bro goes missing like this more than two times a week. his appearance and appetite changed. am i really supposed to sleep? what do u mean he's 19?
Means you deal with issues like this through mature conversations with an adult in the day time, not as a panicking parent over a 9 year old boy. Islamically, he's responsible for his own actions since the day turned 15. If there's a behavioural problem, talk it through or seek assistance. Make duaa for him.