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-Erings. I used to go out everyday when i was trying to court someone, now i dont have any one im dating so i dont get motivated to go out. But if i dont go out i wont meet that person who will make me look forward to seeing them.. It's a vicious cycle. I get depressed and think im goin to die alone

Try to open up your doors and try new things. Maybe hang out with different set of friends or do something adventurous with the old ones. Take trips, try new restos. Go to picnics or a beach trip. Nothing interesting will come your way if you'll always be hiding in your shell.
I remember I was like you not too long ago. Groaning at the fact that come saturday night, I'll be stuck inside my room watching my favorite series (that I already watched before) and order fast food. But then, one night I read this article and its basically about trying new things and getting out of my comfort zone.
So I did.
And at first it was exhausting. I didn't like the change. I thought:
"Why do I have to go out and spend money socialising with strangers that were drinking and laughing like idiots. I could be home watching HIMYM right now"
But then, if it weren't for those social gatherings, I wouldn't have those funny/unforgettable/awkward stories to tell. I met a lot of people that eventually became my friends. And yeah, sometimes I do need my alone time, but take it from me
you'll get tired of being alone too.

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Thank you for saying that. I really enjoy my me time, just playing videogames and watching series at home. But i always feel guilty like somethings wrong w/ me that i dont hang out with my friends more. Dont get me wrong, i like hanging out with them, i just feel too tired after prolonged socialgath

I totally get what you mean because sometimes I can be the same way. Its true. Engaging in (awkward) small talks can be exhausting! I don't know how people do it sometimes. But its a "social obligation" and I guess going out once in awhile can really change your perspective. :)

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Youre beautiful swerte bf mo

haha naks! swerte ng future bf ko hahah
you're sweet! swerte bf/gf mo! haha

Are you a shut-in?

I can be at times. Although I did promise myself to go out more so I do party sometimes.

Is it wrong for me to prefer just staying home and watching tv series' instead of going out and partying everynight?

nope. Everyone is entitled to do whatever they please during their free time. if that's what you find relaxing, then thats your thing.

What are the changes you made in your personality?

I became more open in trying new things. I'm more spontaneous now :D

I hope we can be friends when i see you at school youre always busy when i saw you sometimes haha

sure we can haha
i am so not busy! i just want to appear busy cause im alooonee haha

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