Ustadh if I want to 1) attend conferences and lectures locally to learn the deen and my parents say no, what should I do? 2)Travel abroad and because serious in seeking ilm and Persue it as a full time thing but parents say no, do I have to obey them?
Always obey your parents.
Use kindness and wisdom to agree on middle ground. Once you agree on the importance of learning about Islam, see which mosques - scholars - subjects are they comfortable with you learning from, and do that. The better your relationship is with them, the more room for negotiation you will have.
Use kindness and wisdom to agree on middle ground. Once you agree on the importance of learning about Islam, see which mosques - scholars - subjects are they comfortable with you learning from, and do that. The better your relationship is with them, the more room for negotiation you will have.