I personally do not have any issue with the entire scene, why? Because I tend to have some needs that “fit” under this lifestyle. We all have needs that must be met. At times, I can be sadistic, whether emotionally or physically to another willing individual, ok not always willing, that’s when I get really “high” when inflicting emotional pain, not physical. Other times I want to be “punished” out of some need to relieve guilt of something that I have done or the self loathing part of me kicks in and I need that “taken care of.” As far as women being kept as sex slaves as in the Ohio case, that has crossed the line I mentioned above. It is WRONG on every level of society & in my opinion the BDSM culture.
that i'm still alive after all the stuff i've done, been through, survived.
How often do you change your hairstyle?
Not to often.... when i was younger i used to change it all the time, like every other month
Do you tend to analyze people a lot ? Their body language, gestures, tone of their voice, facial expressions, etc. Why / why not ? If yes, then in what ways does it benefit you ?
Yes, I do. I love it. It's kind of a hobby. I love to sit at the food court in the mall, watching people interact with each other. Love watching men - watching women walk by. When I'm talking to someone I always watch their body language. I try to remember certain things, however it also depends on who I am talking to. I watch the face, mostly the eyes and when the person looks off, I try to make a mental note of what direction. Their tone is pretty easy to catch, if they are upset, happy or down. I do this because I tend not to trust people from the very beginning of meeting them. I also look for a "motive" to their interest in me, their approach, etc. It's not a good thing to be this way. It benefits me, by assisting me in better understanding human behavior, human nature. I hope. I think. Like I said it's more of a hobby. I do pick apart what people say too. That goes back to not trusting people. I also answered this on my blog (http://www.sassycat3000.net/do-you-tend-to-analyze-people-a-lot) & included a link to your page. thanks for the question :)
both...i can answer some questions, others are difficult. Sometimes I have a difficult time thinking up a question or two...most of the time I'm distracted from answering the questions.
What was your reaction to the Boston Marathon bombing? Do you think it was a staged event, & the suspect was framed in order for the US government to impose laws onto their citizens? Or do you believe the bombing was a genuine attack & the suspect is guilty?
Movies...my A.D.D. kicks in and I can't sit long enough to read a book from cover to cover
If you could change one law of your country, what would it be?
I answered this in a blog post at http://www.sassycat3000.net/answering-some-more-questions/ OR "The death penalty would be enforced across the United States. There would be no appeals, no sitting on death row for 20 years. If you’re found guilty you die on a set date, after you have made the proper arrangements for you remains, said goodbye to family, etc. The End."
What questions here have you skipped over because they are too hard for you to handle?
I answered this in a blog post at http://www.sassycat3000.net/answering-some-more-questions/ OR "The ones that ask about the future, like where do I think I’ll be in 5 years or some of the ones that have to do with politics, sports or things that don’t interest me."
If you could listen to only one song for the rest of your life, what would it be?
What's the worst thing someone can do on a first date?
Taking me to a comedy club, not paying for any thing that I order and then trying to kiss me goodnight OR bringing carry out to my house, and taking off their shoes & socks before they eat their food! *gag*Yes, both of these incidents happened to me. I do NOT remember either of the guy's names nor what they look like, just that I was glad it was over. I do remember the first guy wouldn't take NO for an answer, he was a total creeper, called me at my job after I made the mistake of telling him where I worked when he first approached me in the club. I remember having a plan in place & I drove myself to the comedy club. The other guy was some one from a church I attended back in the 80's. I talked to the preacher about him being soooo forward & how I felt uneasy & after that I didn't see him again.
I just recently went to go see Les Miserables in theatre and fell in LOVE with it. So my question is: Do you like musicals? What is your favorite musical?