Looks do matter! And if anyone is saying otherwise they're probably not being completely honest about it, although they aren't the only fundamental aspect in a person to look at.. What if you liked his looks but he had such bad character? So i think both complete each other.. Someone's personality & looks of course.
Its a bond that connects people who just click together inspite of what's their genders and its based on love and trust, its more valuable than love kind of relationships tbh