Ustadh my family are doing a birthday party tomorrow for my lil bro and sis, can I join in with the eating of the food? I know you're v busy so you can just reply with a 'yes' or 'no' jazakallah khayr
Absolutely yes
في حل ليا؟أنا مبهتمش بأخبار المسلمين ولما بشوف خبر تبكي له العين مبيتحركش جوايا شعرة،أنا دخلت أنا وفض رابعة كان شغال ومش بدعي لهم أنا مبكلفش نفسي أعرف أخبار سوريا وبورما والمسلمين ولا بتفاعل معاهم أنا مشاعري في العموم بطيخ حتى مع صحابي وأهلي بحس إني بلاستيك من جوا أنا بكره نفسي جدا
ربك بيوصفلك الداء والدواء في الاية، بيقول ثم قست قلوبكم فهي كالحجارة أو أشد قسوة. فهناك حجارة تتفجر منها الانهار بالمطارق العظيمة من البذل والتضحية بعظائم الأمور، كالحج والجهاد، وهناك حجارة تتشقق بالمطارق الصغيرة الكثيرة فيخرج منها الماء منسابا، ككثرة الصالحات، وهناك حجارة لا يقصمها إلا سقوط حر فتهبط من خشية الله، كالقدر، وما الله بغافل عما تعملون.
Asalaam ou3alaikum, barakAllahu feek for your time and efforts. Allah yib3adak min alshar wal-haram, as yuqaribuka ilal-tayib wa ila ma a7abba Allah.
What is the ruling on posting a picture online of somebody who has passed away? Keeping the picture in a wallet or so?
JazakAllahu kheir
Alaikum Assalam, 1. Permissible. 2. I wouldn't like it for someone other than family, and would particularly not like it for a public figure, residually a righteous one. 3. If it's for the purpose of remembering them with duaa then I understand. But when it comes to emotional attachment, as hard as it is for me to say, one needs to eventually move on.
Several, search for these: First: "God has not revealed a disease except that..." Second: "The Cure for my nation is in three things..." Third "In black seeds lies a cure..."
You suggested doing Quran memorization, tafseer & Fiqh for those with gap years. I expect to have one next year, I have been very interested in this actually (Hanafi madhab here) but:
1. I don't speak Arabic.
2. I am a woman.
How do I start, where do I begin? Who do I take as my scholar as a woman?
Learn Arabic. Checkout bayyinah access program.
انا كنت بعتت لحضرتك سؤال بالرمز ده HHHH
مشفتش ابعت تاني
أصحيح أن الحنابلة أخذوا التلفظ بالنية للصلاة من الشافعية وأن متقدمي الحنابلة لم يأثر عنهم التلفظ بها ولا الإمام أحمد؟
Help me sheikh!
Is it really permissible to marry a girl before she hits puberty? Without her permission?!
I thought apostasy and stoning were the worst it could get,but this shubha is just waaaay above my limit...
No, not without her permission. The prophet peace be upon him said: "The previously-married woman may not be married against her request, and the virgin may not be married without her permission."Also this, https://www.facebook.com/jarrar.majed/posts/10153816541808737
السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته، حضرتك تظن ما السبب أن المسلمين لم يستطيعوا جمع العدد الكافي من التوقيعات ليتمكنوا من عرض موضوع تجريم الاسلاموفوبيا في البرلمان الكندي؟ لقد تخيلت أن هذا الموضوع من المفترض أن يكون من الاهميه بمكان. جزاك الله خيرا
1) Let's do this self-disciplinary exercise together. Say the following words out loud: I will never think of the colour green. Never. Ever. Now tell me how well did that exercise go? You know what happened? You guaranteed yourself to think about the colour green. You know what also happened? you forgot to think about masturbation - for that second. As long as you are fighting yourself about *not* doing something, you are bound to fail. You are masturbating because you have plenty of time and mental capacity on your hands, and literally nothing better to do. Busy yourself with goals, projects, physical and mental activities. Walk 10,000 steps a day in a park, swim, run, cycle, do some high intensity interval training, read books, memorize Quran, teach, visit hospitals, volunteers in the food bank, walk kids to schools, there's a thousand thing you can put your energy into. *** 2) You have sexual needs = you should plan to get married. The plan starts with: becoming a responsible person with marriageable qualities. That point precedes searching for a partner on dating sites. Can't get married? work on removing obstacles to marriage. Fasting can help as a physical suppressor, as the prophet indicated. It helps along with point 1.
Specifically, the context is about the Jews who wanted to crucify Prophet Jesus - peace be upon him-. Generally speaking, all the time. Every time someone plots evil. God's plots to make that evil turn back against them.
If gambling involves no money (e.g. in a video game or as a joke between friends), and does not lead to a sin, nor distracts from worship such as prayer on time and remembrance of God = then it is discouraged, because you are wasting your time - your most valuable asset - in something useless. If it involves any of the above then it is a major sin. God said: "O you who have believed: indeed, intoxicants, gambling, stone alters, and divining arrows are but defilement from the work of Satan, so avoid them that you may be successful. Satan only wants to cause between you animosity and hatred through intoxicants and gambling and to avert you from the remembrance of God and from prayer. So will you not desist? And obey God and obey the Messenger and beware. And if you turn away - then know that upon Our Messenger is only [the responsibility for] clear notification." 5:90-92
Should a man marry a woman knowing that he is not attracted to her? Is there hope for the marriage?
Yes, absolutely. Omar - may God be pleased with Him - said: "Are all marriages built on love?! what will happen to compassion and selflessness, then?!"
UOMSA: From the sisters perspective, I feel like I am being judged when I speak to a guy. This makes me refrain from it even more. Can you comment on this?