Majed Jarrar

Should you have Iftar with family instead of friends if you have the chance? Even if you don't like or have respect for your family?

June 07, 2016

Iftar or not, you should like and respect your family. They made who you are. The Prophet told us that ungrateful to parents is ungratefulness to God.

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I don't think I can give my parents and family their rights. Instead of hurting them, can I leave the home and move into a foster home?

June 07, 2016

Do you have a disability? If so, can you get them a maid or any form of home service?

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هل بخاخ الفم يفطر لمن عنده ربو؟

June 07, 2016

قال شيخنا @Mohamadabdelwahed
نعم
فإن كان مرضك لا يرجى زواله ولا بد [من] استعمالها كل يوم؛ فأفطر وأطعم مسكينا عن كل يوم

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How is it a major indicator? The person you marry is your soulmate, best friend, and closer to your age. They might be Muslims and not disbelievers like your own family.

June 07, 2016

Listen to me brother, not many people will give you this advice in your life. So listen carefully:

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The success of marriage relies on two pillars: sacrifice and appreciation.

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No one has sacrificed more in their lives for your sake than your parents. As a matter of fact, if you spend the rest of your life carrying both of your parents on your back, you wouldn't pay back a dime of the sacrifices they made in the first five years of your life alone.

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Your ungratefulness to them - which is truly ugly - is a major indicator about your selfishness, lack of empathy, low appreciation of others, and self-centricism. Any of these qualities alone is guaranteed to destroy any marriage.

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If you think that your wife will be your soul mate and best friend, you're probably wrong. Your wife is your partner. She expects rights in order to fulfill obligations. Your parents, on the other hand, are the reason for your existence. They are the only people on earth who would be happy to know you're doing better than themselves. Your wife will never withstand what your mother had to withstand raising you. Your wife can walk away - and it is likely she will do so - if you treat her with the same attitude you're talking about your parents now.

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When you become a parent, you'll see how much did your parents love you. And when your teenage son mistreats you and talks badly at you and behind your back - everything you did to your parents will come back at you from your children -, you'll know how much that hurts. The sad reality, your parents will probably be gone by then. You will want to spend all your life in order to see them one more time and tell them how sorry you are for what you were.

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There is no greater gate to enter paradise than dutifulness to parents. The Prophet said whoever witnesses his parents at old age and doesn't enter paradise because of them, has no chance of entering paradise at all.

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This is my advice, brother. Take it with excellence or leave it with excellence.

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whats the most exciting thing abt ramadan?

June 07, 2016

Overflowing mosques. Hearing the sincere crying of an old man standing next to you in prayer. Feeding hungry and smiling people at sunset. Wishing the taraweeh never ends. Whispers of supplications near sunrise in the mosque. Reading Quran every spare minute of the day.

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Why is it forbidden to do that? Aren't you only responsible for yourself? If your parents are hurting your Islam, you should leave and no regrets. It says so in Surat Al-Fajr

June 07, 2016

1. It doesn't
2. You can't derive rulings from one verse of the Quran until you know what the rest of the Quran says about it. Allah says: "And your Lord has decreed that you shall not worship any but Him, and treat parents with excellence. If either reach old age with you, or both, then do not say to them Hmph!, and do not scold them, and say the most generous words to them, and lower your wing of humility to them - out of mercy, and say: Lord, have mercy on them like they raised me when I was little.

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In another verse, God says: Even if they fight you to disbelieve in me, do not obey them, but be a courteous companion to them in their life, and follow the path of those who repent to me. Then, to me you will all return and I will tell you what you used to do.

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Can you get married if you don't have a good relationship with own parents and family? Real question

June 07, 2016

Of course you can. Will it be successful? Depends how much effort you put.

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Generally speaking, the success of your relationship with your parents and family is one (but a major one) indicator of how successful your marriage will be.

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Can you get married if you don't have a good relationship with your own family and parents?

June 07, 2016

I'm already married, thanks for the offer though 😂

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Is it wrong to put your parents in a retirement home for your peace of mind?

June 07, 2016

Yes, it's forbidden for that purpose. A Muslim's peace of mind is in the service and duty to their parents, even if they were aggressive disbelievers.

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If the parents ask to be put in a retirement home because all their children are away on a trip or live far away, and they need someone to help them, AND no home care is available or affordable, AND they're pleased with the decision, AND it's not because of the children's mistreatment = Then, it is okay.

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As salam alkyum, Allah says the gates of hellfire are closed in ramadan, If a non Muslim dies in this month do they go to jannah? Or hellfire.

June 07, 2016

Anyone who dies with disbelief in God, will face an everlasting punishment starting from the grave until they enter hellfire.

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It doesn't matter if they died in Ramadan or inside the Ka'bah.

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Can you suggest me a book,one that touched your heart really deeply? Stay blessed ^_^

June 07, 2016

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do you forgive people easily?

June 07, 2016

My rights? I don't care an ounce. my religion? never!

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والدي وسهري لا يتحاكون اريدهم ان يتصالحوا. والمشكلة كبرت لحد ما ضاع الحق وصاروا التنين مخطئين بحق بعض. كيف اخليهم يتصالحوا مع العلم ان كل واحد فيهم عنيد بشكل عجيب والقصة مضى عليها 3 سنوات... انصحني لو سمحت وما يقول الشرع في تصرفهم (يا ريت بالتفصيل عشان اوصلهم الرسالة لو عندك وقت) جزاك الله خير

June 07, 2016

حضرتك الموضوع لو مشكل لهذه الدرجة انصح بسؤال مختص في الاستشارات الأسرية، يعني يفضل حد عنده شهادة وخبرة طويلة في المجال مش أي اخ بدقن والسلام.

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if that vp doesn't leave, my Ramadan will go to waste. hers too. she should not be there. ask anybody that knows about msa and about her.

June 07, 2016

Be warned that Allah is fully capable of pardoning all her mistakes, and rejecting all your good deeds. Do not go around spreading hate about anyone ever again, seek forgiveness from Allah. If there's a real complaint, talk to her, or the president in person.

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After all the glory month came... 'Ramadan Mubarak' to all. May Allah make us able to use this month in good way.

Amina Akter

June 07, 2016

Ameen.

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لحيتك عاجباني, نفسي يصير لي زيها :)

June 07, 2016

متغلاش عليك يا مولانا. عموما تنال الأجر بنيتك والتعب عليّ 😃

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السلام عليكم أنا أقرأ القرآن + التفسير من كتاب المختصر في التفسير هل يجب علي أن أقرأ بصوت خافت أم أنني أستطيع الإكتفاء بالقراءة النظرية ؟ بوركتم

June 07, 2016

القراءة للأجر = أدناه بتحريك لسان وصوت يُسمع الإنسان نفسه.
للمراجعة والتثبيت = لا يحتاج.

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salam alykum, I was watching haraimlive channel, I saw in tareeeh in witr, when shaykh Sudais is giving dua, the people behind him like shaky mager etc, don't raise their hands in dua, they only on some partshow come this is the case? Because we raise our hands at the mosques in witr. Is this wrong

June 07, 2016

it's fine. the etiquette of duaa is to raise hands in any situation.

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هل لو بسمع اغاني وقررت التوقف عنها بس لسه موجوده عندي على اللاب توب .. هل كدا دي مش توبه؟ وهل اأثم على كونها عندي؟

June 06, 2016

الإثم إثمان: إثم الإمتلاك وإثم الإستماع. والتوبة من حب المعازف تشترط التخلص من الاثنين معا. أما التوبة من الاستماع فقط فهي معتبرة وخطوة على الطريق أسأل الله أن يتقبل منك ويثيبك عليها، لكن لن تكتمل حتى تتخلص من المعازف؛ سواء آلاتها أو تسجيلاتها أو ما يتعلق بها؛ لأن كل ما حرُم استعماله مطلقا، حرُم امتلاكه مطلقا.

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يصلون الظهر وهم أحناف فلم يدخل بعد وقت العصر عندهم ولكن قد حان وقت العصر عندنا فهل يجوز أن ألتحق بصلاتهم بنية العصر مع أنهم يصلون الظهر؟

June 06, 2016

عندهم وعند مالك = لا يجوز، وعند الشافعية يجوز قولا واحدا. وعندنا = روايتان احدهما الجواز ان كانت الصلاتان متفقتين بالأفعال كظهر مع عصر، فإن اختلفتا لم يجز قولا واحدا.

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في مسألة اختلاف نية الإمام والمأموم في الصلاة كيف يرد الحنابلة على من استدل بحديث معاذ لنصر قولهم أنه جاز إمامة من يصلي الفرض وأنت تصلي صلاة نافلة

June 06, 2016

قصة طويلة 😃 شوفها في كتب الحنابلة

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Can women's infidelity in marriage be forgiven in Islam? Can a husband forgive his cheating wife (if he's sure she genuinely repented from committing Zina), or he'll be a cuckold/Dayyooth?

June 06, 2016

Yes everything can be forgiven. However, if four witnesses testified that they saw a married person commit adultery, then s/he is punished by stoning, whether they repent or not. Personal forgiveness has nothing to do with the rights and laws of the society. A person who witnesses his/her partner commit adultery, can testify to the judge - by making five consecutive oaths to God. If the partner doesn't admit, the judge would divorce them permanently, and the cannot remarry again.
He doesn't have to be dayyooth, but I don't think any man would do that.

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Is Allah swt the 6 sign Lion of the Judah?

June 06, 2016

I would suppose the asker isn't a Muslim, because the answer - as known by any Muslim is - no. Allah (arabic word for God) is the Creator. He is nothing like any creation. God says "There is nothing like unto Him"

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Anything you can possibly imagine about how God looks = cannot be God.

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Imagine you're a duracell bunny, and you're trying to imagine how your maker looks like, what kind of a bunny he is, and what kind of a duracell battery in his back. That's the same nonsense when any human tries to depict God in an anthropomorphic way, or assimilate God to a tree, or an animal, or anything of His creation.

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كل عام و أنتم بخير... مبارك عليكم الشهر.

June 06, 2016

علينا وعليكم أجمعين، وتقبل الله منا ومنكم ومن سائر القارئين

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بارك الله فيك! (سائل سؤال التقليد والاجتهاد والاتباع)

June 06, 2016

وفيك يا حبيب

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