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When you had the interview in lush. What was the questions and the response you told them? Im having a hard time responding the question "whats your weakness"?

I just was 100% honest. At that time, inner confidence was my weakness so that is exactly what I told them! Honesty is key with confidence too. I was confident and proud in all my answers. I made sure there was no need for clarification.

I've been following you for a while and am really impressed by your personality! I think you've matured quite a bit since I started following you. One question, what types of things should I be asking myself to really figure out who I am?

Wow that's awesome! Hahah it's good to know I'm growing up (: What I meant by that is that last year I really took some time to figure myself out. I asked myself the questions of "what am I doing here" and "what is my purpose." Needless to say, I didn't find my answer, but I continued to reassure myself that whatever I do has a purpose. Just because I don't see it or other's don't believe in me doesn't mean shit. I allowed myself to explore the deepest and darkest pits of my mind. A word of caution: when you become comfortable in doing so, be careful how long you allow yourself to linger there because it's hard to come back to real life in my opinion. I know this sounds like some stupid meditation shit, but it's not. I literally spent that year in a depression, but by doing so I realized so much more about myself. Of course I am not saying you should become depressed or in a dark state, just allow yourself to spread out and allow your mind to take you where it wants to regardless of religion, previous beliefs, previous notions, morals, anything. Then after that, decide what is the most appropriate and best solution to your life.
Remember though, I still don't know who I am. I only know a fraction of what I pretend to be. Figuring out who you are also involves putting on different masks to see which one you want to create. Really hope this helps!

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You are literally perfect. I love your confidence and style! Do you have any advice for a person like me (I'm very quiet and shy) to overcome this and be the person I want to be?

First, thank you so much for that kind compliment! I'm actually pretty quiet myself; I don't like to speak unless it's something important and I'd rather watch how others behave. I think the best thing to do with yourself is sit down one night and have a serious conversation with yourself on who you are now, who you want to be tomorrow, and who you want to be in the future. Don't share it with anyone. Don't tell the world everything that you are too quickly. Create yourself in silence. And I don't mean changing yourself superficially. I mean thoughtfully pondering yourself, your behavior, your words, actions, etc.
Once you accept what you think you are and stop giving a shit about others, you'll notice a difference in your life. I used to change for people, and to some extent I still do. But I can honestly say the friends I currently have now see the true side of me sans bullshit and I will say that after I re-evaluated some of my past relationships I took some time to myself away from everyone else. Once I got over that first week of loneliness I realized being alone ain't too bad. JUST when I got used to being alone, I literally met a couple of amazing people I wish I had spoken to earlier...

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Why do you ever want to stop it tho? Its a kinda a good habit

When if gets in the way of living out your life, its itsn't a good thing anymore. And I'm talking about inhabitions.

What are they mainly about?

To keep it short: basically my feels about everything that is happening in my life. But I'm working on stopping this habit (:

And what do you think people think about you?

LOL I think that sorta defeats the purpose of the last question/answer

What is the best advise you have ever heard?

To stop giving a fuck about what people thought about me.

What's a warning sign that you're in the presence of bad company?

When they talk bad about other people

I've been perming / applying keratin treatment to my hair just to fit in and I got to a point where I really want my hair to grow and take care of it as it is, no perm no nothing, but I'm afraid that if hate it and that it'll be hard to manage. Any advice ?

Well, everyone that has gone natural feels that way. Being curly isn't hard to manage, it's just a lifestyle change you have to get used to, but along that journey is a very rewarding experience. No matter what you choose, just know that you have a lot of people that will be supporting you on youtube and other sites, and you don't have to worry about it too much! You'll be fine! (:

What kind of people do u hate/dislike the most?

I definitely would not say hate because hate is a rude & immature reaction, but I dislike people who aren't 100% real with me. I'll always be honest with you so don't hide things from me

Could you go for the rest of your life without drinking alcohol?

Of course! It is against my religion (Baha'i) and I'm positive you can too (:

What are your plans for college? (I know sorry, most dreaded and annoying thing anybody could ask)

I love this question because I've got it all planned! My major is aerospace engineering and I will be either working for NASA or Boeing in the future. As for specific colleges I am deciding between SMU & Embry-Riddle Aeronautical University (which is clearly the better choice!)

Then take a look at that mirror, and youll see the most beautiful girl around

awww wow! thank you so much! this really brightened up my day! (:

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