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vr nguncir 1 dong

Teman-temanku juga suka ngelihat cewek ngucirin rambut, jadi kamu tak aneh.
Tapi setidaknya mereka gak lancang minta cewek-cewek di internet buat ngucirin rambut mereka di depan kamera.
(Terus ternyata ini request temanku yang bersembunyi di balik topeng anonim.)

What communication are studying about??

Basically, you learn how to manipulate people, but please don't take this from someone who knew about Communication Studies from random websites on internet.

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Our queen @skeletale goes to UNAIR

YESSS.
I first knew UNAIR from her, and when I saw UNAIR while I was looking for an esteemed public university with an accredited Communication Studies major, I decided to consider it as one my top three choices for PTN.
This was meant to happen okay. I am looking forward to bumping into @skeletale somewhere in Surabaya and clicking together instantly and we'll be BFFs and run the world together.
A girl can dream, alright.

How your sbmptn

Well, I got into UNAIR(!!!)
Crazy grateful because I thought I wouldn't pass. Also, veeeeery excited because... Surabaya! Who would've thought? I have never been there😆
P.S. If anyone happens to know anyone who is/was an UNAIR student OR if you happen to have boarding houses/apartments recommendations near the university, please contact me? Thank you!

ever confess your feelings to a boy?

Yes.
Not exactly a boy, really.
With the assumption that someone - anyone - will judge me, no, it's not unusual. Or "murahan" (literally cheap) as Indonesians put it. What? A woman (or anyone, honestly) can't be straightforward about her feelings?

What is your point of view of your religion and of religion?

This is not something I can talk about in just an ask.fm answer. If you do want to discuss about it, either meet me IRL or chat me up.

it'd be nice if you could share a few tips on how to be assertive and opinionated? (in the sense that one is independent and critical in thinking. Most people your age either dont give a shit about 'issues' or are simply too reluctant to use their brain to read, let alone to think.)

I am in no place to share any tips as I myself am struggling with that, too. The fundamental rule is in your question tho. Don't be too reluctant to use your brain to read or think.

how do you spend your holiday?

Nothing that will come to fruition in the near future. I suggest you to do the opposite (read: do not delay anything important).
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Meanwhile, I just came back from a friend's farewell BBQ party x sleepover at which about 80% of us did not sleep. It was unspeakably... Beautiful. All the epiphanies throughout the late hours. I feel like so many things - great things - happened last night/this morning it is still surreal.
Good night, I am getting some sleep now.

tips on how to spend holidays creatively/productively? What to do/read/watch?

Hey person, I honestly don't think you need any tips. It is entirely up to you how you want to spend this holiday. I am pretty certain you have a list of things you've always wanted to do but haven't quite had the chance to. Well, this is a good time to accomplish them!

What words of wisdom would you pass onto your childhood self?

Drop the attitude, you entitled brat.
She'll get it.

In what ways are you a leader? In what ways are you a follower?

Leader di saat (aku dan) yang lain malas ngurus sesuatu.
Follower di saat aku (dan yang lain juga) malas ngurus sesuatu.
Get it get it get it?

What do you define as “manliness”?

What is manliness even? Sounds archaic to me.
/obsoleting gender binary/

Most men pay for the first date. Your thoughts?

Mm, nothing wrong with that if they want to?
I think it's for PEOPLE (not society) to decide whether only one party pays everything or both parties (it's not always a man and a woman who have first dates mind you) split the bill.
If it's me, I will always step in when the bill comes because I don't like the idea of burdening someone with the supposed responsibility to pay. Screw gender roles🏼
Also, for future reference, when we have our first date and you offer to pay, DO NOT say, "Gak apa2 kok, masa cewek yang bayar. Aku kan gentleman,". First and last date, my friend. Goodbye, adieu, 再见. Even if you're hot af.

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