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5) but i dont know if i should be bitter and not reply or give it to him. I genuinely feel his friends "gassed" him up to make this decision but he has hurt me! What should i do ???HELP.

Hey love dancing with guys whilst youre in a relationship is not always the greatest idea UNLESS you're sure it was honestly just a 'two step' and nothin inappropriate. You're other mistake was asking him to come get his stuff but expecting to speak. You should have communicated what YOU really wanted.
Don't ignore his text, forget his friends and text what it is you'd really like to say. I hope things work out x

4)... as the argument was not that deep. But he has this habit of listening to his friends n they always have something bad to say but he cant understand this. Through out our relationship he has done so many things which ive forgiven. His messaged me as he forgot smethin important at mine...

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3) he is single! I asked him was it meant n he just gave me a cheeky answer. I got angry nd i told him to come n get his belonging. I honestly had the intentions of sorting this out but wen he came round he was giving the cold shoulder. N he asked to break up. I feel hurt n confused...

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2) he didnt communicate this to me initially until wen we were out nd I "forced" it out of him as he was acting off. We then got into an argument, after we didnt talk abwt it as he said he didnt want to talk to me. He then put something on twitter which was inappropriate as it made it look like...

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1) me and my boyfriend recently broke up because of a very silly argument that excalated based on me two stepping with two guys in the clurb- 1 who he knows as my friend the other is a mutual friend. He said he found it inappropriate as one of them used to have feelings for me...

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I've been in a sexual relationship with this one guy in specific for nearly 5 years now but the only thing that's missing is oral sex, I've never given oral sex to anyone and I really want to try it, but I'm nervous.. How do I overcome this?

Hey darling, oral for first timers is always best around foreplay.. Just before you get into it. Over come it by trying to be relaxed about it & also making it more fun/interesting try using some edible flavoured lube.
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I love my boyfriend, he ticks every box. However, I'm not in love (whatever that is). What if it never comes? Is love enough

It depends, love grows. If yours doesn't it's on you to figure out what's best.
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I've been talking (seeing) to this guy for just over a month now. My birthday is in a week, do I expect something or not? Btw we've been intimate n just trying to take it slow as we are both not ready for a relationship

Something how? A present?
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I have been with my boyfriend and recently he's asked me if we can have balloons in bed while we have sex, he asks me to bounce on them naked and likes me to pop them, I wanna know if this is normal or a very strange fetish. I don't feel so comfortable doing it.

Seems like a fetish, i answered a very similar question 30 mins ago. The same goes.
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My child's father and I are no longer together as he was unfaithful to me and is still with the girl he cheated on me with, even though he is unfaithful to her 2. I refuse to sleep with him & he therefore now refuses to see our child. I'm in 2 minds whether 2 just play that role for ny child or not?

Sorry to hear about this mess. The most important person here is your child. I'd advice you play as many roles in your child's life as possible because he/she shouldn't have to suffer through this.

Oloni. Is height a DealBreaker. I never used to be one who fixated on height but recently it's my bug-a-boo ?. I've passed up good guys because of height. I'm 5"5 but even guys 5"8 I find 'too short'. I keep saying I need 'heel allowance' - am I being too picky?? ?

Yes you are and you will stay single lol!
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im seeing a guy who says he doesn't want anything serious, and he wants us to see other ppl, i don't mind seeing other ppl atm bcos its not serious right now but I want it to build up into a relationship. . . what should I do?

Get my eBook everything in that will honestly help you. http://simplyoloni.com/product/100-questions/ ❤️

I've been talking to this guy and he are going to meet up and he wants to stay over, this be the first time us meeting what are your thoughts

No way, that's very unsafe. Meet in public go back to your own home by YOURSELF.

ex cheated on me for 10/12 months we were together, recently found out... Prior to us dating we agreed no direct sex but other sexual activities. I don't understand the concept behind his actions in dating me overall?? He says he never cheated & claims He only spoke to her because i was busy(exams).

He's an idiot, get rid of him and pathetic excuses.

Yes he does gamble in my shop. That's where I met him lol

Urgh! You need to bar him from it. No, but honestly you're going to have to address this to him. I do feel like it's a red flag & something that won't change over night. You just have to figure out if you're willing to wait and help him through it. If not, leave.

I've been looking at the replies to my question on twitter - I have engaged in role play and tried to compromise but he keps asking me to do it fully. Our sex life is not the same and I don't know whether to leave or not. It's got to a point where he is obsessed and I'm very uncomfortable

You have to sit him down & talk to him about it. Explain really well how it's making you feel. If you're sad and uncomfortable, he has to know. When you do talk see how you feel and decide what you want to do in terms of carrying on with the relationship.

My bf and I have been together for 3years when we are happy we are the perfect couple but when we argue we could kill each other. It feels like we have had more bad days than good how do we get past the bad things that have happened b/c trying to forget them hasn't worked. X

Hey darling! I actually answer this very popular question in my new eBook 100 Questions get it here: http://simplyoloni.com/product/100-questions/

My boyfriend has a weird sexual fetish - he fantasizes about me cheating on him and asks me to do it regularly. I, however, find it so disturbing that he enjoys thinking about me with other men. He tells me he still loves me, and it's just a strong desire. Should I stay in this relationship? X

These fetishes are very common amongst men, especially those who are in open relationships that include swinging. Only do what you're comfortable with! If what he's asking for makes you feel the opposite, then ask that he stops requesting it.
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Hi Oloni, my ex was cheating on me with one of his close friends we ended the relationship but still slept together once afterwards.. A couple days after I found out that he was still seeing the girl and has also slept with her but she doesn't know that he was two timing..should I tell her?

She's not important & he's your ex, just remove yourself from the situation. He's playing you both.

so you are saying that as a girl it's OK to be attracted to girls a bit....are you also saying its ok to have sex with them even though you like guys or better still engage in a threesome??

I'm trying to guess where this is a follow up from, but I can't. It's okay, to do what the hell you want.

My boyfriend has a gambling problem and I work in a bookies. I dunno how too go about talking too him bcus I don't want work too interfere with our rship.

Does he gamble in your shop?

I deleted a guys number cos I like him so much more than he seems to like me but now I miss him so much, do I just keep ignoring him? Or just get his number back?

You need to let your feelings die down a bit and then contact him as normal.

I'm beginning to like a guy that's two years younger than me in uni. I'm about to start work and he still has three years of uni to go. Do you think this could ever work?

If you want it to, of course.
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